It recently came up in a relationship that my partner (we’re both women) doesn’t like the idea of me cuddling with friends in VR though I find that perfectly normal with close platonic friendships.
The answer is pretty straightforward where she sets a boundary so it’s not about if I should or nor that’s obvious, but she went as far as to say it’s not normal and it’s weird, that cuddling = flirting.
So I wonder, how do you all view cuddling with close platonic friends? Is it weird always? Only weird if they’re attracted to your gender? This situation wasn’t about irl but apply the logic to irl as well.