When I was in my mid-20s, I had only “been with” one person. I went out with a buddy during grad school and this guy was flirting with us. An Olympian athlete that had photos with the president (Obama – not doctored or AI).
We let him drive us somewhere else and it was extremely sketchy. I was very, very nervous. We hung out enough to be “gracious” and left. I don’t even remember how we got back. But man. I googled him later. Confirmed Olympian – he wasn’t lying. But after that his top hits were about terroristic threats against his mom and a SWAT team showing up at his house to get him out without hurting her or himself.
I mean, alarm bells should have been ringing when he was bragging about being an Olympian. When photos of him with Obama came out. I did Google lightly while in the bathroom alone. I had no “intentions” with this man, but obviously he had intentions with me and my friend.
I can’t believe I have never had something worse happen to me than what ever happened. This was a case of me being stupid/naïve.
Ladies. Be so fucking careful. Be safer than I was. Be so smart. Be so, so careful. God, we were dumb and so fucking lucky.