Im 16 f and okay i might be dramatic with the title… but recently i feel like i am the black sheep at school. I have plenty of friends but i feel like they have been off with me lately. For example someone can say the craziest shit ever and the rest of the crew thinks it’s hilarious but when i say something to add on with it the response i get is “huh?” And awkward silence… when i tray to say something as-well my friends tend to pretend that they didn’t hear me and look the other way! I feel like im going insane. For example i went out with my friends to a pub and my mum bought me a vodka bottle and said to share it with a friend that we were picking up. The whole night she had the vodka she drank mostly of it and the next day she’s acting weird with me as if it was my fault that she drank it all?? My friends barely talk to me and they almost never texts me (only if they need something) i also see them talking with other people just fine and laughing a lot and when they talk with me its super dry… for example again lol when they sit next to me they just turn to the person next to them and talk to them and i have to put in the effort to talk in the conversation. They make me feel like im not as pretty or popular as them they can literally go with a guy as they would like too. Guys dont find me attractive at all and its really messing with my self confidence. Ive never been one to find myself ugly but its starting to affect me…
Why do i feel like nobody likes me?
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Your friends suck. You’re probably unique and intelligent. A lot of normal, boring, or dumb people have problems with people like you. They probably keep you around because there is something they can use you for.
you need better friends.
These people are not your friends. And why is your mother buying you vodka?
Because these aren’t friends. They’re just acquaintances you’re together with because you’re in the same math class or whatever. And that’s ok! It’s fantastic to be friendly with everyone, as you’re trying to be, but just don’t mistake that for friendship.
You’ll make real friends once you’re out of high school and meet more people and have more life experiences out doing things you want to do. You might never see most of these people again after graduating anyway.
In the meantime, can you find activities outside school where you can do things you like and maybe meet like-minded people as a bonus? Pour yourself into your hobbies and interests, create no time for people who aren’t really interested.
I don’t even need to read all this.
You’re 16. In 2 years time you will not talk to 98-% of these ppl.
Guys probably go with them because they view them as easy. 16 year old boys care about sex non stop and will try and get with who they think will put out the easiest.
Lastly they are not your friends.
You will soon be done HS and be an adult, you will meet new friends, new boys then realize you want a man.
Dont let the little things now bother you, you have many years left to experience the joys of life.
drop them as friends asap, whats the point of having friends who don’t fulfill their role?
I don’t want to be harsh, but it seems like they have changed and don’t want you as a friend anymore, and it’s part of life, sometimes you need to find new friends.
But, to be honest, they should have just told you that instead of treating you like this…
It’s not you, it’s them. They don’t sound like good friends or even friends.
you need new friends. and even if you can‘t befriend new people at your school, it doesn’t matter. i can tell you from experience that people at school literally do not matter as soon as you‘re done.
You’re 16 in a few years time most of you won’t be talking anymore. Some people are in our life for a lesson a season or a lifetime. Find better friends bc no one deserves to feel unwanted. You just haven’t met your people yet. These girls aren’t your people.