I’ve recently started getting my goatee trimmed at the barber shop. The young man has already trimmed my hair and when he shaves my face and trims me his face is so close to mine that we could be making out. And of course the little movements that he makes my head move for better access. It feels so intimate.
Doesn’t hurt that I’m gay and he’s a good looking young man.
That moment right before your first kiss with someone. Where you’re looking at them and your heart flutters just a little bit, and it’s almost an electric zap in the airspace between their lips and yours.
Eat. I don’t know why, but for me, eating in front of another person is a very intimate act, I wouldn’t go to dinner on a first date for example, because for me it’s necessary to overcome some barriers first.
Putting a bandaid on someone’s scrape or burn. Especially if you dab it gently clean and put some analgesic on the bandaid pad. It’s not even necessarily romantically intimate, it can be something you do for your child or your sibling or your friend just as much as for your partner. But it’s such a loving act that involves so much trust and vulnerability.
Having a bandaid placed on your finger by someone else. I still remember how much I appreciated it since it’s always a struggle doing it yourself. I still don’t get why I noticed that so immediately…
Driving with someone in the passenger seat. Just the two of you, a few inches apart together for minutes to hours either talking about everything or just sitting comfortably in silence.
Getting a haircut. I buzz my own hair with electric cutters just to avoid having a stranger rummage through my hair for a half hour. It’s not a great hairstyle and doesn’t really suit me, but at least I don’t have to endure that interaction
“Look I ain’t saying it’s right. But you’re saying a foot massage don’t mean nothing, and I’m saying it does. Now look, I’ve given a million ladies a million foot massages, and they all meant something. We act like they don’t, but they do, and that’s what’s so fucking cool about them. There’s a sensuous thing going on where you don’t talk about it, but you know it, she knows it, fucking Marsellus knew it, and Antwone should have fucking better known better. I mean, that’s his fucking wife, man. He can’t be expected to have a sense of humor about that shit. You know what I’m saying?”
If you haven’t already, Please clean the cuts and sanitize the area with something like rubbing alcohol, then some something like neosporin to help heal and keep the chance of infection down.
Keep an eye on where you’ve been scratched, and look for redness, inflammation, and pain to touch. If you exhibit any of this in the next 24 hours, just check into urgent care to be safe. Kitty claws are ripe with their own poop, which they bury with their cute little paws lined with razor blades. And they’re full of bacteria.
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Prolonged eye contact
Making out with the homies before bed
I don’t know if this fits the “innocent” aspect, but being tied up by someone I love and trust. I don’t know why but it gives me cetain feels.
Tickling
Letting someone take a sip to try your drink.
Locking lips with the local gas station hobo
Holding hands and Sitting in non-awkward silence.
The head massage after getting your hair cut/dyed.
Updating someone over text with a picture
A stern handshake from an athletic trainer
I’ve recently started getting my goatee trimmed at the barber shop. The young man has already trimmed my hair and when he shaves my face and trims me his face is so close to mine that we could be making out. And of course the little movements that he makes my head move for better access. It feels so intimate.
Doesn’t hurt that I’m gay and he’s a good looking young man.
Bare feet accidentally touching
Letting someone go through your Spotify playlists
tying someone else’s shoelaces
Hand holding or sharing your favourite song with someone
When you reach an understanding of something deep together
Letting someone else brush your teeth
Ballroom dancing. Acting together
Putting on a necklace for someone
Hearing “good boy” once you have done some household chores to ease her mental load without her asking.
That moment right before your first kiss with someone. Where you’re looking at them and your heart flutters just a little bit, and it’s almost an electric zap in the airspace between their lips and yours.
wholesome humor
Exchanging links to your favourite porn only to find out it’s the same vid.
When I reach for the receipt and my hand accidentally makes contact with my local grocery store cashier lol
When I got my first pair of glasses last year, she, the worker, had to make sure they would sit correct on my head.
She told me to just look her in the eye so I did. I think we both just kept staring a little while lol. She had nice eyes.
A prostate examination
As a person who backpacks on motorcycles when they help put your helmet on.. literally kills me everytime
Fixing someone’s clothes, like their collar, a button, etc
Not nsfw but having someone rest their head on your shoulder
Now this has been a debate since Pulp Fiction came out : a foot massage
Hot teacher giving you one on one help
The first hug with someone.
Letting someone read your favorite book.
Massages
Foot massage. You know it, she knows it, he knows it.
the dr using stethoscope to listen to ur lungs n heart
Eat. I don’t know why, but for me, eating in front of another person is a very intimate act, I wouldn’t go to dinner on a first date for example, because for me it’s necessary to overcome some barriers first.
Sleep calling
My chiro was examining my shoulders and kept gently lifting my hair out of the way. Totally innocent. Felt so ridiculously intimate.
I told my daughter about it and she (jokingly) said, “did you tell him you’re married?!” Lol
Hair brushing.
a friend (female) calling your name and coming towards you to fix the neckline of your polo before you go out to meet people.
that changed everything for me.
Getting a massage when the therapist is massaging your groin and hip flexors
Falling asleep on a call together and waking up still connected.
Foot massage. Lady jerked my feet off, and I loved every second of it
Tying my friends’ ties when they don’t know how. Not gay but it feels like sexual tension
Putting a bandaid on someone’s scrape or burn. Especially if you dab it gently clean and put some analgesic on the bandaid pad. It’s not even necessarily romantically intimate, it can be something you do for your child or your sibling or your friend just as much as for your partner. But it’s such a loving act that involves so much trust and vulnerability.
Something you have a kink about. So, before blaming someone in something – maybe it is literally just you 😛
A back rub, or a nose boop
Someone else trying your glasses on
Caressing someone’s naked back under their shirt while hugging
When you both secretly like each other and facing the same side and your hands touch or you hold hands.
Zipping up a ladies dress.
Catching her eyes and smiling at her in a crowded room.
Tying her show laces.
Feeding her.
Getting a haircut and the dude blows the hair off my neck.
BCC’ing someone to an email.
Sharing food with somebody
Moving someone’s hair out of their face
Sharing airpods with partner and listening music together in public, smth like sitting on the bench in darkness… + the fav artist of both of you…
Showing someone how to operate a M14A Pulse Rifle.
Wiping my butthole with my finger instead of toilet paper
Hand holding ❤️
Pouring whip cream into a friends mouth
Having a bandaid placed on your finger by someone else. I still remember how much I appreciated it since it’s always a struggle doing it yourself. I still don’t get why I noticed that so immediately…
When nurses are taking your blood or putting your IV in. Sometimes there is a lot of mistaken contact with sensitive areas.
Brushing a woman’s hair.
The new Instagram blend feature in the chats
Someone stepping closer when it’s raining and they have an umbrella and you don’t.
Back in high school when I used to sit opposite/next to my crush and our feet or knees would be touching.
Eye contact
Holdind hands
When partner cares for you and show love
When u gifted something they kept it for a long time like watches bracelets etc.😋
Sliding a thumb on their cheek to clean something, or if they’re the ones doing it to you
When a doctor has to use a scope thing to examine your retina, and they come up so closely that you can feel their breath on your face.
being a Jiu Jitsu instructor
Hand holding……
Doing someone’s buttons for them
Having an inside joke just between you two
My faucet
Taking a long silent elevator ride with a coworker
Holding hands
Driving with someone in the passenger seat. Just the two of you, a few inches apart together for minutes to hours either talking about everything or just sitting comfortably in silence.
sit on someone’s lap
When my husband nuzzles his nose into my cleavage. Just an innocent guy who likes to take a bit of a rest between my rack.
Getting your hair washed at a salon
Getting a haircut. I buzz my own hair with electric cutters just to avoid having a stranger rummage through my hair for a half hour. It’s not a great hairstyle and doesn’t really suit me, but at least I don’t have to endure that interaction
Any physical touch… back, face, hands, hair
Shopping for “everyday home food” with a partner or friend.
It’s not casual like a restaurant or fast food or basic to go. It’s a look into their soul and what brings them comfort, satisfaction, and security.
Foot massage.
“Look I ain’t saying it’s right. But you’re saying a foot massage don’t mean nothing, and I’m saying it does. Now look, I’ve given a million ladies a million foot massages, and they all meant something. We act like they don’t, but they do, and that’s what’s so fucking cool about them. There’s a sensuous thing going on where you don’t talk about it, but you know it, she knows it, fucking Marsellus knew it, and Antwone should have fucking better known better. I mean, that’s his fucking wife, man. He can’t be expected to have a sense of humor about that shit. You know what I’m saying?”
handing over your unlocked phone to someone
tucking of hair behind the ears
a foot massage ;
Petting animal together.
If you haven’t already, Please clean the cuts and sanitize the area with something like rubbing alcohol, then some something like neosporin to help heal and keep the chance of infection down.
Keep an eye on where you’ve been scratched, and look for redness, inflammation, and pain to touch. If you exhibit any of this in the next 24 hours, just check into urgent care to be safe. Kitty claws are ripe with their own poop, which they bury with their cute little paws lined with razor blades. And they’re full of bacteria.
Sincerely,
A fellow cat slave.
A foot massage
Does 11 times count?