My definition of peace would to have a house in a village where there is a good amount of animals like dogs cats and buffalo and some cows. Then I would like to grow some plants around it and will call it a home
Remembering that even thought my friend too his life, and his family is hurting. He’s no longer in agony anymore and I know his mom thinks the same. It hurts yes, but he’s not in pain. And although a portion of that pain was passed to other around him, a portion of that slight release he felt as he drifted off was passed to us too because we all know now. He’s no longer hurting.
I am happy when nobody bothers me, see my kids playing, drink coffee with no interruptions, see my plants grow, walk in the park, know that I have some money to spend if and when I want without have to ask for nothing to nobody, eat what I want….
My children doing or saying anything kind. My two littles(2F & 4M) are very well behaved and people are always telling us how nice they are. It warms my heart to hear how other people see that I’m raising good little rascals.
Setting 15 alarms so I get to wake up and fall back asleep 14 times
Pooping right before a shower
Looking at the sun to force a sneeze out
Cracking my back then feeling like I have to walk like the tin man foe the next few mins
Feeling more alive after a bloody nose
Faking a food born illness at a small mom and pop restaurant because they serve warm beer and cold food- send negative reviews over and over. Hire them to cater an event and have the food arrive 2 hours early- buy them out for Pennie’s on the dollar open a coffee shop and watch them cry into thier $7.50 iced latte that I made with decaf
To be clear – therapy itself can be a pain in the ass and unpleasant. but the results if you are willing to do the work are so much better than where you started.
My kid. When my husband does something extra thoughtful. Fostering pregnant/nursing cats. Knitting. When my students tell me something like “you’re kind of scary but I know you love me”. Sleeping in and/or snuggling. Being outside when it’s warm but not hot with no bugs. Completing a puzzle. Finishing a rough workout.
I work 4 days a week and on the day before I start my 3 day weekend I do as many chores as I can.
The next day I wake up to no alarm, I pick up around my space and do any chores I didn’t get done the day before, I prep my breakfast and coffee, then I shower.
When I get out I make my breakfast and eat it while watching an episode of Futurama.
Then I clean up, make my coffee, take my meds, and sit down on my super fluffy couch where I have a heated blanket on my feet and an extra large, super soft blanket to cover myself
I start up my video game, take a sip of my coffee, and savor that moment right before I get to play uninterrupted for 6-10 hours.
That moment (and the following 3 days) is what makes me happy.
Petting a cat, drinking outside in the sun, drinking at home in a rainy day, talking about music with friends, a fatass white girl with chubby fingers, good comedy.
Oddly enough, work. Even on stressful days. Its an escape from everything else, for 8 hours a day 5 days a week I am there with my kids (not actually mine, im in childcare) making a difference and being loved and cuddled. Even if its a difficult day, one hug from a 3 yr old and im melted.
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My pets
Drinking coffee in the morning when everyone else is asleep
Serotonin
money and money.
quiet mornings with hot coffee
Goth women. Oreos. S’mores. Fishing. Hats.
When someone really sees me, no mask, no performance. Just that quiet, honest connection. That’s happiness.
My family
Music & long walks
SSRI
a good sleep
A slow drive with my favorite music
Ice cream
Seeing the sun flicker through leaves on the branches
Gambling
My family. My dogs. My horses.
Nothing really these days
Genuinely nice and pleasant people. Consistently nice to be more specific .
Nothing lately
Food
sex, money, dance
Early morning ride on my Bike with some tunes
Video games, who agrees and what’s your favorite game?
To help others that deserve.
Cold beer in a cold glass.
motorcycles and an open road
Cats
Silence 🕊️
When joey calls me!
My friends, partner, daughter, time to take care of my physical health, exercise, time to pursue hobbies, time to rest and recharge.
Stare at people in public
Seeing my Mrs happy and a smile on her face.
Beats any amount of money.
whenever my cat judges me.
The block button.
Feeling connected, understood, and seen
Having no obligations the next day
My daughters happiness
Alcohol
Knowing I’ll get to die one day and never have to work again.
The smell outside after it rains in northern Michigan.
Family, food, money, and drugs.
Beautiful Sunsets & Sunrises & Music
Speaking to my mom and dad on phone, when I am away. And watching movies, playing football, addicted to Reddit typing 🥳
Sleep. No pain then
Dopamine
Crushing my enemies, seeing them driven before me, and hearing the lamentation of their women.
My friends and my several medications
Rapping and singing.
Me alone
Gym. Steps. Boyfriend
When get pizza without paying for it.
Farting out a stomach ache
Knowing one day I’ll finally die 🥳🥳
sex
Honestly just my kids at this point in life. That’s my only source of happiness in life rn
Mutual masturbation
Getting to help out the people who need it. Nothing makes me happier than if I can make someone’s day better 🙂
friends and good company
My definition of peace would to have a house in a village where there is a good amount of animals like dogs cats and buffalo and some cows. Then I would like to grow some plants around it and will call it a home
Seeing a really nice butt out in public.
Remembering that even thought my friend too his life, and his family is hurting. He’s no longer in agony anymore and I know his mom thinks the same. It hurts yes, but he’s not in pain. And although a portion of that pain was passed to other around him, a portion of that slight release he felt as he drifted off was passed to us too because we all know now. He’s no longer hurting.
Coffee, books and my family
Being in love, and having a day with no plans except Super Mario and Coke Zero.
Patience
Cartoons
Seeing my adult children thrive and be happy and NOT make the same mistakes I did.
being home all alone for the day, with my books and stuff, and some beautiful weather out.
Sleeping in on a Saturday morning
When i randomly find money in the washing machine or under the couch
Animals, my cat, nice hot cup of tea, my bed, good friends/people
My mom and kpop
Silence and reflection.
My grandkids
Beer
Adventures or new experiences
Getting on a plane headed to a foreign land.
Good relationships, a great cup of coffee, a walk in a beautiful area, financial security, a reliable car, productivity, health.
Good food, crystals, music, cute stuffies 🐻🤗
I am happy when nobody bothers me, see my kids playing, drink coffee with no interruptions, see my plants grow, walk in the park, know that I have some money to spend if and when I want without have to ask for nothing to nobody, eat what I want….
Being present
Sitting at home and saying “Ya hear that? Silence…”
Music
The sound of waves. Pure bliss.
street tacos
Movies and tv shows
Money
Having a good relationship with God.
No loading times
Sunny weather and the beach
When my daughter visits
My wife
Free days with the people I love!
I ask myself that every day.
Peace 🕊️
Friends and family
Nature
My children doing or saying anything kind. My two littles(2F & 4M) are very well behaved and people are always telling us how nice they are. It warms my heart to hear how other people see that I’m raising good little rascals.
Setting 15 alarms so I get to wake up and fall back asleep 14 times
Pooping right before a shower
Looking at the sun to force a sneeze out
Cracking my back then feeling like I have to walk like the tin man foe the next few mins
Feeling more alive after a bloody nose
Faking a food born illness at a small mom and pop restaurant because they serve warm beer and cold food- send negative reviews over and over. Hire them to cater an event and have the food arrive 2 hours early- buy them out for Pennie’s on the dollar open a coffee shop and watch them cry into thier $7.50 iced latte that I made with decaf
therapy.
To be clear – therapy itself can be a pain in the ass and unpleasant. but the results if you are willing to do the work are so much better than where you started.
Taking my clothes off as soon as I get home from work and jumping into bed naked to read Reddit to unwind.
my husband
U
Not having to budget. I can spend on anything under $500 without having to second guess myself.
Nothing ,I just choose to see life in a different perspective that’s why I’m unconditionally happy .
Nowadays talking to him.
my dogs. my husband. my ps5.
seeing my dog when I walk through the door. my wife is pretty chill too
My kid. When my husband does something extra thoughtful. Fostering pregnant/nursing cats. Knitting. When my students tell me something like “you’re kind of scary but I know you love me”. Sleeping in and/or snuggling. Being outside when it’s warm but not hot with no bugs. Completing a puzzle. Finishing a rough workout.
Having control of what I do with my time
Me, my wife, and my kids
a healthy mixture of being and sharing with the people i love, having alone time, physical and intellectual exercise and making music.
Petting my dog and cats while drinking tea in the morning
Wawa
Spending a couple of hours sitting in a large darkened room with a giant screen where it’s against the rules to talk.
I work 4 days a week and on the day before I start my 3 day weekend I do as many chores as I can.
The next day I wake up to no alarm, I pick up around my space and do any chores I didn’t get done the day before, I prep my breakfast and coffee, then I shower.
When I get out I make my breakfast and eat it while watching an episode of Futurama.
Then I clean up, make my coffee, take my meds, and sit down on my super fluffy couch where I have a heated blanket on my feet and an extra large, super soft blanket to cover myself
I start up my video game, take a sip of my coffee, and savor that moment right before I get to play uninterrupted for 6-10 hours.
That moment (and the following 3 days) is what makes me happy.
music
Easy, My dogs! Also a really good orange.
Warm baths
Crushing my enemies, seeing them driven before me, and hearing the lamentations of their women
Life
My wife and kids
Making others happy. It makes me hate myself a bit less.
Cheese. Or maybe raindrops
Hubby and our dog. 🥰
Petting a cat, drinking outside in the sun, drinking at home in a rainy day, talking about music with friends, a fatass white girl with chubby fingers, good comedy.
Time with my family and not working.
Young children’s genuine laughter and dogs.
Music, reading, playing video games, and watching my favorite movies
When I achieve my set goals
Miata!
New beginnings — a new job, a new move.
My children.
My partner, my cat, and naps!
Coffee, Kids playing, rain, camping, plants and a little money.
Rainbow
sleeping in
What money can buy generally. Does have diminishing returns though.
Laughing with friends. Laughing with family.
And if none of the above, laughing with myself
Chicken Tenders.
Not even my antidepressants are helping nowadays
RedBull and Weed.
Peace, time to myself (in nature, driving, etc), playing with my pets
I learned at an early age getting in the sun, good music, a walk can help improve how I’m feeling in almost any situation.
Sleeping and not worrying about anythin , a chill happy day
Travelling 🧭 🧳
Oddly enough, work. Even on stressful days. Its an escape from everything else, for 8 hours a day 5 days a week I am there with my kids (not actually mine, im in childcare) making a difference and being loved and cuddled. Even if its a difficult day, one hug from a 3 yr old and im melted.
Cats 🐈🐈⬛
Sitting in my garage listening to the sound of heavy rain.
The 4 or 5 hours of sleep I can get.
My grandchildren.
Not being in pain. I am chronic, but I have some good days. It is like being freed from a cage.
Reading books 📚
solitude
My parents they are definition of happiness to me
fapping with the other hand
Learning new things. Good food.
Peace and quiet. It’s funny how people get all cracky when you wanna just live in silence.
warm thick soup with a side of rice or toasted slice of bread.
I genuinely do not know. Have been trying to figure this out for years. Everything’s great, but am I happy? Meh.
Wtf is a happy?
Peace and quiet while I read my book. No talking to me, please!
My cat, and the sound a small creek makes which I get to listen to every night through my bedroom window