Advice on how to last long in bed

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Hi, can you please give me advice on how to last long in bed to satisfy my wife. Thank you in advance.

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  1. egmw2021 Avatar

    Don’t even take your dick out until she’s satisfied

  2. LennoxClean Avatar

    stress is the number one cause of pre ejaculate. take some time to de-stress and exercise

  3. Holeshot75 Avatar

    Breathe!

    Seriously. Don’t hold your breath and concentrate on your breathing rhythm.

    Guys forget to breathe and it rushes them towards orgasm extremely quickly.

    So take long deep breaths and be aware of your breathing.

    On the plus side she’ll love the sound of you breathing hard to control yourself.

    Women always say how men are too quiet when they have sex. This will take care of that as well.

  4. Dirtydizzle88 Avatar

    One of my friends said that if you jack off a few hours before you have sex it makes you last longer the second time around? Idk tho I don’t have a peepee!

  5. Hollandmocro04 Avatar

    Dont go too fast when you’re doing it. Take your time believe me she would enjoy it too!

  6. Rex_Uru Avatar

    Unfortunately, you give us very little to give you any proper help.

    There are numerous reasons why you may be quick to shoot the gun. That you have to talk with a doctor about. Things like psychological factors and meds you may be on, all the way down to having overly sensitive nerve endings in your penis.

    But typically, you should be doing other things to stimulate your wife to increase her pleasure. Like foreplay or orally pleasing her. Keep in mind also that this portrayal that sex is supposed to last for 20-40 minutes is mostly attributed to porn falsehoods. Some guys orgasm in a stiff breeze, and others are unable to orgasm at all.

    Again, talk to your doctor, and maybe they can suggest some things to try, like numbing creams or different medications, depending on if you are on any currently.

  7. house-cat-1530 Avatar

    Just order blue chew. And work out, being fit is a good way to ensure a healthy blood flow.

    At 30 years, I have bad hips and need blue chew for blood flow. I do cardio and some weights. On a good day, I have no refractory period. Otherwise I finish early but I know will be back up in five minutes.

  8. momosix19 Avatar

    Jerk off earlier in the day.

  9. m25seekingcareer Avatar

    Masterbste beforehand take a shower wash that dick then clench Man clench

  10. Stoliana12 Avatar

    Imagine Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day.

  11. VokThee Avatar

    Stop thinking of your orgasm as the end. I know you are tired afterwards, but that’s the moment you have to keep going. Not fckng like a maniac, obviously (because you likely couldn’t), but use your hands, your mouth. At some point, your dck will be back for business too.

    Mind you, you need a little bit of stamina for that, so if that’s a problem, start working on your condition.

  12. smalltowncityboy Avatar

    Be careful what you wish for dude. That’s all I will say.

  13. BillyJoeDubuluw Avatar

    Edging can be useful for helping blokes that have this issue as well as taking a look at your diet and your fitness routine and ensuring it is on your side but overthinking the whole situation can also be a really major factor too so remember to try and keep it fun while perfecting your technique – lots of oral stimulation and play and sex toys are your friend not your enemy. 

  14. MohaShah Avatar

    Go slow. Don’t make haste. Don’t stress over it.

    The most important, if you feel like you got too excited and might climax, just take your mind off of it. Think about… Anything that’s a turn off. 

  15. Regnes Avatar

    Stay up late and then make sure not to drink anything for several hours before bed so you don’t wake up to pee.

  16. gfewujnds Avatar

    Have more sex…

  17. EmptyBoxers11 Avatar

    don’t allow her to play with your dick unroll she’s gotten hers

  18. Itlhitman Avatar

    FIRST OFF you should be honing your foreplay skills. The woman should have multiple orgaams multiple different ways before you use your Weiner. When you finally do use it and you feel your end is near hold it off. I mean use that muscle to squeeze that area . You probably won’t b able to hold long at first. Practice, practice,practice,practice. Start with self gratification and hold/squeeze when you’re about to release. You can hold it off, and with time be able to hold out longer. If you do that all right your woman will be satisfied before your Weiner is used, and when you do use it it will just be the “icing on the cake” so to speak.