Just let male flairs respond. This sub has become a forum for male bashing. They ruined the women’s sub and now they’re stirring up noise here.
Why are so many women responding to questions in r/AskMen
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Just let male flairs respond. This sub has become a forum for male bashing. They ruined the women’s sub and now they’re stirring up noise here.
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I very rarely have seen women being problematic on this sub. I appreciate their perspective and if you don’t, then you’ve already found your solution: the men only tag.
Because the thought of men having their own space infuriates them.
You should post this questing in u/askwomenforadvice
>Why are so many women responding to questions in r/AskMen
Because it is a public forum and they are welcomed to freely express themselves.
>This sub has become a forum for male bashing
¿Since when?
>They ruined the women’s sub
The women who talk here would love to be able to talk as freely in the women’s sub, they just can’t (It is like a gulag out there).
I like having their participation
I see zero issue if they have flairs
We give our perspective respectfully in their subs……so, I mean 🤷♂️
I was thinking the same thing. I would never dream of answering questions in askwomen
If you see something misandrist, report it. Otherwise, we have no problem allowing women to participate. And guess what? 3 of the mods are women.
Edit: Also. Fuck it. I’m allowing women to answer this question, even with the flair.
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I see no issue. The majority of commenters will still be men. Obviously the primary goal is to get the opinion of men. But there’s literally no harm to getting a woman’s perspective on top of the men’s. It’s not like they’re replacing the male responses. Plus, often times the woman will simply comment an answer based off of what a man once told her, which is basically like a man answering
Because men aren’t allowed to do things by themselves
I can’t say as I see much men bashing, frankly this is the only place on Reddit where that bullshit is put to bed quickly if it does.
If it’s not flaired as answers from men only they are free to chime in. I do the same in r/AskWomenNoCensor.
Fuck r/AskWomen though lol. NO DERAILING!!
Ironically this is the perfect type of question that women should be able to provide their perspective on.
How are they stirring up noise here? By existing?
I haven’t noticed the male bashing you feel you’ve been seeing. Were I you I would perhaps check my own internal biases as it comes across like you have an anger towards women.
I can confidently say I’ve seen almaor zero intentional mam bashing.
Because it’s an open forum, not an echo chamber
See the titles but not the sub
I’m not a human, and it wasn’t hard to change my flair to male.
The responses I’ve seen from women are mixed. Yes, there are people who have come here to make this yet another group for male bashing, but there are also those who come here to give their perspective.
If a topic ultimately has to do with men interacting with women, you want women’s perspective. A sausage fest echo chamber isn’t going to give anyone a realistic understanding of what reality is actually like.
Given that this is one of the few subs that will actually acknowledge seething hatred towards men as a genuine problem, having difficult conversations here, even if it makes people uncomfortable, is good. There are actual checks and balances that will make it so the same narratives peddled elsewhere won’t just fly without question.
I love it when the chicks weigh in.
There have been tons of girls here going rapid. 😆😆 ruined the other sub is too funny, only women.
Shelaborating… if their answers are obnoxious.🤣
Or, y’know… because it’s just an open forum and they believe their responses will be as helpful/productive as others that are responding.
Hey I am a woman and I’ve been interested in men’s rights since I was 15 and first learned about it on the internet (early 2000s). I have a twin brother 💪
Probably because this sub is more reasonable in terms of posting and response policy whereas the others are often comical misandry echo chambers.
L post dude. Most of the women answering on this sub have done so respectfully. We don’t want to become an echo chamber that is r/AskWomen
Because they want to moderate men’s discourse, they can’t allow men to have their own space, to exchange notes, and to escape the plantation.
If men realize they are merely a utility for women and decide to take control of their own lives, stopping seeking approval and validation from women, it could be dangerous for the matrix.
Why do you give a shit so much?
Me: it’s ok. I’m used to criticism.
Because women are cool
I appreciate the women on this sub. It’s hilarious when they bash askwomen sub.
Women can be internet trolls too it’s not gender specific lol.
Some women cannot stand the idea of “men’s spaces” so they have to jump in. Guys talking about guy stuff infuriates them.
Because they can’t help themselves. They seem men having fun somewhere, anywhere, and an innate instinct kicks in to come over and ruin it.
This again?
Have you ever looked at the askwoman sub? Practically every other comment is deleted for breaching their rules.
I find that women in this sub are generally very supportive of men.
A lot of them come here to ask questions BECAUSE the ask women sub or whatever it is called is so anti-men .
I’ve seen multiple people say it.
This is the type of question where womens responds would be interesting/helpful
I’m fine with women responding as long as it’s constructive
Real men appreciate a woman’s perspective
Bc we are so accustomed to replying whatever pops into our head without looking at the subreddit name
it’s ASKMEN sub. If y’all want the perspective of women then go to ASK WOMEN sub.
Who cares
Coise they think our opinions are wrong, obviously.
Make it so that only those with proper flairs can respond. If it’s found that someone is using a wrong flair (impersonating), give them a warning or ban them. And if people other than males comment in posts with ‘Ask men only’ flair, delete those comments or give their accounts a warning.
There is AskReddit for both sex and AskWomen for women.
This level of enforcement seems proper considering this sub is AskMen. Sometimes it’s hard to distinguish if a man or a woman is commenting without proper flairs. At least make it mandatory to have a flair to engage with the community.
Because the women’s version of this sub is like North Korea, so even ladies come over here. Seeing their perspective on men’s discussions is usually pretty helpful.
You can tag for men only… It’s not really very hard.
Sometimes it’s nice to hear what women think about what we say.
I’ve not noticed a lot of this personally.
I’ve also not experienced men getting bashed here. I’m no stranger to being pretty brutal and honest in my answers and I’ve not been snagged by the typical misandrist nonsense one might find elsewhere.
Women seem to genuinely seek a decent conversation in this sub.
I like having all genders respond. Different walks of life make the world more interesting.
The topics are geared towards men but it’s more interesting and helpful to have women participate. I feel they’re actually here because they’re interested in finding out and talking about men, which is a good thing. Just like any random group of people you’re going to get the oddballs and we all kind of know who they are and just go about our business, no harm to the group IMO just skip over their comment.
I’ve answered here before because I didn’t see the sub name before I replied 😅