I’ve seen a lot of comments around saying that vast majority of women across the board have set their standards too high.

Can you elaborate? What do you mean? What standard / requirements specifically, if you could.

[34M, USA] and I can’t say I’ve had that issue so genuinely confused. Occasionally you’ll see someone who just wants someone to take care of her, but we did that in the not-too-distant past, many would like to return to that, and I’d also wager they’re pretty well in the minority.