I’m not in any dating apps, but if I were, the answer would be her being scantily clad. It’s a red flag to me, and screams “I didn’t get enough attention from Daddy.”
Pics with bad lighting or weird filters, plus group shots where I can’t tell who’s who instant swipe left. Also, if they’re all just gym selfies with no variety, kinda boring.
I haven’t been on there in like 7 years but when I was those dog filters were popular. Every single woman had one as her main propic so it was just constant left swiping
Over revealing pictures, pictures with so much filter that the person looks unnatural, photos with the stupid devil horns, ambiguous group photos, photos with a bunch of pets, photos flipping the bird, photos with other guys. Honestly, anything without direct intent really.
For the short time I was on apps (there was too many dead profiles)
Pics with kids in them at all
“Im a bitch with attitude” pics
Only 1 id style pic
Close ups only of the face
“Instagram model” type pics
Big girls wearing small clothes
Pics that look like they were just crying
Group pics
Being out of shape, all travel photos, or hiding their body in all photos. Or if the photos all look really old…or group photos, photos with other guys, if they look like they’re showing off an expensive lifestyle, or overly posed stuff.
Woman posing next to her “model hot” friend. I think some old study suggested that taking photos with a hotter person made you look hotter and ppl took the advice. It couldn’t be more wrong. When I see a 5 standing next to a 9 I’m always like “WHICH ONE IS SHE?! … Oh. Bummer.” Instant disappointment, left swipe.
Also: Asian woman whose photo backgrounds are all foreign = pig butchering scam. I have wasted so much time scrutinizing backgrounds of profiles for tells. Of course one of the coolest people I met on Tinder was a Chinese American girl who’s photos were all from abroad, but mostly Europe.
Anything where they have their kids in a photo , like straight-up reckless . I’ve dated women who have kids , and I have zero issue with it . But it’s shit parenting as you’re showing your child off to strangers ? ,on a dating app? it’s a red flag behaviour . I will give an extra one as well. If I read a woman’s bio and I see either a requirement list like the ones we’re, it’s weirdly specific . Like 1. Must be 6″5 , 2. Must have brown hair. 3. Must never use the word “dictionary ” it gives me the ick 4. Must own a cappabara name Pablo 5. Must own time shares in the federation of planets . Yeah, that shit in that format we have all seen that . I find those kinds of lists pretentious, and if I see one, it’s a no from me .
I instantly swipe left for women doing stereotypical “sexy” poses, gestures and facial expressions or “dancing” sexual displays. Shallow, imitative conformists don’t turn me on. Leave that to the professionals. Keep your unpaid imitations off dating profiles. Make pornography great again!
If I can’t actually tell if they’re obese or not or what your body actually looks like I’m not going to waste my time. Also women who won’t smile with their teeth, I assume they don’t have any.
Back when I was using an app, if she was hot or sexy than I knew I’d have to be grade AAA delusional to even think I had a chance, I only swiped right on women who were average or slightly above. Never got any matches though! Not that I really expected too.
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Fat.
If she’s on a boat, just focus on yourself king
-Unattractive
-Bizarre
-With other guys
-Filtered
Group photo for profile pic.
I’m not in any dating apps, but if I were, the answer would be her being scantily clad. It’s a red flag to me, and screams “I didn’t get enough attention from Daddy.”
If her butt or boobs are on full display. That’s just not the kind of person I’m looking for
Too much makeup, if I wanted to date a clown I’d go to the circus.
Too good, like professional pictures. I like the crappy normal person pictures. Or ones that you can tell she is cute but the picture is bad.
tatoos
Duck face
I’m a girl but it would be the same if I were a guy liking girls ….with a cat lol
cigarette and filtered posing.
Anything related to a horse.
The one wearing a shirt of my favorite football team (soccer)
When it’s a bloke.
Pics with bad lighting or weird filters, plus group shots where I can’t tell who’s who instant swipe left. Also, if they’re all just gym selfies with no variety, kinda boring.
Filters, fake eyelashes, lip injections.
Duck face
Filters
Picture with them smoking.
Playboy bunny stuff.
If they post pictures with their kids in them.
Plus sized, wearing camo, has kids in pic, is least attractive friend in group pic, filters, that red hat
Duck face. Obvious filters. A lot of makeup.
I haven’t been on there in like 7 years but when I was those dog filters were popular. Every single woman had one as her main propic so it was just constant left swiping
Anything that suggests high maintenance fees.
When it’s nothing but group photos. How am I supposed to know which one you are? This isn’t iSpy roulette
Fatness
Over revealing pictures, pictures with so much filter that the person looks unnatural, photos with the stupid devil horns, ambiguous group photos, photos with a bunch of pets, photos flipping the bird, photos with other guys. Honestly, anything without direct intent really.
For the short time I was on apps (there was too many dead profiles)
Pics with kids in them at all
“Im a bitch with attitude” pics
Only 1 id style pic
Close ups only of the face
“Instagram model” type pics
Big girls wearing small clothes
Pics that look like they were just crying
Group pics
Caked up face
Every picture having alcohol
Pics with dudes
Overly revealing/sexual pics
Every single picture being a night out
Multiple group pics
Pictures that look like you might be expensive
Pictures that look like you don’t know how to stay home and have a chill day
Fat
Racy Halloween costumes
Multiple pictures of random things (I don’t care about your photography skills to warrant more than one picture)
Filters
Only face pictures or only body pictures
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I feel like all of these reasons are pretty self-explanatory
Filters or Horses
generic photoshoot photos. you know the ones. exception if it’s done creatively
When they’re really ugly or from some far away golddiggers country.
I swipe as much as possible to the right, later I separate the weed from the chaff.
I ghost before they do and let them for a while.
Then, once biweekly, I nuke them all.
If the first pic is a group shot. I don’t want to play a guessing game on which one you are.
Anything with a snake. I hate snakes
Nose rings, tattoos, oh and colored hair
When she only has group photos in her profile
Idk. I don’t use such apps..
is there even a reason to use such apps if you don’t search sex?
Because as far I am aware people use those just for sex…
concert or rave girls, has a huge overlap with what i’m attracted too with colored hair, piercings and tattoos…
Doesn’t have a single full body photo or just one at a suspicious angle 🤔
Middle finger poses. Even if you’re a 10, that’s a swipe left for me.
Typically ones who look too “normie,” because I don’t usually have a shot.
But also, too many filters or something that reeks of fake.
Or ones who just look like an OF ad.
Being out of shape, all travel photos, or hiding their body in all photos. Or if the photos all look really old…or group photos, photos with other guys, if they look like they’re showing off an expensive lifestyle, or overly posed stuff.
Woman posing next to her “model hot” friend. I think some old study suggested that taking photos with a hotter person made you look hotter and ppl took the advice. It couldn’t be more wrong. When I see a 5 standing next to a 9 I’m always like “WHICH ONE IS SHE?! … Oh. Bummer.” Instant disappointment, left swipe.
Also: Asian woman whose photo backgrounds are all foreign = pig butchering scam. I have wasted so much time scrutinizing backgrounds of profiles for tells. Of course one of the coolest people I met on Tinder was a Chinese American girl who’s photos were all from abroad, but mostly Europe.
“If you can’t handle me at my worst…”
Filters, extreme downwards angles, all group photos, and “im not on here much heres my @”
Piss off and get off the apps.
Filters, only photos with expensive hand held bags in luxurious places.
When its not a girl..
Anything where they have their kids in a photo , like straight-up reckless . I’ve dated women who have kids , and I have zero issue with it . But it’s shit parenting as you’re showing your child off to strangers ? ,on a dating app? it’s a red flag behaviour . I will give an extra one as well. If I read a woman’s bio and I see either a requirement list like the ones we’re, it’s weirdly specific . Like 1. Must be 6″5 , 2. Must have brown hair. 3. Must never use the word “dictionary ” it gives me the ick 4. Must own a cappabara name Pablo 5. Must own time shares in the federation of planets . Yeah, that shit in that format we have all seen that . I find those kinds of lists pretentious, and if I see one, it’s a no from me .
I instantly swipe left for women doing stereotypical “sexy” poses, gestures and facial expressions or “dancing” sexual displays. Shallow, imitative conformists don’t turn me on. Leave that to the professionals. Keep your unpaid imitations off dating profiles. Make pornography great again!
If I can’t actually tell if they’re obese or not or what your body actually looks like I’m not going to waste my time. Also women who won’t smile with their teeth, I assume they don’t have any.
Back when I was using an app, if she was hot or sexy than I knew I’d have to be grade AAA delusional to even think I had a chance, I only swiped right on women who were average or slightly above. Never got any matches though! Not that I really expected too.
Any profile that has pictures of landscapes, food, etc. Also any profile where all the pictures are multiple girls and I can’t tell which one is her.
Is left good or bad
Bad teeth
Super fancy pics in super fancy places. Screams high maintenance and chances are she didn’t pay for all of that herself