ok this isn’t as bad of a problem but i still want advice abt it . Me (19f) and my dad were having a slight argument i mean i just kept it going for fun i dont know if he thought the same but at some point he asked what my evidence was and i ended up saying “a fucking documentary” and i know i shouldn’t have cursed and i realized i made a mistake immediately. he then tells me im gonna regret that very much and my birthday is coming up in a few days and he said i shouldn’t look forward to a gift or anything anymore from him. and i was supposed to go shopping in a bit and he told my mom to come sit down and not take me anywhere. im not the best at communication and i didnt know wether i should apologize right now or not so i sat in a corner and ended up falling asleep 😭 when i woke up he wasn’t at home so i went about my business and the next morning after church i apologized for saying that and told him im going to quit cursing all together. he said he can never trust me on anything anymore and that i shouldn’t expect anything from him again and that i should stay at my college dorm over the weekends from now on and to not come home. i wont be getting anything from them not just for my birthday but for anything else ever again and nothing i do can make him forgive me. i found out from my brother later on that they were planning to surprise me at my college for my birthday cause it was a weekday. that would’ve been the cutest surprise and i just ruined everything like i always do. i don’t even want to talk to my friends about this cause i feel so ashamed that i cursed in front of my dad like i know how disrespectful that is and i really don’t mean it but now my dad has a image of me of always cursing and he quote on quote doesn’t want me ruining my younger brother. when i was leaving back for campus today i went to go tell him that i was leaving and he completely ignored me and had me standing there for 5 minutes before i gave up cause my ride was here sorry for the rant but i j want to know if his reaction is valid and if i really shouldn’t get a second chance.
tldr: accidentally cursed in front of my family and my dad told me i basically don’t exist to him anymore and that i shouldn’t come home for the weekends for college is this reaction valid
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