My ex (m26) and I (f26) worked in northern Alberta in an oil field. We got married young and essentially just grew apart. There was occasional domestic violence but nothing crazy (which I know sounds like Stockholm Syndrome, but I grew up in a house with a lot of domestic violence, so it really was nothing crazy).
When I served him with divorce papers he instantly accused me of cheating on him as that was the only plausible explanation for me wanting to leave. He also told me if he caught me back up north, I’d regret it. Well he did catch me back up north… working…at my job. I worked on site in the medical building. He worked in the actual field.
We lived in a camp and he broke into my room with another guy on his crew. He then realized that the guy he brought to ‘scare me’ was going to actually kill me and freaked out. I can’t sleep so ask me anything.
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the guy wanted to kill you but your ex-husband didn’t?? what was to motive for this guy to kill you? glad that nothing happened.
regardless this sounds like an awful situation i’m sorry you went through this
Is he behind bars already? How did you get out of the whole killing situation?
What about your other members of family. Did they not confront you husband? On how he treated you.
I don’t think the questions are necessary, I think you should contact the police and I don’t know how they handle in your country to ask for fbi custody, since they can make an attempt on your life. It is a rare Ama. I wish the best for your life!
When did this happen?
How did your ex realise the other guy was going to kill you? Were you harmed at all during the break in?
That must have been so scary. I hope you’re doing alright.
Did it affect your mental health?
So basically, the plan was for them to rape you. And or his friend decided to take it further.
Can you explain the camp better somehow? I only imagine military camps in movies where they flap open to tent before doing whatever.
No questions. I am just so sorry that this happened to you sweetheart! 😢😢 I hope you heal.