I talked with my mother about how much it bothers me and it makes her REALLY angry. I am mature for my age and. I often see men staring at me, looking at my butt, winking at me. One guy checked me out asked for my number and my mother told him off, one guy said I was beautiful and I said thank you awkwardly, then after that another guy who looked very very old said he wanted to marry me. I don’t mind compliments from friends or close people in my life saying I’m beautiful. It makes my day. It bothers me ALOT that old guys are lusting over me when I walk outside and It bothers my mother too. YUCK !!!
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Uhh, you’re 12, this is an odd case. Idek what to say
this is prolly above reddits pay grade, I hope someone can help. I’m really sorry that this is happening
Call them pedophiles to their face. “hey thanks for outing yourself as a pedo. i’m 12”
It’s good that you’re angry. I’m sorry that you have to deal with this. The world is a sick place. You’re a kid, you should be concerned with kid things. I’m really sorry
What country are you in where this is happening?
It happens to my daughter all the time, she started developing at 10, and now at 13 she has a woman’s body. It happened with my eldest daughter too who is now 23. It seems ridiculous that they could mistake her for a grown woman when she was 10-16, but now she gets ID’d for energy drinks.
Your mum can’t be there to step in on your behalf the whole time. So I suggest just saying “I’m 12 and this is making me uncomfortable-please stop.”
Try not to show your disgust because that can be dangerous.
I’m 12. Please stop. You are making me uncomfortable.
Say it loudly and walk away.
How is this a regular thing? Are they that blatantly obvious about it? Blows my mind.
Just wait until you find out that the majority of men are like this. The younger the better for them. The only reason they don’t go lower than 18 is because of the age of consent.
I actually had the same thing happen to me when I was your age, also by cops! I always pretended like they were air and made sure I was surrounded by people.
I Am 12. What is wrong with you?
Happened to me too. I’m 32 now.
Please don’t ever fall for it and learn to say no strongly. Don’t be afraid to hurt them (emotionally and physically) if necessary.
My mom always ignored this issue (she is very bad at confronting and ignorance is bliss for her…), so I didn’t realise that this is very wrong and problematic. I also had no father, so I longed for male attention.
I didn’t want to have a sexual relationship with older men. I just didn’t know how to stop them. I learned to say no the hard way.
Next time ask them if everyone knows they are a pedophile
I’m convinced you ARE a professional cat cos no 11/12 yr old kid writes and posts on Reddit like you do. 🤨
If this does happen – give a disgusted look and be loud when you say EWWW…
I was about to call bullshit until I saw you were in South Africa… Be safe out there!