I’m a 35 year old woman who has hemorrhoids. I’m deeply embarrassed by them. I would like to be able to feel comfortable about being intimate with a man, especially anal play, but my hemorrhoids make me incredibly self conscious. I’d really appreciate some real, honest thoughts from men on what they truly think. Would it bother you if they were pretty noticeable? Would it gross you out? Is this something I should disclose prior to getting intimate? This is mortifying.
How do you feel about being intimate with a woman who has hemorrhoids?
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I know I’m not a man…but sis, you can have them removed.
It’s fairly normal. Pretty much any woman who has given vaginal birth will have hemorrhoids too.
As long as you communicated with me if anything made you uncomfortable, I personally wouldn’t be bothered too much.
Don’t care at all as long as I’m not hurting her. Realistically if the hemorrhoids were really bulging it might be a little new to me but it’s really not a big deal.
Also I hope you’ve tried reaching out to a doctor for your own sake.
Disclosure is the first thing and if someone is comfortable with you. Then they shouldn’t be an issue. Some will have an issue. But some who just want a fuck hirny fucks won’t care
Just a thought, you should probably keep things out of your ass until you don’t have hemorrhoids.
Why not just…take care of them in general before you start pursuing intimacy?
I mean, my butt stuff experience is pretty limited, but I don’t remember spreading cheeks with nitrile gloves and a flashlight in mouth inspecting closely.
Don’t worry about that. Worry about if it’s going to hurt or even rupture them
I’m ignorant since I’m not with women……are the vaginal hemorrhoids?
We dudes get them too. Nothing to be ashamed of. You may mention it just to avoid awkward questions, but the majority of us are just happy to be there lol.
That doesn’t sit well with me. Can’t bear that weight. It’d be a pain in the ass to avoid her pain. /s
Irrelevant since I occasionally get them too
I’m cool with it as long as she doesn’t care they I have them too.