We’ve been together for four years, just moved in together at the end of last year. He has a roach infestation and it’s really starting to take a toll on my mental health. He also has a cat even though I’m allergic and allergy pills don’t help me. The reason that I’m waiting until this weekend to leave him is because my mother will be in town and she has already agreed to help me get my stuff out. I’m very anxious about leaving since he freaked out when I tried to before, and also because I’m not a confrontational person. How can I break up with him without being mean? I’ve never broken up with someone before.
TL;DR – leaving my boyfriend this weekend because he’s disgusting, how can I do it?