Like most people, probably weight and height. I’m 5’9 and roughly 190 pounds (I haven’t been weighed since last July so I might have lost a few pounds since then) but yeah. I do hope to get back into working out this summer so maybe we can change one of those insecurities š«”
Being overweight and having tit’s cause of it š¤£. I don’t have a big dick but I also don’t care about that. I’d just like to be in good shape and of good health.
Dad bod for sure. I was a lot more fit 2 years ago and nearly had a six pack. Now while still pretty muscular, carry a bit too much weight for my liking. Not like a beer belly but not what I want.
I lack body hair. Like ZERO chest hair. And I know some don’t like it anyway, but sometimes it makes me feel less masculine. lol, not sure why, But it does.
Age. While I can try to keep healthy at any age, entropy increases. I no longer have insecurity about what other people think, but insecurity about what my body will be able to do as the years pass.
ummm just about everything, my metabolism is sofa king high that I need to take supplements in order to get above 120 lbs. I’m underweight and eat and eat and ear. but nothing.
Before it used to be my acne but itās been cleared up after years of hell but now itās the eczema thatās developed on my hands and ear lobe and on my eye lid (not as bad but still a pain to deal with in public when it dries up)
My belly.
Iām 6ā3ā and slim.
Diagnosed with hypothyroidism (holding fat is a side effect) at 24 (now 37) and in the last few years Iāve really started to hold fatā¦ but ONLY on my belly š
Currently stuck with what looks like to be a beer belly. Iām losing weight all around, but the belly and man boobs are there š itās crazy. I think itās genetic for me.
no matter how much i train, my arms dont seem big enough (they are, its just i dont see it). If I was younger and still feeling like i was immortal i would probably jump on the steroid bandwagon because of this.
I’m 300 lbs and I’ve been told by doctors and nurses that since I’m off the growth chart that I’m morbidly obese (I’ve been off the growth charts since I was 6 and so I was always called fat by people)
Everyone tells me that I look like a naked mole rat when I take off my glasses
my sleep apnea. You have no idea how difficult it is to make a move on your wife when you are in your 40’s and have to breath through a tube to stay alive every night.
I always pictured myself as 5 inches taller with a skinny surfer bod. But I’m short and stocky with fast developing muscles and weight. It’s never been about adding the mass but keeping it off.
My nipples. It would be fine if they were both small or large but one is the size of a pepperoni and the other is the size of a dime. I got in shape to see if it would go away but nope
i actually think my dick is okay, an extra inch would be nice but I’m not complaining. I do have a slight birth defect where my scrotum is attached mid shaft, it can make it look a little strange from certain angles. My face, hair, and weight. I don’t think I’m going bald, but my hair just seems thinner some part lines seem wider.
Everything tbh. When you go your whole life without anyone ever giving you any sexual acknowledgment, you feel wrong – even if you don’t know what the culprits are.
Being short (163 cm at 20 years old).
To be more accurate I have no problem with being short but what annoys me is people who bully me or make fun of me. Sometimes I’m completely minding my own business and some assholes make fun of me to make others laugh.
Ive got a cyst on my sack I call my third nut. It’s bigger than my actual nuts at this point. In American measurements it’s the size of a regular chicken egg.
Being fat and because of that my thing appears smaller. Also the skin color of this area is becoming darker with age and it’s something I would like to change if possible.
My dick is a great dick while hard. 6.5 inches, a decent amount of girth without being overbearing. My wife and I are swingers, so I have had a lot of sexual partners, and my dick has been described, on more than one occasion, as the perfect dick for anal. It stretches, but doesnāt break. āIt hurts just the right amount to quickly become pleasurableā.
Iāve always loved that about myselfā¦
Iām a grower, but I used to be a shower in my 20s.
Once I hit my 30s, my dick just decided to retreat up into me when not in use. Flaccid, I used to be 4 inches at least. Now, sometimes Iām a flaccid 2ā¦ 2.5 on a good day.
I think some of it has to do with developing more of a dad bod. Iāve been working out and that seems to be helping a bit, but I hate getting naked in front of people now unless Iām ready to fuck.
Thinning hair which means now I shave my head every morning and, being an ectomorph, I can gain some muscle definition but I’ll never look jacked. Apparently I have high muscle density.
Nothing at all any longer, I had them in teenage years, from crooked ears to loss of hair, and then overtime learn to accept myself. Nobody is perfect and there is no objective perfection in the first place. Also, attraction is subjective and women like confidence much more than insecurities (well men as well).
My weight had increased by 10 pounds in the last two years. I don’t work out, I have a thing on my foot that makes standing for long periods hurt, like stepping on a knife.
I have managed to reduce my calorie intake to slowly start losing weight so I just need to keep at it.
I have consumed too much adult content about women liking huge schlongs, so i’m insecure about my junk even though it’s probably average. Also my weight.
Men’s bodys are a weird problem. We’re taught all our lives that nobody wants to see our bodies, we’re not desired like women are. Women’s body’s are works of art, men’s are primal and utilitarian. They’re unsightly by default. Now we’re all trying our best to get jacked and in shape and now we’re being told that women still don’t like that and it’s gross in a different way.
Idk, these are weird times to be a man. It’s like nothing we do is right by society
I’m grotesquely hairy. I use a swim shirt at the pool cause the only person who isn’t mortified when I go shirtless is my wife and even 11 years later I’m still convinced shes only being nice.
Maybe if I could get one of those obscene Viking bods it would balance out the sasquatch. But anything short of that, I’m just not gonna subject anyone else to my horror show body.
My family comes from a long line of big, tall, wide shoulder men with members that of horses. My father was a giant of a man (6foot7). And then thereās me, 270 pounds, right under six foot tall (5foot11) and miniature sized penis. Was made fun of growing up with the small penis. Testosterone levels in my life have always been low; always above 100. Tested multiple times, mid 1990ās. Was told by doctors that my testosterone and thyroid levels were āwithin normal rangeā. I just needed to diet. I experienced mood swings throughout all my years and I finally found a different doctor and I have gotten on TRT and take thyroid medication but already in my 40ās. I highly doubt that I will grow anytime soon. My testosterone levels are still below 500 one year in but I feel better than I ever have in my lifetime.
Mine are a lot more about what it does than what it looks like
A good for instance is psoriasis. I bleed on everything. Always. Everywhere. Somewhere on my body is probably bleeding a bit. So I’d start with ruining sheets and towels and clothing with amazing speed
I used to really hate my voice, spent the first half of my childhood in Michigan and the other in Texas so I ended up with the Nasaliness of the north, but Hickness of the south. What makes me feel better is just keeping in mind that a lot of famous people can get easily recognized by voice, no matter how awful some of their voices may be.
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when you like to overthink then you have alot of insecurities š
Easy one. I am well under the average size, down below.
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Calves kinda small…..
Penis size and dad bod
I’m way too thin
Like most people, probably weight and height. I’m 5’9 and roughly 190 pounds (I haven’t been weighed since last July so I might have lost a few pounds since then) but yeah. I do hope to get back into working out this summer so maybe we can change one of those insecurities š«”
Overweight, but thats my fault and Ive been in the gym working on it
My little love handles
Being overweight and having tit’s cause of it š¤£. I don’t have a big dick but I also don’t care about that. I’d just like to be in good shape and of good health.
I kind of wish I didn’t have a hairy back, but I almost never go out without a shirt on so nobody has to know about it but me.
Everything really lol. Mostly muscle (or lack thereof) and height
I got ezciema really bad on my chest i wear a shirt to water parks, never taken a nude
im pretty slim but these love handles DONT COME OFF
I’m short….
My chest, also I am a bit too skinny for my taste
Dad bod for sure. I was a lot more fit 2 years ago and nearly had a six pack. Now while still pretty muscular, carry a bit too much weight for my liking. Not like a beer belly but not what I want.
Despite my ICD implantā¦ scars on my chest.. stuttering.. beauty marks on all over.. Iād say the š¢affect lol
My gut. Used to be my bald head, but I love being bald now.
Height š
I have a secret freckle.
I lack body hair. Like ZERO chest hair. And I know some don’t like it anyway, but sometimes it makes me feel less masculine. lol, not sure why, But it does.
Chicken legs
Where do I start?
Man boobs and double chin. Even after losing weight both are still very much present.
Being short. Itās fine now but it gets really annoying when someone constantly making the same short jokes to you
Everything š¤¦
Age. While I can try to keep healthy at any age, entropy increases. I no longer have insecurity about what other people think, but insecurity about what my body will be able to do as the years pass.
ummm just about everything, my metabolism is sofa king high that I need to take supplements in order to get above 120 lbs. I’m underweight and eat and eat and ear. but nothing.
Before it used to be my acne but itās been cleared up after years of hell but now itās the eczema thatās developed on my hands and ear lobe and on my eye lid (not as bad but still a pain to deal with in public when it dries up)
My Dong is all wrong
Acne
Dick size
To sum it up, every single compliment I have ever received feels like pity.
Got quite a tiny waist for a man and flat tummy too
My lips idk how they can look this big
My 5.5 inch cock has always been mine
My belly.
Iām 6ā3ā and slim.
Diagnosed with hypothyroidism (holding fat is a side effect) at 24 (now 37) and in the last few years Iāve really started to hold fatā¦ but ONLY on my belly š
My chicken legs, Iām 5ā7ā and weigh 170ish pounds and 130 is from the waist up.
How skinny I am. I eat a lot but I get the opposite of fat shamed. āYou need some meat on your bonesā
Dih curves left im fine with everyone else
wide hips and gyno
Currently stuck with what looks like to be a beer belly. Iām losing weight all around, but the belly and man boobs are there š itās crazy. I think itās genetic for me.
no matter how much i train, my arms dont seem big enough (they are, its just i dont see it). If I was younger and still feeling like i was immortal i would probably jump on the steroid bandwagon because of this.
My smile
My skin, I have chronic, systemic psoriasis
I’m 6’8 so I get told I’m way too tall.
I’m 300 lbs and I’ve been told by doctors and nurses that since I’m off the growth chart that I’m morbidly obese (I’ve been off the growth charts since I was 6 and so I was always called fat by people)
Everyone tells me that I look like a naked mole rat when I take off my glasses
Having thick bones for my size (I have been 4ā11ā for 3 years now and I am a Freshman)
Iām really skinny have been balding the last 3-4 years. Plus the gap in my front teeth is coming back. Slowly working on all of this
my sleep apnea. You have no idea how difficult it is to make a move on your wife when you are in your 40’s and have to breath through a tube to stay alive every night.
I have bad acne on my back that am trying to Treet but they are not going away for some reason š.
Everything except weight and height
Same as a lot of guys. Penis
Iām gonna sit this one out guys
I always pictured myself as 5 inches taller with a skinny surfer bod. But I’m short and stocky with fast developing muscles and weight. It’s never been about adding the mass but keeping it off.
My height, my teeth and my pimples
All of me
My nipples. It would be fine if they were both small or large but one is the size of a pepperoni and the other is the size of a dime. I got in shape to see if it would go away but nope
Skinny legs
Being really skinny and not really having any muscle mass
i actually think my dick is okay, an extra inch would be nice but I’m not complaining. I do have a slight birth defect where my scrotum is attached mid shaft, it can make it look a little strange from certain angles. My face, hair, and weight. I don’t think I’m going bald, but my hair just seems thinner some part lines seem wider.
Everything!!!! I am even well-equipped. I just never feel like I can Maintain a good body image.
Dad bod and stretch marks on my belly.
Everything tbh. When you go your whole life without anyone ever giving you any sexual acknowledgment, you feel wrong – even if you don’t know what the culprits are.
Is all of it an option?
Being short (163 cm at 20 years old).
To be more accurate I have no problem with being short but what annoys me is people who bully me or make fun of me. Sometimes I’m completely minding my own business and some assholes make fun of me to make others laugh.
How skinny and frail-looking I am, mainly. My facial features / skin / teeth. Eczema.
Ive got a cyst on my sack I call my third nut. It’s bigger than my actual nuts at this point. In American measurements it’s the size of a regular chicken egg.
Height, (lack of) muscles, dick size
Being fat and because of that my thing appears smaller. Also the skin color of this area is becoming darker with age and it’s something I would like to change if possible.
Love handles ( i am slim ) and i have gyno also
My height, my hair loss
None.
Teeth
Hight
Legs
Torso in general
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I don’t like my belly. My mom keeps telling me I’m fat. But my wife tells me I’m fluffy and motorboats my man-boobs, so it can’t be that bad.
That I have only one.
None really now that I think about it. I used to a have lot, about a variety of things, some that didnāt matter and some that did.
Then I spent most of last year in a relationship with someone who restored my confidence and made me feel attractive for the first time in my life.
Iāve lost a little weight since then too, which has added some extra positivity to my self image.
So right now Iām feeling really pretty good about how my body looks, for the first time in my life.
none?! i mean, i know I’m not Henry Cavill but thats not enough reason to affect my mood any negatively
Everything
Trust in me
5ā9
none.
Trust in me
(Motions to all of it)
My dick is a great dick while hard. 6.5 inches, a decent amount of girth without being overbearing. My wife and I are swingers, so I have had a lot of sexual partners, and my dick has been described, on more than one occasion, as the perfect dick for anal. It stretches, but doesnāt break. āIt hurts just the right amount to quickly become pleasurableā.
Iāve always loved that about myselfā¦
Iām a grower, but I used to be a shower in my 20s.
Once I hit my 30s, my dick just decided to retreat up into me when not in use. Flaccid, I used to be 4 inches at least. Now, sometimes Iām a flaccid 2ā¦ 2.5 on a good day.
I think some of it has to do with developing more of a dad bod. Iāve been working out and that seems to be helping a bit, but I hate getting naked in front of people now unless Iām ready to fuck.
Being cheated on as I won’t be enough for my partner.
Skinny and I can’t fuckin put on weight fuckin tried everything wtf
BALD
I wish my stomach was more toned.
love handles, i don’t LOVE them lmao
It could always be a little bigger. Other than that Iām pretty happy.
Cellulite in my thighs and my dick.
Thinning hair which means now I shave my head every morning and, being an ectomorph, I can gain some muscle definition but I’ll never look jacked. Apparently I have high muscle density.
Love handles.. i know that itās not bad on me but I feel bad about it anyways š
And the fear my member wont cooperate when I want to š
back acne
Nothing at all any longer, I had them in teenage years, from crooked ears to loss of hair, and then overtime learn to accept myself. Nobody is perfect and there is no objective perfection in the first place. Also, attraction is subjective and women like confidence much more than insecurities (well men as well).
My weight had increased by 10 pounds in the last two years. I don’t work out, I have a thing on my foot that makes standing for long periods hurt, like stepping on a knife.
I have managed to reduce my calorie intake to slowly start losing weight so I just need to keep at it.
my legs
One side of my chest sticks out more than the other.
r/AskMen
Sweaty asscrack.
Hairy as f
My hairy back and my penis!
I have consumed too much adult content about women liking huge schlongs, so i’m insecure about my junk even though it’s probably average. Also my weight.
Men’s bodys are a weird problem. We’re taught all our lives that nobody wants to see our bodies, we’re not desired like women are. Women’s body’s are works of art, men’s are primal and utilitarian. They’re unsightly by default. Now we’re all trying our best to get jacked and in shape and now we’re being told that women still don’t like that and it’s gross in a different way.
Idk, these are weird times to be a man. It’s like nothing we do is right by society
An upward curve. Always been self-conscious about it.
I’m grotesquely hairy. I use a swim shirt at the pool cause the only person who isn’t mortified when I go shirtless is my wife and even 11 years later I’m still convinced shes only being nice.
Maybe if I could get one of those obscene Viking bods it would balance out the sasquatch. But anything short of that, I’m just not gonna subject anyone else to my horror show body.
I’m short, and as a man that means it’s much harder to earn people’s respect
I have entirely too much body hair for my liking.
Saggy man boobs after losing 120 lbs
Dad bod, and white and shiny. Plus bald… not over weight, just unsure.
My family comes from a long line of big, tall, wide shoulder men with members that of horses. My father was a giant of a man (6foot7). And then thereās me, 270 pounds, right under six foot tall (5foot11) and miniature sized penis. Was made fun of growing up with the small penis. Testosterone levels in my life have always been low; always above 100. Tested multiple times, mid 1990ās. Was told by doctors that my testosterone and thyroid levels were āwithin normal rangeā. I just needed to diet. I experienced mood swings throughout all my years and I finally found a different doctor and I have gotten on TRT and take thyroid medication but already in my 40ās. I highly doubt that I will grow anytime soon. My testosterone levels are still below 500 one year in but I feel better than I ever have in my lifetime.
Wish I was taller
My teeth are fucked, and beyond my reach financially to fix.
Everything.
None. Not because there aren’t any, but because I am far more concerned with my personality defects.
Mine are a lot more about what it does than what it looks like
A good for instance is psoriasis. I bleed on everything. Always. Everywhere. Somewhere on my body is probably bleeding a bit. So I’d start with ruining sheets and towels and clothing with amazing speed
I used to really hate my voice, spent the first half of my childhood in Michigan and the other in Texas so I ended up with the Nasaliness of the north, but Hickness of the south. What makes me feel better is just keeping in mind that a lot of famous people can get easily recognized by voice, no matter how awful some of their voices may be.
I worry my penis might be too big and perfect. :/