I basically got trapped with a man during a period of housing inability, family abuse, psychosis episode, and losing the ability to drive. It’s been 5 years and too keep it short, I need a good back up plan set up. I think I’m codependent and not in love. He’s the type of verbally abusive that’s not “you are a fat loser bitch and…list of obvious insults” I would have left long ago if that was the case. He’s the ranting and yelling and forcing his unclear ideas on you. He’s the talking shit about every YouTuber and influencer you watch. He’s the type to do small suttle passive aggressive digs. I have a list of over 50 reasons to get a divorce. I finally found an at home full time decent paying job. But it will take weeks to secretly save the money to move out. I need advice and tips on how to emotionally unattached and hype myself up for liv8ng alone. I’m deeply attached and this weekend we boiled down all our issues to him not knowing how to communicate. But then we agreed to find free resources and coaches, he just pretended to care. I don’t have any hope in him getting better especially because I have been forced into being this homemaker and he has me so small and obedient. He told me I was ruining his peace with a list of chores He asked me to make him so he knows what I want done before I get off work.