Stop talking to her. Stop writing songs about her. Delete her number. Ignore her attempts to contact you. She cheated on you. She humiliated you in public. She hit you when you stood up to her. She dumped you, then she slept with your friends. She has a new boyfriend who’s irritated by you hanging around like a stale fart all the time. She’s stringing you along for an ego boost. She’s not your friend.
This isn’t love. You look pathetic. Have some self respect for fucks sake. You’re worth more than this.
So much! Ask more questions. Read more. Wear sunscreen. Travel everywhere.
Keep your head high and always walk away from things gracefully (relationships, jobs, conflicts, etc.), don’t always try to get the last word in, and trust your instincts. Build healthy habits in a way that feels good to you, your body will thank you.
A positive attitude, a good work ethic, and strong relationships will open more doors than any degrees will.
Don’t get caught up trying to keep up with the Joneses. Give back to your community, or a cause, however you can, at least once a year.
Financially, split up your direct deposit so something goes into your 401k or IRA before it hits your account. Percentage based is the ideal way, but even $25 a paycheck is great too. S&P500 is the lowest effort and highest ROI for someone lazy like me. Never buy an annuity, and if you need a money manager, get one that’s a fiduciary (only a fiduciary, some can have multiple licenses).
No matter how bad things get, believe in yourself and trust that you’ll end up better than you were before. The challenging parts of life are the most important, and while it doesn’t always make sense when you’re in the thick of it, you’ll look back on it and see how the dots are all connected.
Before traveling internationally, download your itinerary/confirmation numbers because not every country has WiFi. And make sure to keep a copy of your license and passport in your cloud—helps you get a new one much easier at an embassy.
Keep cooking your better at it than you think you are. Learn to love yourself. You need therapy more than your ever willing to admit and its OK, and trust me it works. You are not your trauma.
Not advice but id just give myself a long hug and tell myself that everything will be OK
Realistically, probably the same advice everyone else gave me at the same stage.
However, the difference would be is to listen to my younger self, and let me be heard in a way that I felt I wasn’t when I was younger. Too many belittled me while demanding “to be heard” and everything.
If I could have that chance….It may be a combination of being allowed to blow off frustrated steam and having someone ask the right questions to let me be understood.
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Be strong
Don’t trust anyone who says “we’re like a family” at a job interview…
Always go raw
“Learn to walk away quietly. Nothing is more powerful than knowing your worth and not needing to prove it.”
It’s better to try and fail than to not try and live wondering if you could’ve
Always keep the door wide open when alone with our priest
If your a man, never get married because it’s not worth it.
If your a women, get married ASAP so you can collect free alimony.
Don’t stress too much !!!
Stop trying to be who they want. Be who you need. That’s where peace starts.
Don’t care what anyone thinks of you. You’re captaining this ship to the end.
Focus on what makes you happy. Trust yourself sooner.
everything you care about is nonsense
Concentrate on school. Your friends are liars and thieves.
Go raw
Get into therapy and avoid dating till you learn to love yourself
Get fit, stay fit. Get checked out. You might have caught that heart condition earlier.
Focus on education.
Help people. Thats what you love to do. You’re going to figure that out eventually.
Put the fucking bottle down
Always get more sleep.
bang your friends gf no one cares when your 80
Don’t be stupid
Stop talking to her. Stop writing songs about her. Delete her number. Ignore her attempts to contact you. She cheated on you. She humiliated you in public. She hit you when you stood up to her. She dumped you, then she slept with your friends. She has a new boyfriend who’s irritated by you hanging around like a stale fart all the time. She’s stringing you along for an ego boost. She’s not your friend.
This isn’t love. You look pathetic. Have some self respect for fucks sake. You’re worth more than this.
Be careful with drugs.
Don’t do drugs.
Nothing. I wouldn’t even listen to myself in those days
Very few people’s opinions should actually matter to you
Don’t settle for men that do things you don’t like and don’t be afraid to be yourself because you’ll find friends in that.
Buy the tiger cub
So much! Ask more questions. Read more. Wear sunscreen. Travel everywhere.
Keep your head high and always walk away from things gracefully (relationships, jobs, conflicts, etc.), don’t always try to get the last word in, and trust your instincts. Build healthy habits in a way that feels good to you, your body will thank you.
A positive attitude, a good work ethic, and strong relationships will open more doors than any degrees will.
Don’t get caught up trying to keep up with the Joneses. Give back to your community, or a cause, however you can, at least once a year.
Financially, split up your direct deposit so something goes into your 401k or IRA before it hits your account. Percentage based is the ideal way, but even $25 a paycheck is great too. S&P500 is the lowest effort and highest ROI for someone lazy like me. Never buy an annuity, and if you need a money manager, get one that’s a fiduciary (only a fiduciary, some can have multiple licenses).
No matter how bad things get, believe in yourself and trust that you’ll end up better than you were before. The challenging parts of life are the most important, and while it doesn’t always make sense when you’re in the thick of it, you’ll look back on it and see how the dots are all connected.
Before traveling internationally, download your itinerary/confirmation numbers because not every country has WiFi. And make sure to keep a copy of your license and passport in your cloud—helps you get a new one much easier at an embassy.
Never trust anyone so easily because the person you know, inside the person you don’t..
Listen to your body more than your doctor and advocate for yourself.
Invest in Bitcoin, exercise more, and don’t stress about things you can’t control!
Don’t let others influence you if they do something stupid and you think it’s funny and don’t drink alcohol in excess. It’ll ruin your liver.
love God more than anything seek him and you will find yourself
Focus on yourself rather than trying to find a partner. Plenty of time to get into a relationship later on.
Be kinder to yourself. Most of the things you’re worrying about won’t matter in a few years.
Invest in google, apple
And Microsoft
Buy only what you need, not what you want.
Don’t get cancer
Be humble. Nothing beats humility.
The friends and party’s only last for so long. Do the hard work now and you will be better off when older.
Buy a house.
Meditate
Keep cooking your better at it than you think you are. Learn to love yourself. You need therapy more than your ever willing to admit and its OK, and trust me it works. You are not your trauma.
Not advice but id just give myself a long hug and tell myself that everything will be OK
Take your time. No need to rush.
Never ever gamble, it becomes addictive
Learn to swim.
Don’t stress too much, it won’t matter in a few years and you will achieve what you wanted anyways.
Keep manifesting beautiful things in life and focus on finding things that make you happy.
Don’t sleep too much, do something girl.
Realistically, probably the same advice everyone else gave me at the same stage.
However, the difference would be is to listen to my younger self, and let me be heard in a way that I felt I wasn’t when I was younger. Too many belittled me while demanding “to be heard” and everything.
If I could have that chance….It may be a combination of being allowed to blow off frustrated steam and having someone ask the right questions to let me be understood.