I’m really missing my husband today

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It was my husband’s 3rd death anniversary a few days ago. On the day I thought I managed it well enough, but today I woke up feeling like I just got hit by a truck. I called my sister and we’re going to have a little girls outing when we get off work to lift my mood a bit. But I just needed to share. It hurts.

Comments

  1. throwaway6282791 Avatar

    i’m so sorry 🙁 i hope you have fun on your outing though ❤️

  2. Rebarkah Avatar

    I’m so sorry you’re going through this. 💔 It’s great that you reached out to your sister to connect

  3. _ritouu_707 Avatar

    Feel hugged 🩷

  4. TutorOk2972 Avatar

    I’m glad you have your sister there for you. It’s okay not be okay for as many years or days that it takes. I hope you find some peace today with your sister.

  5. Glittering_Syllabub9 Avatar

    I’m so very sorry for you. 🙁 <3

    It’s incredibly hard. No one can understand it if they haven’t gone through it themselves. There are no words to describe it, and no words that could make it any better.

    I just wanted to tell you that you are strong, beautiful and loved. Some day you will reunite as stardust, but it’s not today. I’m so proud of you for holding on, for being brave, for loving him, for living.

  6. LogLadyOG Avatar

    I almost lost my husband a month ago. I am so sorry for your pain. You will always love him. Let yourself grieve.

  7. ConsequenceSorry4686 Avatar

    Mourning doesn’t fit our schedules. It’s one of the hardest things in life. I’m glad you had a better day on the anniversary but the thing is unexpressed emotions will creep up on you. I’m so very sorry for your loss. And I hope that you and your sister are able to do something fun. Or that she can give you a hug and a listening ear. Doesn’t matter when the loss occurs it is always going to be a loss. I know I don’t know you but I’m sending you a huge hug too.

  8. Riatsu_87 Avatar

    My thoughts are directed to you 🙏🏼 Just one day at the time and you’ll get better ❤️

  9. HungryLilDragon Avatar

    I’m really sorry, that’s actually the worst pain I can imagine. How did he die?

  10. beautiful_hands Avatar

    Girl you don’t have to manage anything sometimes you need to fall apart because you’re only human. Please be kind to yourself and I hope you have a beautiful day!!