I’m so hung up over someone I only dated for 1 month that i was intensly infatuated with(it was a mistake to be that knvested that early on).Yes ik it’s crazy and it’s been 3 months since and still think about her everyday.It started so fast and ended just as fast on bad terms and my impulsive decision.i did regret it and tried going back but she said no.She obviously moved on but I’m still living in the past.I feel much better now after I knew something about her that would’ve been a dealbreaker for me anyway so I understand that this relationship wouldn’t have worked either way and i wouldn’t want to be with her but still.wtf is going on with me?Do dudes ever move on?what did you do when you found yourself stuck in the past and what helped you to finally move on.Its actually my first relationship.
Tl;dr moving on
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Hi, something similar happened to me recently but I’m on the receiving end. He’s also trying to reconnect with me but I said no only because he couldn’t tell me what his real intentions are. I wish he tried hard to convince me but he didn’t. If he did, I would probably go back to him. Anyway, if you can, try again and make your intentions clear.
Give yourself permission to feel. Emotions are not logical. I often think “wtf is wrong with me”. Because my logical brain is explaining why this doesn’t matter… and my heart is screaming that it does.
Talk to supportive friends, family, even a therapist. Write thoughts down. Process the emotions because they will demand your attention, usually at an inopportune moment. Give yourself time and space to feel all the things. Learn about yourself and others. Be grateful for the experience. Then move forward with your life.