What was your first sexual experience like?

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What was your first sexual experience like?

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  1. if_you_only_knew_ Avatar

    It was okay I guess

  2. EndMePlease223 Avatar

    Short and messy

  3. legendyboi Avatar

    It was highschool so pretty nerve racking but still great for our first time

  4. Waxitsyoboi Avatar

    I tried, she didn’t

  5. Nomorelevels Avatar

    Took long enough for it to happen.

  6. [deleted] Avatar

    Not great. It was his first time too so neither of us didn’t really know what we were doing and he had quite too big of a dick for me, especially since he didn’t really know to be gentle with it. All in all: awkward, painful and not fun

  7. Aardvark1044 Avatar

    Dead Kennedys made a song about it. Well, not about mine specifically but one sorta like mine. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7TWLxCIgwE

  8. Ordinary_Fox_7129 Avatar

    Still waiting😭🙏

  9. clitclack Avatar

    Very sweet and not painful thankfully

  10. Sjodor Avatar

    My first experience was definitely nerve-wracking but also kind of magical in a way. I was super nervous and had no idea what to expect, but thankfully, the guy I was with was really understanding and patient. It wasn’t like the movies at all—no dramatic music or perfect lighting—but it felt real. There was a lot of awkwardness and fumbling, but honestly, I think that’s what made it feel genuine. We both kind of figured things out together, and it turned out to be a pretty great experience in the end.

    I didn’t know what to expect, but I learned a lot about myself that night, what I liked, what I didn’t, and how important it is to be with someone who makes you feel comfortable. It’s funny looking back on it now because it was so different from the fantasy I’d always built up in my head, but it was still a huge step for me.

  11. Fantastic-End5489 Avatar

    Couldn’t stay hard enough to complete the act and then got a ridiculous BJ/HJ combo. Think the shot hit the ceiling…

    Next time around was way better!

  12. hideyoursources Avatar

    grandma walked in on me. had dementia though so just kind of cleaned while we hid under the covers

  13. Comfortable-Leg-703 Avatar

    Painful and bloody 

  14. ChiefRedChild Avatar

    I puked on her.

  15. Buntyford123 Avatar

    I got a hjob in the park, it was actually amazing and still hold it in high regard to this day. She did a good job, I made a mess 🤭🫡

  16. Logos89 Avatar

    Awful, but I learned a lot about myself in the process so there’s a silver lining

  17. Stunnnnnnnnned Avatar

    I had some sexual experiences when I was very young, but I didn’t know what “sexual” was, so I didn’t perceive them that way. They felt good, and I was not scared, so it just felt fun. I don’t know how else to say it.
    The first one I had that felt was actually sexual, was with another guy when I was around 13. Not gonna lie, it was pretty amazing.

  18. Festering-Fecal Avatar

    Really depends on what you consider sexual experience.

    First kiss as far as tounge and everything was in middle school after that touching and stuff but never went past that.

    Found out I like ethnic women and her name I mid you not was America.

  19. Charming_Size2937 Avatar

    Handjob with my best friend

  20. Legal_Refuse1005 Avatar

    Sweet, luxurious, and amazing. You modern kids would say she was a thick milf. Older sister of a high school friend. We had sex several times, friends with benefits. Quite a woman. I was very lucky.

  21. STANL3Y_YELNAT5 Avatar

    Honestly incredible. It was both of our first times. We liked it so much we kept doing it lol

  22. T62-A Avatar
  23. AshlynThorne Avatar

    Underwhelming.🫤

  24. ScissorCandy Avatar

    Horrible because he rammed it up the wrong hole

  25. ChromeWhipLover Avatar

    Exciting and Ghetto

  26. Material_Finding6525 Avatar

    U guys have first sexual experiences?

  27. Corey307 Avatar

    Clumsy and it lasted forever.

  28. AnotherDarnedThing Avatar

    Drunken, nasty, logistically awkward (she was 5 foot wall and I was 6 foot of inexperienced teenager.

  29. Some-Slice-2498 Avatar

    Used a condom couldn’t stay hard. Never used one again for the most part

  30. Pompousdickbiscuit Avatar

    Best 12 seconds of my life

  31. ykthispussy Avatar

    eh could’ve been better

  32. Daratirek Avatar

    Fast. So fast.

  33. Prestigious-Part-697 Avatar

    I’ll never forget it. We lied by omission to my mom and dad that we were gonna get slushees at the gas station. We actually got condoms too and we waited for them to go to bed and we went at it. Neither of us knew much but it was as good as you can ask for first time wise

  34. Neat-Cucumber-5253 Avatar

    Underwhelming. I could go into deeper detail but it would be a waste of the readers time

  35. roiroi1010 Avatar

    Not too bad actually.

  36. Illustrious_Young_58 Avatar

    Too short to remember

  37. Caprison__ Avatar

    That what turns me like this now.

  38. foxstrikesatnight Avatar

    Really special. I felt extremely vulnerable but safe and loved

  39. calebm97 Avatar

    It was super awkward

  40. Head_Wasabi7359 Avatar

    It was awesome! I banged my bosses daughter who was a bit older than me. We did the sex three times.

    The next day I was going to play dnd with my mate and did not realize I also had my first hangover. I thought sex made you bit nauseous , it wasn’t until much later I realized I was just hungover

  41. kalelopaka Avatar

    Awkward, neither one of us had any experience, so we fumbled around and made out a lot, some touching and fondling. The actual sex was really awkward figuring out how to position ourselves, but we managed and it was over pretty quickly. The next time was better.

  42. Competitive-Act6963 Avatar

    Very wholesome, type of thing you see in the movies. Two virgin teens who loved each other trying it for the first time, it was very awkward and there was no penetration but I’m glad I got to experience that.

  43. Cyber_Blue2 Avatar

    Terrible. I understand the need for condoms, but holy fuck, no one ever told me it makes sex feel like I’m shoving my dick into a plastic tube.

    That, and the fact that it was Halloween and trick-or-treaters kept ringing the doorbell.

  44. Puzzleheaded_Pay7510 Avatar

    Anticlimactic….for me lol.

  45. Business-Giraffe-576 Avatar

    He got cum in my eye 🥲

  46. Babyskin_Wallet Avatar

    First sexual experience, parents out of town, party at my house was winding down and I kept waiting for my girlfriend to leave like everyone else… ohhhhhh. First sexing, “damn, you have beer? I would suck your dick for a beer”. Say no more! Took a long time to finish, switched to a new plan for 1.4 seconds, mission accomplished.

  47. StarrySkye3 Avatar

    I had a threesome that mostly involved some grinding and kissing and then watching two people fuck.

    It wasn’t the worst, but for a first experience it could’ve been better.

  48. daddys-lovebug21 Avatar

    Red everywhere. I feel bad for ruining the hotel sheets 💀

  49. Cris_x Avatar

    Awkward and a bit uncomfortable, my ex gf fingered me in our friends bathroom during 7 minutes in heaven

  50. haywoodjabloughmee Avatar

    It was all kinds of story. We had sex on the floor of her boyfriend’s bedroom. Afterward we left and later learned he arrived 5 minutes after we left.

  51. tastybear12 Avatar

    Honestly disappointing & I didn’t even know it was rly happening at first lmao. I had to fake it so I could leave & make it to work in time😅

  52. tapedficus Avatar

    Awful. Just awful. And several experiences after that.

  53. x0diak Avatar

    I was 19m, the lady was 28f, I peed. On subsequent attempts she gave me a blowjob to the song ‘House of pain’ by Faster Pussycat. I then realized why I exist.

  54. David_Brinson Avatar

    I couldn’t get hard cuz I was so nervous

  55. TheRealSasquatch- Avatar

    Like making sweet and spicy love to a bean bag chair.

  56. Traditional-Banana78 Avatar

    Very first ever? Ladies, please be kind to your man if he should experience “performance anxiety.” Took me quite a while to get over it.

  57. Cryptographer_Prize Avatar

    I was lured by a twenty something when I was 14 into her house. She pulled my shorts down, on the couch, and proceeded on her knees… She then rolled me on top of her and pushed me inside of her. I remember feeling and seeing light becoming intensely sharp, almost hallucinatory and, some part of my consciousness that was asleep, was now awake. Of course, I didn’t know what I was doing so, she then placed herself on top of me. I remember vividly what that looked like. She was bouncing on top of my thighs l, leaning back, she had a gorgeous pair of breasts. She threw her head back and rhythmically rolled her hips in-between bouncing. Some part of me wanted to enjoy it. But, upon looking back, it felt violent. I immediately wanted to go to my friend’s house and play video games and pretend like nothing had ever happened. My friends found out and wanted to know every detail. I just told them that she smelled funny and, they left me alone about it.

  58. Diamoncock Avatar

    She said i was “big”

  59. maddyhuntx Avatar

    Very sweaty and messy

  60. DoggedlyOffensive Avatar

    I was 16 and super high. We’d dated for maybe half a year. I hadn’t seen her in months, maybe a year.

    We ended up fucking in a back alley for maybe two hours. It was fine, but when I came, I thought ‘that’s it?’.

    She was a great girl though.

  61. flipper_babies Avatar

    We lost our virginity to each other. She was on top. She drooled in my eye.

  62. Imaginary_Praline_39 Avatar

    Drunk and regrettable

  63. bustmode_gotme Avatar

    Very awkward lol. She said it hurt too bad so I didn’t finish then we attempted anal and didn’t last long so handy finished it off for me. Wearing white shorts was not a good idea that day when her cherry popped

  64. throwaway790305 Avatar

    Cramped

    It was in what I thought was a cupboard

    my gf didn’t want her father to walk in

  65. Daneatsbeef Avatar

    She bled on my car hood and when I saw it the next morning I thought I had hurt her. She was fine of course but I was scared af

  66. Successful-Dish7466 Avatar

    I was twelve she was eleven. We were kissing in of the many hidden corners in the building we were living. On that corner there was a an old couch and we were there when she popped out my wiener and just put it inside of her. It was pretty warm I have to say.

    It’s gonna sound weird but I think that one wasn’t her first time because she didn’t even moaned or blinked. She just started moving so good I felt it was unreal.

    Needless to say I came inside her but nothing happened. We saw each other a couple of times more but that one was the only time we made it.

  67. UnknownDawn Avatar

    I was a bit shocked when he came in my mouth. Like I knew what to expect but it was still surprising

  68. oddjob_rimjob Avatar

    It was an odd experience

  69. No_Tailor_787 Avatar

    I was 18. It was with my HS sweetheart. We had been together for a couple of years, but were smart enough to hold out for a while. We went camping on a road trip together and did it in a tent out in the woods.

    We had a good time.

    We ended up married and had two kids together.

  70. too_legit_to_quip Avatar

    Gave up my virginity. Thought I was entering into a profound and meaningful new relationship. Found out the next day that I was just a revenge fuck against her current boyfriend. Still consider it win. SHE WAS HOT AS FUCK.

  71. vxllvnuxvx Avatar

    fast and a bit awkward lmao

  72. Real-Psychology-4261 Avatar

    My now wife and I fucked in her dorm room while watching Napoleon Dynamite. That was my first time. I was 19. 

    Prior to that, lots of handys and bjs starting around age 15. 

  73. krug8263 Avatar

    Used a ribbed condom my first time. Couldn’t feel a damn thing. But I stayed hard as a rock for two hours straight trying to cum. It was really good but I just couldn’t finish. I blue balled myself so bad that when I was able to go later it hurt like hell. Been with the same girl for the past 15 years. It has only gotten better. She wasn’t able to get on birth control due to a medical issue so for the first 10 years I used a condom. Damn things suck. She is hypersensitive so she doesn’t last that long and I’m like well shit I could go forever.
    Haven’t used a condom in the last 3 years. We are in our late 30s and it has been so amazing to finally finish in her. We just go by timing her cycle. It’s worked so far. No babies yet.
    I have had to completely reprogram myself to actually finish. But so worth it. It’s like I had been edging for the last decade.

  74. Upset_Eye_2026 Avatar

    i was like “thats it? this is what people raving about?”

  75. PaperHandsMcGee213 Avatar

    3 thrusts and embarrassment

  76. Middle_General3244 Avatar

    15 years old at a catholic church, on a bean bag chair. 10/10 would recommend.

  77. 53D0N4 Avatar

    Gave the dude blue balls unintentionally. Pretty sure that’s what prompted his friend to spread a nude of me to multiple schools. Was 16

  78. LazyCozyDizzy Avatar

    Not as good as I imagined it to be 😎

  79. limafoxtrot88 Avatar

    Longest I’ve ever lasted, still friends with her till this day.

  80. liquidswimming Avatar

    Nerve wracking. I didn’t really have any clue what I was doing.

  81. FordTech81 Avatar

    Mundane. Didn’t know what I was doing, neither did she. Was kind of awkward at first till we found the correct ways to move.

  82. Brilliant-Net-750 Avatar

    she made all the moves cause I was clueless. it was after a house party and we were the last people up. she comes into my room and asks if we can watch something together. I put on family guy lmao. then she gets under the covers cause she said she’s cold. I’m still at my desk laughing at family guy. Episode ends. I ask, “do you want me to join you under there?” She nods yes. I turn out the lights so it’s pitch black. get under the covers and go to business. had no idea what to do, just remember knocking bodies against bodies. did the deed and we cuddled afterwards. we parted ways in the morning and never saw her again (she was from out of town just visiting a friend that night)

  83. UsefulAd175 Avatar

    Incredibly underwhelming. Wedding night, hot tub, feather bed, and about as awkward and overhyped as you might imagine.

  84. EaglesFanTexass Avatar

    30 seconds, went in again maybe 2 mins 😂 best feeling ever though for the first time.

  85. geth1962 Avatar

    Quick! I was way too excited. Two jerks and a squirt
    The next two or three were at least 5 jerks.

  86. Altruistic_Seat_6644 Avatar

    It was horrible. I was raped.

  87. tryinandsurvivin Avatar

    Nerve wracking, intense, and I thought I had a relationship. I was wrong

  88. textbook38 Avatar

    Loved it. I did well too

  89. Relentlesswrx18 Avatar

    we had carsex in her car.. everytime i put it in she let out a loud gasp like dam i really got it like that 😎

  90. masterP168 Avatar

    didn’t know what I was doing but it was great

  91. kittyylau Avatar

    Amazing 🤤😍😍😍

  92. captain-deeznuts Avatar

    I got a hjob in a t-top Camaro (gf’s car) and I painted the inside of her car.

  93. dartni Avatar

    It was good, a bit awkward but my bf guided me through it

  94. Additional_Panda_993 Avatar

    I’ve been invited by some women to do it, im tempted but im only 18 and the one time that traumatized me the most is when this classmate of mine invited me, obviously i refused and she threatened me to turn it up against me saying she’d tell that im forcing her to do it, but thankfully she apologized lol that was the stressful moment of my life

  95. Kevin6661987 Avatar

    Had sex in a motel and it was pretty good

  96. Magegaard Avatar

    It was on the beach and it already hurts but mix in a fumbling 16 year old guy and sand my coochyoochyoowwwww

    The sunrise was nice tho

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  98. Unlucky_Pair8457 Avatar

    Wasn’t even physically touched and too this day it beats all the others

  99. The_gordo_games Avatar

    It was the first time for both of them and that’s why neither of them had any experience, which wasn’t the best thing

  100. JaklinOhara Avatar

    Confusing. Painful. Embarrassing.

  101. Ozonewanderer Avatar

    1.5 hours of begging followed by 10 seconds of insertion and
    Ejaculation. “Is that it?!” She says.

  102. duh-oh Avatar

    She made the first move. Went to her place after a movie. Totally unexpected. Still feel the rush when I think of it.

  103. Gloomy-Property-4305 Avatar

    Enlightenment plus discovery

  104. Beastmutt Avatar

    First thing I remember thinking was “….this is way warmer than my hand!”
    She cried and said she loved and I gave her a partial creampie after she was slow to respond to the butt slap warnings when I was about to blow.

  105. mav3r1ckblu3 Avatar

    Gone in 60 seconds……

  106. ConsciousMusic123 Avatar

    Probably….not something that should have happened. I didn’t realize what was exactly happening until it was almost too late….

  107. KenTheKink Avatar

    Out in the dark standing, she straddled my dick, i was surprised it felt like nothing.

  108. Azura_rose Avatar

    Tbh it was great. He had experience, I didn’t, and he loves to please.  Still with him 14 years later, and it’s still just as good.

  109. he_ayerse Avatar

    Innocent, just two girls discovering things.

  110. frosty_nympho Avatar

    Loved it! Later became addicted to sex as I get to know that I am seriously a nympho lol

  111. MT_Pocketss Avatar

    I was scared!! It was dark and I was alone

  112. Clinkiii Avatar

    I mean, pretty good. Playing OG black ops, got down and dirty with her on the kitchen counter- her brother walks in…

    Hell of a first time only to be interrupted by her adult brother being like “wtf”

  113. RayTheKid13 Avatar

    Nice but awkward but nice

  114. ShoeNo9050 Avatar

    Was 26 when it happened. Everyone always was like omg you gonna feel great it’s gonna change your life.

    But to me it wasn’t anything out of this world when it comes to feeling well after.

    It was fun. And with someone who uses his hand a lot I thought I’d struggle to not arrive too fast (as I guess any guys fears for first time). But it went for a good hour before it happened. So that’s was nice.

  115. The_Rechtub Avatar

    First kiss, I was smiling so much I couldn’t put my lips out to kiss , and our teeth banged together , was super weird and I guess he told everyone, so that was me done for high school , and this happened in first year 7 camp

  116. bigfootlittefoot Avatar

    It was the most awkward experience in my life it still haunts me to this day

  117. Nitralius Avatar

    Quite painful, actually.

    The day before I lost my virginity, I was in the hospital with a swollen testicle and tested positive for blood and protein in my urine. The pain between my legs was insane. I’d been doing something earlier that day when this sharp pain started growing, and I nearly passed out from it.

    What caused it? A so-called friend decided it would be hilarious to kick me in the balls without warning. I was on the ground screaming. One of my testicles had apparently twisted itself up throughout the week and swelled up like crazy when the pain appeared and for the next week it felt like someone was hammering them non-stop.

    So, after the hospital told me to rest and take it easy… I went home, and this girl I’d been seeing was over this weekend. She was insanely horny and really wanted to have sex. I wasn’t feeling it at all, I was still in pain and just wanted to lie down, but she kept teasing and asking.

    Eventually, I gave in. I remember the 11 minutes clearly, she was moaning and loving every second, while I was silently screaming on the inside, trying not to pass out. But hey, I didn’t want to miss the chance.

    Aah, good times!

  118. TruckersAreBored Avatar

    Shootin pool with a rope I was so nervous. I can only assume my last sexual experience will be the same.

  119. confidentialhawa7 Avatar

    Couldnt penetrate. Ended up cuddling.
    Maybe its because of height difference or we’re both new to it so couldnt figure it out.
    Did again the next day using pillow method.

  120. Grumpy-old_man29 Avatar

    Snapped my banjo 100% don’t recommend

  121. god_of_melon Avatar

    regrettable and quite (very VERY) stupid

  122. TheConboy22 Avatar

    Awkward. As it should be. We all got through it. Was 4 of us there. Had a lot of fun with those 3 over the years.

  123. Salt_Eye_7239 Avatar

    She queefed on me 😞

  124. cantsleepconfused Avatar

    Intensely nervous but exciting.. truly special

  125. DzontraVolta Avatar

    It was humble… In the family circle.

  126. Bettercallmedaddyy Avatar

    It took me so long to cum, she was enjoying, I was hella exhausted

  127. Idum23 Avatar

    non-consensual.

  128. exposed_web Avatar

    Never had one

  129. Liamface Avatar

    It sucked. I had no idea what to expect. First he kissed me and then ate my ass – I didn’t even know people did that at the time. It like completely set off my health anxiety lmao. And, then the lube he used burned my ass so bad (allergic). I wasn’t feeling it after that but he kept trying to shush me while he tried to jam his cock in me.

    He got annoyed and said I need to stop being anxious but I just wasn’t into it, or him.

    He was the worst kisser too, it felt like his lips covered my face. There was no kissing, he was just sucking my face off (while Celine Dion played in the background mins you).

  130. SignificantTill7160 Avatar

    It was meh, felt forced and I was inexperienced. He was too and it was painful and unfulfilling. Felt like let’s get it out of the way situation 😔

  131. Usual_Butterfly623 Avatar

    Painful, 3 days later told me he was gay

  132. UngaBunga-2 Avatar

    Everything went wrong. No lube, struggled to get it up, condom broke, parent came home, neither of us finished. Still with my same partner after 3+ years though and we’ve gotten a lot better.

  133. PineappleSad2800 Avatar

    Still waiting for it to come

  134. Independent-Bite-658 Avatar

    23M still waiting haha

  135. Realistic_Half_6296 Avatar

    What experience?? Never heard of it