My bf (25) and i (25) are in graduate school and are interning across the country from each other. We’re both financially strapped, so visiting each other isn’t really doable.
We’ve been together around 10 months and have spent nearly every waking moment together because our classes are the same and whenever we would end class we would study together, hit the gym, hang with mutual friends, etc. Obviously he will be coming back here after the internship ends, in about three months. I can’t lie- I’m really really nervous about the distance.
It feels like having to quit a drug cold turkey. He leaves in two days and I’ve already noticed so much anxiety arise in me. I trust him very much and I don’t think he would cheat on me, i’m just worried about the communication. We will be in different time zones, both working, and I won’t be able to see him at all. I’ve communicated this to him and he suggested zoom calls, but there’s been a lot of times where he suggests something and then it doesn’t really happen.
I keep wishing that I could just wake up and the summer would be over already. Can anyone give me advice?? I’m really anxious about this and it is a bit insecure of me but I just don’t know what to expect because we’ve spent ten months together constantly. Any advice would be really appreciated
TLDR: 10 months together all the time, 3 month long distance over the summer cold turkey, need advice because i’m getting anxious.