I know this is not a happy subject but for those of you that worked through it, what was the key to reconciliation?
What helped heal your marriage after infidelity?
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I know this is not a happy subject but for those of you that worked through it, what was the key to reconciliation?
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What brought us even closer was deciding to open our marriage, not because of cheating, but because we were both honest about what excites us. It wasn’t easy at first. We had to talk a lot, get really clear on boundaries, and build even deeper trust. But once we got through those early conversations, it actually made our connection stronger. He loves seeing me desired, and I feel more confident and seen than ever. It’s not about lacking anything. It’s about sharing something bold together.
Interesting question I want to know the answers because I was the side chick unknowingly, I broke up with them immediately. I wanted an apology but all I got were insults, body shaming and the lady harassed me until the police got involved to stop her craziness.
I never understood how she could forgive him and stay with him knowing he decided to fuck a younger lady for one year and at their bedroom that he cleaned fully from all her traces. Oh I dodged a bullet and I met someone I can trust and not second guess his whereabouts.
In the midst of this now. Couples therapy where we’re completely honest with each other about improving the relationship to meet each other’s needs. Transparency with devices such as laptops and cell phones. Written boundaries for each other. Acknowledging we were both at fault and taking accountability for that.
A divorce. We’re both much happier with our second marriages.