Getting dumped gives you an insecure type of heartbreak that makes you feel terrible, but the hurt and guilt from breaking up with a nice person is paralyzing, especially when they don’t want to break up
Edit for clarity: I mean breaking up -with someone- vs someone breaking up with you
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Wtf? Isn’t breaking up and being dumped the same thing?
Yes. Every time I’ve dumped somebody, I’ve cried my eyes out. In fact, I once cried so hard that the girl I had dumped ended up trying to comfort me. I feel guilty about things that aren’t my fault, so directly hurting someone, especially their feelings, makes me feel absolutely horrible.
My last ex faked being pregnant for an entire 9 months after I broke up with her, claiming I was the father.
I realize she was a special kind of crazy, but I will never feel bad about breaking up with or ghosting a person ever again.
Honestly depends on the kinda person you are
Yeah, breaking up with a good person sucks and you might feel guilty, but at the end of the day you still had control. You wanted out. That’s a totally different flavor of pain than getting dumped and feeling unwanted or blindsided.
Being rejected by the person you love is the worst feeling a person can feel.
sound like breaking bad
That’s the worst opinion ever ! So take my upvote