It’s not like it’s affecting my life or anything but the feelings are still there . Sometimes I feel like I will always love her even though I made it clear for myself that I will never take her back . It’s been almost three years now and I still love her , i think about her less and I miss her less but it still feels like my heart is with her and that I would never love again.
How long did it take you to completely get over her ?
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There is no answer to this time wise. You may always love her but that doesn’t mean you can’t love someone else once you feel ready.
About 3-5 years before I was able to admit she did shit things too and it wasn’t al my fault. About 7-10 years before I decided I appreciate it for what it was but don’t feel that way about her anymore.
Brother, I’m nearly 40 and a part of me will always love my high school sweetheart. Same for every other meaningful relationship I had since then even those who hurt me.
You don’t have to forget the good times and person that made you happy in order to realize things have changed and move past it.
1yr and still there
I’m somewhat over her. Not enough though. There’s a woman at my job who reminds me of her and it’s been bothering me slightly.