Every answer seems to say presence. They give you attention without you needing to seek it. They pay attention to you when youre around. You arent having to fight for it.
My boyfriend sent a meme about needing people to spell out that they’re flirting/interested in someone. I said ‘haha same’. He told me he’d been flirting with me for months. That’s the day we got together.
If a guy responds quickly, checks in on you, and shows consistent attention, it’s likely he’s interested in you. however, if a girl does the same, it might mean anything from her just being friendly to her being genuinely interested
Honestly you can never be sure unless you straight up ask. There can be all the signs and turn out to be just platonic.
I thought they liked me back. Turns out i was wrong.
Always initiating contact & excessive texting- sometimes with nothing to say after i respond & almost always responds quickly within 1 minute. complimenting me, always saying they want to do stuff with me, wanting to come see me (different countries), etc etc.
But turns out the’re already in a relationship so 💔
I knew my partner and I liked each other when we were laughing about something and the eye contact lasted a bit too long. But it wasn’t awkward. It was an amazing feeling.
I promptly followed it up with an “ah, fuck. I’m not supposed to like you.” We were in a FWB situation at the time.
There is no sure fire, clear sign. I do believe that potential couples experience something almost ethereal. A moment when you look deeply into someone’s eyes and you literally feel locked into each other. As if the rest of the world could literally melt away. This is a never a one sided experience either. It has to be both locked in. Once that happens that is pretty much a done deal.
Someone once described love as wanting “to do things for” the other person. If acts of service are a thing and you don’t feel it’s about what they can get back, I’d say that’s a pretty clear sign.
Interesting question. There are men I actively avoid BECAUSE I’m incredibly attracted to them and they’re unattainable. I admire them from afar, but kinda dread being in close contact with them because I’m afraid humiliating myself.
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If she says I am into you.
They offer to wash your underwear.
They’re still talking to you after you’ve made it clear you’re not interested in small talk. That’s usually a sign they’re hooked.
They work at maintaining focused eye contact with you, and actually listen when you are talking to them.
if someone writes to you from time to time and asks how you are🙈
They double text you if you haven’t responded for a bit
Watch Casually Explained’s “is she into you” s video on youtube. It clears up everything
Laughing at dumb jokes, that’s 100% it.
Every answer seems to say presence. They give you attention without you needing to seek it. They pay attention to you when youre around. You arent having to fight for it.
OP: You’re asking the wrong group of people…
She grabs your weiner. Or he….I guess no one stipuated sexual preference.
Staring
Making the effort!
I have absolutely no idea.
My boyfriend sent a meme about needing people to spell out that they’re flirting/interested in someone. I said ‘haha same’. He told me he’d been flirting with me for months. That’s the day we got together.
When girls grab your arm when talking to you
If a guy responds quickly, checks in on you, and shows consistent attention, it’s likely he’s interested in you. however, if a girl does the same, it might mean anything from her just being friendly to her being genuinely interested
Sustained eye contact.
Note that dead people don’t count.
Their legs are on your shoulders
I feel like if you have to ask this then I wouldn’t get my hopes up..
I mean one way is to straight up ask lol.
Honestly you can never be sure unless you straight up ask. There can be all the signs and turn out to be just platonic.
I thought they liked me back. Turns out i was wrong.
Always initiating contact & excessive texting- sometimes with nothing to say after i respond & almost always responds quickly within 1 minute. complimenting me, always saying they want to do stuff with me, wanting to come see me (different countries), etc etc.
But turns out the’re already in a relationship so 💔
Bro, nobody in the world is into Redditors. Ask somewhere else.
Conversation is easy and fun. They put in noticeable effort to prolong conversations
their actions and love languages align.
if they give gifts to show love and they give you gifts, you have your answer
obvi apply the other love languages to the above phrase and you should know.
however, early on, i would advise to not mistake time as an indicator for the sole purpose that those who are lonely give their time
They sit on your lap, put their arms around you, and say “I like you”.
I knew my partner and I liked each other when we were laughing about something and the eye contact lasted a bit too long. But it wasn’t awkward. It was an amazing feeling.
I promptly followed it up with an “ah, fuck. I’m not supposed to like you.” We were in a FWB situation at the time.
It’s been 2 years!
When they want to see you even if you do nothing for the day.
Buddy no one using Reddit can tell you
They keep wanting to talk or find reasons to start conversation.
Eye contact, constant laughter, their enthusiasm in chatting with you, etc
There is no sure fire, clear sign. I do believe that potential couples experience something almost ethereal. A moment when you look deeply into someone’s eyes and you literally feel locked into each other. As if the rest of the world could literally melt away. This is a never a one sided experience either. It has to be both locked in. Once that happens that is pretty much a done deal.
When they say “hey i’m into you”
Someone once described love as wanting “to do things for” the other person. If acts of service are a thing and you don’t feel it’s about what they can get back, I’d say that’s a pretty clear sign.
They try to grab your attention though different ways, get close to you, touch your arms while talking.
I am aware that some are just like this but it’s a sign if the girl only does this to you and not others.
They wanna sit by you all the time
They laugh at your jokes, but like… they laugh extra ya know lol
Interesting question. There are men I actively avoid BECAUSE I’m incredibly attracted to them and they’re unattainable. I admire them from afar, but kinda dread being in close contact with them because I’m afraid humiliating myself.
If the other person wants to spend time with you and makes an effort
They enthusiastically say yes to a taco bell date
They suck your dick