I found of my best friend slept with the man who assaulted me, conflicted on how to take the next step.

Trigger warning for sexual assault!

So about six years ago i was raped by one of my closest male friends ( lets call him A) at the time, i went to the cops, got the kit, had a detective, could have died and all that jazz. My best friend ( let’s call her B) was super supportive, came with me to the cops and talked with them as well. She was my rock. A couple of months after this happened i saw a video on a another friends Snapchat story where A and B were seen in the backround and he was whispering in her ear, i was upset of course and she convinced me she hadn’t know he was going to be there and he cornered her and she was scared and i believed her.

This all happened six years ago, she and i have lived together since then (no longer), met each other’s significant others and traveled multiple places. She was my absolute best friend. We were like salt and pepper, ketchup and mustard we were literally a package deal, if one of us showed up without the other people would ask where the other was. Her parents thought of me as a second daughter, my parents on the other hand were welcoming but not as warm. I always thought it was because she was an only child and i come from a large family so they just didn’t need another member? Idk but now im guessing they saw something i didn’t.

My boyfriend never liked her, neither did my ex ( who i dumped because he shit talked her btw, like i was riding at dawn for this girl) but my boyfriend who’s the sweetest more gentle man I’ve ever met in my life, never liked her. Which for him is crazy, he usually likes most people. He would never say it flat out but he once drunkly said that he doesn’t trust her and think she is jealous of me.

Sorry that was a lot of backstory but it’s important to say just how close were we’re, we were gonna be each others maids of honor, god mothers to each others kids, i have army carried this girl on my back when she was too drunk to walk, i shielded her with my damn body from her abusive ex ( a crazy story for another time) i LOVED her.

Anyway, a guy (let’s call him C) she used to mess with back in the day reached out to me, i guess they have been hooking up recently( which btw means she’s cheating on her bf) and she had given him and std. it’s a non curable one and he’s rightfully angry, i know she has it as i was there for her when (allegedly) her ex gave it to her and i really thought she’d taken the steps to never spread it. So C is out for blood, he and i were friendly back then but i cut him off one because she and him had a falling out and two he was boys with A and i just couldn’t deal with it.

What A did to me was no secret as i was very vocal about it, and then he stalked me after as well, i was going to take him to court for it but honestly i was a coward and he started to get really crazy and weird and he had a lot more money then me and i couldn’t afford my own lawyer and i chicken out and i regret it every day of my life because he has gone on to do so much worse to so many other girls, he was recently arrested for raping a 14 year old little girl, and i could maybe have done something to prevent that. Or maybe not, I’ll never know.

Not the point sorry, so anyway, C shares a few videos with proof of B hooking up with A at the party i told you about earlier. Like her grinding on him and C is recording laughing being like yooooo wtffff, he then says in this old video “what about (my name)” and B fucking laughs. Then the next video he’s recording scanning the room and they are making out in the corner and then the last is a video of him and some other guys smoking in the dark joking about how they can hear A and B fucking loudly. I know it was her because we were roommates for three years with thin walls and I sadly know those fake ass wannabe pornstar moans anywhere.

She fucked my rapist after he raped me then lied to my face for six years.

So anyway i posted on another sub to ramble and was told to just ghost her which i what ive been doing, but things have gotten messy. I gad reached out to her bf but C had already got to him first and told him. C has been going on a social media rampage and posting lots of embarrassing stuff between them, including what he sent me.

B flipped out when it happened and spam called and texted me, and when i didn’t respond she tried coming to my house and contacting my partner. She’s made multiple claims ranging from the videos were from before the incident , to he forced her to she thinks they might be ai ( lol!)…she’s also trying to use her mental health to guilt me into speaking with her.

A lot of our mutuals are contacting me to see what’s going on and i tell them the videos speak for themselves but i really wish they’d stop asking me about it, it’s feels like they are just being nosey but this is my real life.

Now where i need help, im really close to her parents, especially her mom, who was also there for me after what A did and knows the full story. I even stayed with them for a bit after since my parents live across the country and i didn’t want to leave school to go back home.

Her mom reached out to me begging me to talk to her daughter, she doesn’t have insta ( where this is all going down) so all she has is Bs side of the story(which is clearly bs). She’s claiming B is being stalked by some guy she rejected and very scared and depressed and she’s angry with me for “abandoning my best friend after all she’s done for me” she thinks I’m staying quite because “i had a crush on C back in the day and I’m mad he was into B” even though I’ve been dating my bf for 2 years.

I’m really mad about this lie and want to clear my name, i know she’ll always pick her daughter at the end of the day but i don’t want her to think that of me or for B to get away with this. Would sending her the messages and videos C sent to me be going too far? They are pretty gross and her family is pretty religious and thinks she’s a good girl. They also don’t know about the std. I’m fuming right now and have been for about a week and i know im acting on emotion right now.

I’m also wondering if i should confront B herself, i haven’t blocked her since now that i know what a little liar she is i want to keep any evidence i have. I also don’t think she knew her mom texted me.