Cheating.. he left me for a woman he have a short affair with for 2 months.. 8 years Down the drain. Oh yeah he acutally moved in with her same day he broke up with me…
I didn’t put in enough effort in life or the relationship, and when I started to put in more effort she had already given up and made the decision that no matter what I do we’re done. It had been 11 years.
Cheating. They denied it, but when 5 of my friends who I’ve 1) known a lot longer, and 2) have no reason to lie to me, tell me they saw her with someone else multiple times, I tend to believe them. She kept denying it, I could tell she was trying to force herself to cry, but it just came off as pathetic. I told her I never wanted to see her again, and I never did. Not long after that, I met the woman I eventually married and have been with ever since.
I missed some red flags because I was in a bad accident. She stuck through me during my bad time, which I thought was sweet and commendable. As I slowly got my health and strength back, I saw that she had a lot of issues and was in need of some serious therapy. She was a victim of abuse, probably dating back to childhood. And she also had a eating disorder and a drinking problem.
I started going down the rabbit hole with her, but eventually had to end it. She said she was going to work on her issues but it was apparent that she was very good at avoiding help. The last straw was on NYE. She lied to me about drinking. We were watching a movie and she kept getting up to go to the kitchen. When she got back to the couch, I went to the kitchen and opened up one of the dish cupboards and there was a full (to the brim) glass of wine. It wasn’t the first time she lied about it either. I knew that in the new year that I’d have to end it, and I did.
Too bad. She has a heart of gold, is attractive, and has a lot going for her but her life is falling apart because of her issues.
Cultural differences. We kept our relationship a secret, and his parents wanted him in an arranged marriage. Eventually, he couldn’t avoid it, so we broke up.
She went from being excited to see me and asking about my day and cuddling me to sleep after making love to barely acknowledging my presence and playing Destiny 2 until 2 or 3 in the morning with men who flirted with her while I cried myself to sleep.
Invited me for a Christmas dinner at her place (2 hours away from the city) just to break up with me. And I was stuck at her place for a couple of days because no busses were available during holidays. Hurt me quite badly, oh and also emotional manipulation, physical abuse & cheating.
Among many things, 80% of what she talked about was how much she hates men because they always abuse and take advantage of women. The rest 20% was about how amazing she is.
Lots. We were together too long, and shouldn’t have gotten together in the first place. He cheated on me a 4 separate times and I resented the hell out of him. Finally cheated on him and left.
He cheated on me with a man day before my birthday and then he forgot my birthday and we had to redo it on valentine’s day which was bad. Then he went to his BROJO sesh. Yeah I found out days following my birthday that they had been doing this for the entire time we were back together.
We were in a relationship for almost five years. Five years of begging him to talk to me, listen to my hurt, spend time together.
I’m bisexual and now my fear is that a man or woman will now leave me for a standard I can never compare to. A man. He really fucked me up mentally.
She served me divorce papers. Lol. I’m an alcoholic, so I don’t blame her for leaving, and I don’t hold any negative feelings towards her. Almost sober 2 years. AA saved my life. It’s really good now, and I feel at peace. Hope everyone is doing well!
Too many red flags for me to deal with any longer. We were together for 3 years but honestly I regret starting it in the first place, and not ending it after a few months. Reasons included but arent limited to:
She loved drama. She needed drama. She didnt like calm, she wanted storm. She didnt want peace, she actively sought conflict. Why? Because “no arguments means we dont care enough about each other”, which is a load of horseshit.
sex = love to her. If I didnt want sex it was a direct sign to her I didnt love her. Didnt matter if she was home all alone and I worked 9 hours that day, traveled for 2, did groceries, the cooking, and even the laundry and I was a damn wreck. Sex or it meant no love, which in turn became conflict.
she was irresponsible with money. If she had 10 bucks on her and needed to pay back someone she’d pay them back and immediately spend the remaining money. She couldnt save a damn cent. Oh but dont worry, I had a stable income so I could take her out to dinner, trips, buy clothing, get her gifts etc etc.
one of the worst offenders: she was dishonest about money. She had someone handle her finances so she wouldnt get into debt again. Frequently if I had to get her something like parking money or stuff we agreed on we would both pay for… I had to chase after my money and talk to her money handler who, what a twist, was never informed. She did the same shit with her mom.
and finally: she just didnt do anything when she moved in with me. No dishes. No laundry. No cooking. No cleaning. She would leave empty bags and shit everywhere. Called her out on this numerous times, and it was always “why are you mad its JUST A BAG”.
Admittedly and to her credit, after the relationship ended she fully admitted she contributed maybe 10% to the relationship stability, and nothing more. We still remain decent friends, but even fwb isnt happening anymore. Just seeing her reminded me of how much I didnt feel like a person/boyfriend, but just a walking servant or wallet.
Feeling alone when you’re together in the same room is a shit feeling.
He was a man child and didn’t want to grow up, it made me fall out of love with him. Overall – a great guy, he was just too immature about certain things that I couldn’t handle and couldn’t make him want to change. We are both happily married to other people now and it all worked out for the best.
Me. Frankly, I didn’t love her. Jumped into something when I wasn’t ready, and even though I was a good guy to her for those 8 months or so, I simply wasted her time.
Idk man. It was the whole getting someone pregnant & him beating the shit out of me the entire relationship 🤣🤣🤣🤣 (I’m ok I just laugh bc it feels better handling it this way) 😭🤣
I went through his phone and found out he was cheating on me + taking videos of me during intimacy without my knowledge. Also he had all of his intimate videos with his ex still saved. Guess whose videos were in his favorites folder :/.
Looking back, I think it would’ve ended anyway because I didn’t like him enough to keep dating him when I went back to college (it was a summer fling) but at the time, I ended the relationship because he was too needy.
When I would go to work (as a lifeguard) each day, he would text me throughout my entire shift. If there were long gaps of time between my texts (because I was on chair rotation) he would send passive aggressive texts about me not caring enough to respond. When I got home from work, he’d want to hangout immediately. If I wanted time to myself before hanging out, he’d again accuse me of not caring enough. If I wanted to stay in and not see him (because I had work early the next day too), he’d interrogate me. It was suffocating. I felt like I couldn’t go about my day-to-day life without him buzzing around me like a fucking fly.
I ended up dumping him a few days before my birthday and he took it quite well. He then messaged me on my birthday asking if I wanted my present- since it was not returnable and he had purchased it prior to us breaking up. I didn’t want to be mean, so I said sure. Then, when I went to his house, he continued to be extremely needy and suffocating. He started asking if there was someone else and questioning me a ton.
He died…it’s a strange thing not having broken up with someone… the first few years after I had him on a pedestal as I remembered all the good times…
… it’s been 5 years now, and I’m recalling the less than favorable things… the things that I’ll use to better define my boundaries in my next relationship. He was my first boyfriend, and my first real experience dealing with a man romantically.
… it’s just a weird feeling, sometimes… having not chosen to walk away or end it…
My wife died. Mycobacterium Avium Complex. Typically you see this a lot in the lungs of immunocompromised patients.
Hers was in her brain. From the research I have gathered, there have been less than 10 known cases in the US. And this comes from the National Institute of Health in Bethesda, MD, where she passed.
He asked if he could hit me during sex. I said that light, basically tapping was fine if he really wanted to. During sex, he hit me lightly, it was fine. He then proceeded to get this just crazed look in his eyes before hitting me so hard that I lost hearing in my right ear for a couple days.
I then found out about how violent his actual fantasies were, much more violent than hitting. It was like once he got one good hit in, the flood gates were open and he couldn’t stop saying all the horrible stuff he wanted to do. It was terrifying. Like, stuff I can’t say on Reddit.
Anyways. Haven’t dated since, because that was so disturbing to go through. My ear is better now though! I didn’t go to the doctor because I was afraid that I’d get interviewed by police, and I did say he could hit me so I didn’t want to get slut shamed by police about that, but thankfully it healed on its own.
I ended things because I made way more of an effort to spend time with him than he did for me. I went two months without seeing him in person, even though he lived 20 minutes away from me. I’m certain he started developing feelings for someone else, but I have no evidence
She kept saying she needed less and less of me in her life. I kept giving it to her. After all, having her in my life was the best thing I had.
Then she says that she only wants me to come over once a week and only for a little while. This stunned me, but I thought on it a day or two. I called her on the phone, and said “Sure. I agree to only coming over once a week and only for a little while.” Even though it hurt to say.
This bitch tells me “I didn’t say you could come over anymore”.
My addiction to drugs. That and we had marital problems before that secret came to light. But once it did, the shit hit the fan and that really ended it. In the end, I think we are both happier now. I didn’t want the marriage to end, I was in it for life.. but I understand her decision and don’t blame her. I wish she would have stayed, sickness n health n all that but I can’t change the past. I can only move forward with positivity. I’m 10 months single and 10 months clean and sober.
He was verbally abusive. Constantly screaming at me and our 1 year old child. Refused to get a job. I was working night shift 9-7, getting home and immediately getting our child for the day so he could sit on the couch and play games. I was barely eating and sleeping. I would get maybe 4-5 hours of sleep a week. And I was eating once every 2-3 days. Not to mention paying rent and bills. Not to mention he was more worried about being with his 16 year old girlfriend. He wouldn’t even sleep in the bed with me. We’re both in our 20s. Thats just the gist of it, theres so much more that makes it even crazier.
I wanted to eat some magic mushrooms and go for a nature walk. Apparently that means I’m a drug addict. Even though I haven’t tripped in many, many, years. 10 year relationship, down the drain. Oh well. At least I’ve still got my mushrooms.
He started getting overly obsessed with taking my virginity (we were seniors in hs) and was overly sexual at all times (always asking for nudes/videos/sexual comments). I couldn’t see him for 10 minutes without him trying to feel me up (and we worked at the same place). That was the main cause but i found out later he was talking to other girls while he was working late and I was not there. (and by “talking to” I mean flirting, texting, video chatting, etc with girls that we ALSO worked with)
Me. She was way too touchy-feely for me and I told her several times to stop. Thought I could get used to it, but I couldn’t do it anymore. My fault for starting a relationship in the first place knowing she was touchy-feely.
He smoked weed and cigarettes every single day in his apartment (the smell was nauseating. literally) and had anger issues that he didn’t want to admit. (Hit a computer screen with his fist right in front of me because of WiFi issues and once slightly slapped my face because I accidentally startled his cat which caused it to run into sth face first).
We were friends before dating and I just ignored some red flags I saw during that time because my attraction to him clouded my judgement.
We had both fallen in love with a fantasy of who the other was, rather than reality. Inevitably that could only go on for so long until alienation and disillusion.
Lots of little things piling up to be big things, always checking my phone turned into trying to get me to not see my friends, that turned into outright forbidding me or giving me limits and curfews, then he had someone else stalk me to make sure I listened to him and so on … Scary honestly, I still can’t handle a car driving behind me for to long
Punch in the balls for trying to stop her from driving drunk,then after a few hours,kicking,punches in the face,stomach,hit with the chair in the back then she ended up pissing on me to show me that I am beneath her.
Mind you this was the hours after she apologized for yesterday’s violence.To this day,she blames me for leaving.
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She did not trust me in the least. Every chance she got to doubt my commitment, she took it.
Me.
Long distance, me having a low income and the sanctions on her country that was Russia if you hadn’t guessed.
Cheated on me a lot while also acting like I was untrustworthy.
Too immature and wasn’t ready for LTC met my now gf 3 years later and now going on 12 years together. Wouldn’t happen if I didn’t mature as a person.
He said im selfish because im the only one behind
I ended it because it became unhealthy and honestly scary.
She was super-clingy. Jealous of time I spent see work… like get to my phone after work and have 40 texts and a dozen missed calls… psycho
Married now. Wife is sane and has good boundaries and life skills
The bitch went crazy and started acting erratic which led to me being in a homeless shelter.
She told me I couldn’t make it anywhere except my hometown. That was a really sore subject, and I decided I didn’t need that shit in my life
Me waking up
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She went through my phone to start a fight and I said NOPE✌️
Trust and lack of open communication
My ex fell on another dudes dick
Cheating.. he left me for a woman he have a short affair with for 2 months.. 8 years Down the drain. Oh yeah he acutally moved in with her same day he broke up with me…
She had multiple wardrobe malfunctions. Seems her pants just couldn’t stay on around other guys
I met my now wife. When you know you found her you don’t keep wasting your time or someone else’s
he cheated on me
Drug addiction. Hell every single relationship I’ve been in my addiction came first and was the cause of many relationships ending.
Became abusive. So I escaped before I was going to get killed.
She wanted to marry me for her papers. I said no.
I ended it. She was almost two people, and I didn’t know how to handle that.
Lack of respect or boundaries.
They cheated
I was not a good person.
Askreddit has been hitting home today wtf
I didn’t put in enough effort in life or the relationship, and when I started to put in more effort she had already given up and made the decision that no matter what I do we’re done. It had been 11 years.
Cheating. They denied it, but when 5 of my friends who I’ve 1) known a lot longer, and 2) have no reason to lie to me, tell me they saw her with someone else multiple times, I tend to believe them. She kept denying it, I could tell she was trying to force herself to cry, but it just came off as pathetic. I told her I never wanted to see her again, and I never did. Not long after that, I met the woman I eventually married and have been with ever since.
I missed some red flags because I was in a bad accident. She stuck through me during my bad time, which I thought was sweet and commendable. As I slowly got my health and strength back, I saw that she had a lot of issues and was in need of some serious therapy. She was a victim of abuse, probably dating back to childhood. And she also had a eating disorder and a drinking problem.
I started going down the rabbit hole with her, but eventually had to end it. She said she was going to work on her issues but it was apparent that she was very good at avoiding help. The last straw was on NYE. She lied to me about drinking. We were watching a movie and she kept getting up to go to the kitchen. When she got back to the couch, I went to the kitchen and opened up one of the dish cupboards and there was a full (to the brim) glass of wine. It wasn’t the first time she lied about it either. I knew that in the new year that I’d have to end it, and I did.
Too bad. She has a heart of gold, is attractive, and has a lot going for her but her life is falling apart because of her issues.
Cultural differences. We kept our relationship a secret, and his parents wanted him in an arranged marriage. Eventually, he couldn’t avoid it, so we broke up.
Third person got involved and caused a lot of miscommunication between us. Led to my ex emotionally cheating on me.
She went from being excited to see me and asking about my day and cuddling me to sleep after making love to barely acknowledging my presence and playing Destiny 2 until 2 or 3 in the morning with men who flirted with her while I cried myself to sleep.
Invited me for a Christmas dinner at her place (2 hours away from the city) just to break up with me. And I was stuck at her place for a couple of days because no busses were available during holidays. Hurt me quite badly, oh and also emotional manipulation, physical abuse & cheating.
She was sleeping with the guy I had considered to be one of my closest my friends.
Immaturity and emotionally unstable
Later on, I found out because he was dying. It was a long distance relationship; much more made sense after he was gone.
leukemia :/
Death, unfortunately, my boyfriend passed away from septicemia and end stage liver disease August 25, 2023.
Among many things, 80% of what she talked about was how much she hates men because they always abuse and take advantage of women. The rest 20% was about how amazing she is.
Cheating on me and then lying about me.
His avoidant behavior. :/ Can’t have anyone too close even though he pursued me.
Domestic violence ✨
He cheated on me with my best friend
A boy who couldn’t face himself and his traumas to grow from them that ran away with a receptionist
Lots. We were together too long, and shouldn’t have gotten together in the first place. He cheated on me a 4 separate times and I resented the hell out of him. Finally cheated on him and left.
An insecure man is a very dangerous person to anyone
He was on dating apps for “networking “
He decided he wanted to try getting methed out behind a Kroger, then he fucked his ex. I’ll never look at groceries the same way again
He refused to accept I don’t like the Beatles.
The dude covering his fucking ears every time I told him I loved him. He ended it over a phone call.
Alcoholism, narcissism, lying, betrayal
Cheating, porn addiction, resentment, didn’t find him attractive physically anymore
She cheated on me but she ended it because she thoughtp i cheated on her
Me, I was a horrible alcoholic had no control of my actions at the time. I am however 5 months sober now and making sure I’m a better man
Cheated on me multiple times
He cheated on me with a man day before my birthday and then he forgot my birthday and we had to redo it on valentine’s day which was bad. Then he went to his BROJO sesh. Yeah I found out days following my birthday that they had been doing this for the entire time we were back together.
We were in a relationship for almost five years. Five years of begging him to talk to me, listen to my hurt, spend time together.
I’m bisexual and now my fear is that a man or woman will now leave me for a standard I can never compare to. A man. He really fucked me up mentally.
Disrespect. I gave him 3 strikes.
She served me divorce papers. Lol. I’m an alcoholic, so I don’t blame her for leaving, and I don’t hold any negative feelings towards her. Almost sober 2 years. AA saved my life. It’s really good now, and I feel at peace. Hope everyone is doing well!
I knew I’d see him on the news for murdering someone (or multiple people) one day and I didn’t want to be his victim
Too many red flags for me to deal with any longer. We were together for 3 years but honestly I regret starting it in the first place, and not ending it after a few months. Reasons included but arent limited to:
Admittedly and to her credit, after the relationship ended she fully admitted she contributed maybe 10% to the relationship stability, and nothing more. We still remain decent friends, but even fwb isnt happening anymore. Just seeing her reminded me of how much I didnt feel like a person/boyfriend, but just a walking servant or wallet.
Feeling alone when you’re together in the same room is a shit feeling.
My partner of 9 yrs filmed my 14 yr old daughter undressing.
Erectile disfunction and she cheated on me which makes sense
He assaulted me then drove his car into a lake (survived)
I broke up with her because I didn’t think it was fair for her to date a truck driver when I’m gone 26 to 27 days out of the month
He was a man child and didn’t want to grow up, it made me fall out of love with him. Overall – a great guy, he was just too immature about certain things that I couldn’t handle and couldn’t make him want to change. We are both happily married to other people now and it all worked out for the best.
Me. Frankly, I didn’t love her. Jumped into something when I wasn’t ready, and even though I was a good guy to her for those 8 months or so, I simply wasted her time.
Marriage. I like to introduce her as my ex-girlfriend and it annoys the hell out of her.
Her interest in everyone bone that popped up
Idk man. It was the whole getting someone pregnant & him beating the shit out of me the entire relationship 🤣🤣🤣🤣 (I’m ok I just laugh bc it feels better handling it this way) 😭🤣
The fact that it never started because I’ve always been single lmao
The bad mouthing of me to her entire friends and family. The relationship had no security.
She gave me gonorrhea. Which also implies she cheated and she wasn’t careful. Also she continued to lie even when confronted with lab results.
This was just yesterday. I’m on my second day of treatment. 5 more days and I’ll be completely rid of her, hopefully.
Some other guy’s dick
They died
Went into the relationship clean (tested), walked away with herpes 😬
I went through his phone and found out he was cheating on me + taking videos of me during intimacy without my knowledge. Also he had all of his intimate videos with his ex still saved. Guess whose videos were in his favorites folder :/.
Domestic violence
Their insistent unrelenting arrogance, instigating of psychological warfare, harassment, blackmail, and overall narcissism.
Never again ✌️
She thought monogamy was a type of wood.
Looking back, I think it would’ve ended anyway because I didn’t like him enough to keep dating him when I went back to college (it was a summer fling) but at the time, I ended the relationship because he was too needy.
When I would go to work (as a lifeguard) each day, he would text me throughout my entire shift. If there were long gaps of time between my texts (because I was on chair rotation) he would send passive aggressive texts about me not caring enough to respond. When I got home from work, he’d want to hangout immediately. If I wanted time to myself before hanging out, he’d again accuse me of not caring enough. If I wanted to stay in and not see him (because I had work early the next day too), he’d interrogate me. It was suffocating. I felt like I couldn’t go about my day-to-day life without him buzzing around me like a fucking fly.
I ended up dumping him a few days before my birthday and he took it quite well. He then messaged me on my birthday asking if I wanted my present- since it was not returnable and he had purchased it prior to us breaking up. I didn’t want to be mean, so I said sure. Then, when I went to his house, he continued to be extremely needy and suffocating. He started asking if there was someone else and questioning me a ton.
He died…it’s a strange thing not having broken up with someone… the first few years after I had him on a pedestal as I remembered all the good times…
… it’s been 5 years now, and I’m recalling the less than favorable things… the things that I’ll use to better define my boundaries in my next relationship. He was my first boyfriend, and my first real experience dealing with a man romantically.
… it’s just a weird feeling, sometimes… having not chosen to walk away or end it…
MAGA
Cheating. More common than I thought.
My wife died. Mycobacterium Avium Complex. Typically you see this a lot in the lungs of immunocompromised patients.
Hers was in her brain. From the research I have gathered, there have been less than 10 known cases in the US. And this comes from the National Institute of Health in Bethesda, MD, where she passed.
He asked if he could hit me during sex. I said that light, basically tapping was fine if he really wanted to. During sex, he hit me lightly, it was fine. He then proceeded to get this just crazed look in his eyes before hitting me so hard that I lost hearing in my right ear for a couple days.
I then found out about how violent his actual fantasies were, much more violent than hitting. It was like once he got one good hit in, the flood gates were open and he couldn’t stop saying all the horrible stuff he wanted to do. It was terrifying. Like, stuff I can’t say on Reddit.
Anyways. Haven’t dated since, because that was so disturbing to go through. My ear is better now though! I didn’t go to the doctor because I was afraid that I’d get interviewed by police, and I did say he could hit me so I didn’t want to get slut shamed by police about that, but thankfully it healed on its own.
I ended things because I made way more of an effort to spend time with him than he did for me. I went two months without seeing him in person, even though he lived 20 minutes away from me. I’m certain he started developing feelings for someone else, but I have no evidence
The death of my 3 month old son. Seeing each other only reminded us of that trauma.
She kept saying she needed less and less of me in her life. I kept giving it to her. After all, having her in my life was the best thing I had.
Then she says that she only wants me to come over once a week and only for a little while. This stunned me, but I thought on it a day or two. I called her on the phone, and said “Sure. I agree to only coming over once a week and only for a little while.” Even though it hurt to say.
This bitch tells me “I didn’t say you could come over anymore”.
So I called her a “lying c***” and that was that.
My addiction to drugs. That and we had marital problems before that secret came to light. But once it did, the shit hit the fan and that really ended it. In the end, I think we are both happier now. I didn’t want the marriage to end, I was in it for life.. but I understand her decision and don’t blame her. I wish she would have stayed, sickness n health n all that but I can’t change the past. I can only move forward with positivity. I’m 10 months single and 10 months clean and sober.
He died.
he wanted me for sex, I wanted him for love
He was verbally abusive. Constantly screaming at me and our 1 year old child. Refused to get a job. I was working night shift 9-7, getting home and immediately getting our child for the day so he could sit on the couch and play games. I was barely eating and sleeping. I would get maybe 4-5 hours of sleep a week. And I was eating once every 2-3 days. Not to mention paying rent and bills. Not to mention he was more worried about being with his 16 year old girlfriend. He wouldn’t even sleep in the bed with me. We’re both in our 20s. Thats just the gist of it, theres so much more that makes it even crazier.
Obsessed with his ex
I wanted to eat some magic mushrooms and go for a nature walk. Apparently that means I’m a drug addict. Even though I haven’t tripped in many, many, years. 10 year relationship, down the drain. Oh well. At least I’ve still got my mushrooms.
He died
Me, realising my value.
he needed to “work on himself and couldn’t handle a relationship” mind you, this was after we were dating and after he told me he loved me
Her dying !!
He started getting overly obsessed with taking my virginity (we were seniors in hs) and was overly sexual at all times (always asking for nudes/videos/sexual comments). I couldn’t see him for 10 minutes without him trying to feel me up (and we worked at the same place). That was the main cause but i found out later he was talking to other girls while he was working late and I was not there. (and by “talking to” I mean flirting, texting, video chatting, etc with girls that we ALSO worked with)
Baby daddy came back into the picture years later. Had to end it because she clearly wanted him over me.
Me. She was way too touchy-feely for me and I told her several times to stop. Thought I could get used to it, but I couldn’t do it anymore. My fault for starting a relationship in the first place knowing she was touchy-feely.
Her family friend I was told was “like a brother to her”
He smoked weed and cigarettes every single day in his apartment (the smell was nauseating. literally) and had anger issues that he didn’t want to admit. (Hit a computer screen with his fist right in front of me because of WiFi issues and once slightly slapped my face because I accidentally startled his cat which caused it to run into sth face first).
We were friends before dating and I just ignored some red flags I saw during that time because my attraction to him clouded my judgement.
Sexuality assaulted his “friend”. I helped her go to the police and then I ran so far and so fast I have no clue what happened to either of them.
He became acutely ill with psychotic manic, was diagnosed Bipolar 1 and then became an unmedicated mess that bounces around psyche wards.
$700 night at a strip club … when questioned about the amount spent, he admitted getting a blowie from 2 strippers in the back room.
We had both fallen in love with a fantasy of who the other was, rather than reality. Inevitably that could only go on for so long until alienation and disillusion.
Lots of little things piling up to be big things, always checking my phone turned into trying to get me to not see my friends, that turned into outright forbidding me or giving me limits and curfews, then he had someone else stalk me to make sure I listened to him and so on … Scary honestly, I still can’t handle a car driving behind me for to long
Punch in the balls for trying to stop her from driving drunk,then after a few hours,kicking,punches in the face,stomach,hit with the chair in the back then she ended up pissing on me to show me that I am beneath her.
Mind you this was the hours after she apologized for yesterday’s violence.To this day,she blames me for leaving.
His d!ck and fists. He couldn’t seem to keep the first out of other women during our marriage and used the second to try and force me to stay.