So some girlfriends made me download some dating apps on our girls trip and I have been talking to a few guys on there, one of them had actually interesting questions for me (deep, searching ones) and I was enjoying our conversation until I realized a lot of his responses to what I sent seemed… Scripted?
One of his recent responses had a ” at the end, making me think it was copy pasted from something.
If I actually meet him for a date I’ll be able to quickly discern if his deep, thoughtful responses were authentic or not, but I can’t help but feel it’s AI. There isn’t a ton on his bio either so I’m even suspecting it could be the beginnings of an attempted “love scam” (I would never send them money or personal info)
Any other ladies experience something similar in the last while? Did you figure out if it was AI or not?
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My god the bar is so low now.
Honestly put the same questions into chatgpt. I have done that (not for dating just something that also seemed too scripted) and received the near-identical response.
Ask for good questions to ask a woman, ask for responses to your questions. He may have put your profile details into chat and asked what questions to ask you.
I don’t mind someone using AI to help them express something that is truly original if they just need to come across smoother. Not everyone who is worth dating is going to be an amazing communicator in this format, and not everyone who communicates well is worth dating.
But I did talk to a guy for several weeks before we could meet in person, and once we met, his communication style changed considerably. I wondered for a while if he had someone helping him until it occurred to me that it was probably all ChatGPT. He was so negative and insecure IRL but came across as a total golden retriever in text.
I’ll never trust my impression of a person until we’ve gotten to spend quality time together.
Can you post some of the responses here that are suspicious for chatGPT? Honestly if you have to wonder if they’re using AI to respond they probably are.
Seriously? 😳 Just get off the apps and start trying to meet guys IRL