We were just laying together watching tv but both had our shirts off, me with a bra on. Usually his parents never come downstairs or at least text first, but this time they both came downstairs and just stood there before asking some question about when he was going
to bed and then leaving. When they came down i grabbed a pillow to hide behind but in hindsight they probably thought I was completely topless, but we didn’t realize until after so he didn’t really get to defend it. Anyway we’re not allowed to go in the basement alone anymore. They said something like “she’s someone’s daughter that we have to look out for”. Is this unreasonable? Guess there’s not much advice to ask for but maybe a little comfort. Kms.
My bf’s parents kinda walked in on us
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It’s not unheard of. Your bf has good parents with the advice they gave their son.
Don’t think too much about it and just follow their advice.
Embarrassing. Reasonable take from the parents. It’ll be fine.
Those are some smart and considerate parents. Take their advice and don’t go against what they want. They are looking out for you and for their son ❤️
They don’t want any grandkids before he doesnt live with them anymore. Lol. Solid move.
The parents are only being unreasonable if you’re both adults.
Sounds like they actually care about both of you. And remember they were kids once too. I’m sure they understand.
It could have been worse, it seems like they are good people. It will be a little awkward for a bit, but it will eventually be brushed over. Make light of the situation but respect their boundaries. I would have preferred parents to say something instead of an awkward silence, truthfully.
They just don’t want to be complicit in causing a teen pregnancy. They probably don’t think any less of you, they were kids once, they know what it’s like.
How old are y’all?
It’s normal. Don’t worry about it. They just don’t want you to get pregnant and have to go through all that. It’s okay to love someone. You are both growing up. But you need to be responsible.