We’ve been together for 10 years now. So my fiance 28(f) and I 29(m) are both fans of an artist, not going to say the name for the sake of it at the moment. So he’s on tour and we were not able to make the concert in our city due to prices of tickets. I kept looking for them, she already thought we would not make it to one on this tour. I ended up finding some for a good price we went a couple states over and stayed for about 5 days. I had a good time, we both did. we arrived a few days before the actual concert to be able to settle in and do some site seeing and just enjoy ourselves. The night of the concert, we got ready and went to it. It was an awesome time one of the best concerts we both have been to. The thing that has bothered me is, a few hours after the concert, once we actually arrived back our hotel. All she was focused on was making social media posts about meeting the artists and how good the concert was. She basically just spent the rest of the night doing that, which ok I somewhat get. Imo it could have waited till the end of the trip, so we could of made the most out of all our time and so she could have posted everything from the trip to the concert, but I do not use social media as much so I didn’t really think much of it at the time besides the length she spent, but she saw one of her favorite artist so just figured its excitement. Once we arrived home, she made 2 more posts about the concert, now mind you none of them included me, I wasn’t tagged in any, or in any of the pictures. That kind of bothered me, she is a social media person unlike me so I would have thought she would have posted all our pictures and stuff you know. I actually brought it to her attention how it bothered me, she said she wanted to wait till we got home to post it all, which didn’t really make sense to me. I could be over thinking it, and I don’t know why it bothers me, it just does. So yeah that’s my post idk tbh never posted on here and kind of just wanted to get this off my chest.
TLDR; fiance spent rest of night after concert on our 5 day get away posting about concert never including me in it. Multiple others about it once we got home and same thing none included me. Not sure why it bothers me, but it does.
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Social media, ruining people’s perspectives again.
have you considered, I don’t know, asking her about it? You’re engaged to be married and can’t ask her “hey how come I didn’t make it into the posts?”
Why aren’t you making the posts you want on social media yourself? If you want photos of you at the concert, can’t you put them on your own profile instead of waiting for her to do it?
Did you post about it on social media?