There is nothing attractive about hickeys

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Nothing compels me towards them. They look ugly and their connotation doesn’t enthrall me in any way. I do like the idea of biting so hard it leaves dents or wounds but oddly, despite how popular hickeys are and how many wear them proudly, I find them inconvenient and gaudy to show the public unless for voyeuristic reasons though I’ve never met anyone who shows their hickeys for that reason

Edit: I had no idea so many people agreed! I didn’t know this was an age thing, I’m 21 and never dated, kissed anyone, had a crush and I don’t get to talk to people IRL so I’ve learned much from the comments. Thanks!!

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  2. Alone_Requirement442 Avatar

    If you stop breathing you die

  3. OtherRedditLogin Avatar

    It’s not about attractiveness.

    It’s a way for mostly teenagers to signal to each other that they have access to a romantic partner.

    It’s about status.

    I bet you almost never see anyone over high school with a hickey.

  4. Thatoneguy2498 Avatar

    Think this is pretty popular opinion for adults.

  5. HonestlyEphEw Avatar

    There isn’t, they just feel great when you’re balls deep

  6. IllegalIranianYogurt Avatar

    This opinion is only unpopular if you’re under 15

  7. RustyDiamonds__ Avatar

    I think this is a pretty popular opinion for people over 17, even those that still enjoy them. I cover mine up when I go to work and really look at them by myself because the visual reminder makes me happy.

  8. Reasonable_Record_39 Avatar

    Very popular opinion.

  9. EggForTryingThymes Avatar

    Congratulations on turning 16

  10. theblacktoothgainz Avatar

    Its not the visual, it’s the act. I like to give them and receive them during sex. But mindfully placed.

  11. CouncilOfReligion Avatar

    but a hickey from kenickie is like a hallmark card

  12. R4G316 Avatar

    I showed off a bunch when we had a silly bit with my friend. But I see a lot of student with hickeys, they are VERY serious and rather adult overall. I think they don’t know about them.

  13. Yalsas Avatar

    Some of us really do just like how it feels

  14. Dazz316 Avatar

    Your’e 21 and still talking about hickeys?

    Also, it was never a mark of beauty, it was just showing off that you’re doing stuff with someone else FROM SCHOOL because no adults do this.