I’ve never really cared about being the best at something. If I’m honest with you, it’s because I didn’t care about myself. Being great wasn’t a thing I thought i was capable of. So, i want to learn to be more competitive. I think it will translate better in other areas of my life. I’m not achieving what i could potentially achieve.
Anyone have any suggestions? I’m all 👂
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actually a good question i’d like some insight on this, I back down from challenges too much and basically strive for mediocrity instead of giving it my very best
Take it personally. Make it your life. Emmerse yourself in it. It’s a certain mindset you need. It’s not something one can properly explain, but you’ll understand it when you get it. You need a winner mindset. “I won’t give up, no matter wtf happens. I want to kill so and so and show everyone wtf I’m made of. ” In sports, it’s called a killer mentality. You have to be ruthless and not care about others’ feelings in the moment (if you feel bad, apologize after the activity). It’s a fun mindset, in my opinion. Being able to go all out regardless of how I feel, what I’m doing, or who I hurt.