Does the penis hurt when a whole woman rides it hard? Is this can be dangerous?

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As a guy with a normal penis I’m very careful with my little friend . And I don’t understand how it’s not dangerous and not painful when a whole woman does something like the Amazon position on a guy?

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  1. Eldergoth Avatar

    Not if you are doing it correctly.
    Injuries occur during sex but most are because of not knowing what you are doing.

  2. SimpleEmu198 Avatar

    In all practicality no, it’s made out of the same stuff as your nose. It’s pretty hard to damage. There is no actual penis bone in spite of it being called a boner occasionally. Likewise there is no actual bone in your nose.

  3. gvicross Avatar

    Only if the vagina is not well lubricated. Hormonal changes, contraceptives and the like can affect lubrication.

  4. UpbeatCapital7928 Avatar

    I have a somewhat large penis. When women do reverse cowgirl on it, lean way forward and smash back into it…it hurts me. For days.

  5. nofilter144 Avatar

    No it feels good for about 7 seconds then it’s over

  6. Rocinante82 Avatar

    It can hurt, and you can get a broken penis.

  7. 7844555233399947 Avatar

    It’s a risk I’m willing to take.

  8. caknuck Avatar

    As opposed to… half a woman?

  9. meowmeow6770 Avatar

    Yes it is very dangerous with a whole woman you need a half woman

  10. YourPersonalDownfall Avatar

    I’d advise caution around whole women. I suggest trying on a quarter woman first and then build up to a whole women with practice

  11. Rough-Structure3774 Avatar

    Some positions are physically demanding. The chance of slipping and snapping your thing in half is there. Your boner is made of spongy tissue. Damage to these part could potentially make it unable to hold blood in that area. And while it does heal, there’s a chance the healing results in imperfection. Your stick might exhibit a crease and slanted to a different direction.

  12. Zloiche1 Avatar

    Yea definitely that’s why I stick with just half at a time. It’s tricky but I know a magician. 

  13. insightfulconundrum Avatar

    The penis? No. Due to positioning, the penis is centered, and her body is anchored to the bed/floor/countertop via the legs. It’s more likely to hurt her if you’re fully inserted.

  14. Centaur_Taur Avatar

    In any position, it’s possible for the penis to get injured by being bent the wrong way while thrusting, but it’s pretty rare that it’s a significant injury.  

    In cowgirl, if the woman brings herself completely off of his penis and then slams back down without the right angle I’m sure it hurts, but I don’t know how many women pull all the way off the dick – I think it’s common to for thrusts to happen without the penis withdrawing fully each thrust.  

    Honestly, I would think it’s much more likely for a guy with a HUGE penis to get injured than a small one, as there’s more length to bend the wrong way.

    If you’re so concerned about it, you can engage in intercourse by having your partner hold still and you control the thrusting movements.  

    But as someone who’s had a lot of sex, I think you’re overthinking it.

  15. Vast_Satisfaction383 Avatar

    Teasing aside, it depends on the details. Sex shouldn’t hurt, especially for the guy. I’m obviously not talking about SM stuff here. There can be some danger in the more adventurous positions, but those pretty much all stem from slipping and forcing an erect penis to bend much further than it should, or if your testicles get trapped between you somehow. If you’re talking like cowgirl/reverse cowgirl, it’s safe.

  16. Skvli Avatar

    What in the AI is going on here?

  17. nilarips Avatar

    Yeah this is one of the times where you need to be vocal and let the girl know how far up she can go by basically stopping her there and then hope she remembers not to go up too high and then come back down and crush it/bend it.

  18. Mesterjojo Avatar

    As opposed to half a woman?

    Wtf

  19. Temporary-Pin-320 Avatar

    If it bends.. it can break

  20. monkeyballpirate Avatar

    I mean yea amazon position looks insane lol. Reverse cowgirl can also be dangerous. I mean if a girl goes too crazy and isn’t careful she can hurt your dick, it’s not common, but it has happened Ive seen stories on here. Just do your best lol, hopefully the girl has good dick-vag awareness and knows to start slow and make sure you’re comfortable before going gorilla mode.

  21. sovi1337 Avatar

    this reads like an old yahoo answers question

  22. Zzen220 Avatar

    Never tried Amazon, but I can definitely recommend the whole women.

  23. Frequent_Daddy Avatar

    As opposed to part of a woman?

  24. omglionheaded Avatar

    It’s funny you refer to a woman as a “whole woman”.
    Anyway, I’ll try to answer your question politely.
    Yes, it can be painful to either of you if not properly lubricated, the position doesn’t matter here. If there is too much friction it will be uncomfortable. You may even damage or break your frenulum, don’t recommend.

  25. International_Try660 Avatar

    Yes, there are instances of broken penis. Thankfully, it’s not that common.

  26. bretty666 Avatar

    thats why i stick with centaurs…

  27. DisMuhUserName Avatar

    I’ve had something “snap” before during an unusually vigorous angry-handy (long story) and was out of commission for a few weeks, just be careful.

  28. Outrageous-Wave-2264 Avatar
    1. Be vocal and communicative
    2. Proper lubrication is key
    3. Go slow and be safe is sketchy ass positions with a “whole woman” 😂😂
  29. LemonSavings7888 Avatar

    I’ve never had this experience again but with my second girlfriend ever she was on top and I felt a pop towards the top of the base of my “little guy” I was sore for about a week no bruising or discoloration just discomfort never had it happen again with a handful of different females. So to answer it shouldn’t be but I guess it just hurts sometimes lol

  30. Rectal_tension Avatar

    what is a whole woman?

  31. Matches_Malone998 Avatar

    I prefer when it’s a 1/4 woman for sure.

  32. Beldivok Avatar

    I’ve never had my penus hurt from sex. but if there isn’t lubricant I suppose some chaffing is possible. as per riding being dangerous.. reverse cowgirl is to my knowledge the position where more people have their dicks broken… but even at that.. it’s very unlikly .

    A “penile fracture,” which is when the tissue inside ruptures due to a sudden bend during an erection. This is a medical emergency and usually happens during vigorous sex, especially when the woman is on top and the penis accidentally slips out and gets bent against the pelvis or thigh.

    However, in most cases, with good communication and care, those positions are safe and pleasurable. The body is surprisingly resilient. If both partners are in tune with each other, and there’s mutual feedback (verbal or nonverbal), things usually go smoothly.

    A few things that help prevent pain or injury:

    • Lubrication: Less friction = less risk of strain or bending.
    • Control: Some guys prefer to be in control of the depth and angle, but when the woman is on top, she can also be mindful and not slam down too hard or at awkward angles.
    • Communication: If it ever feels uncomfortable or painful, speak up! Your “little friend” deserves to be protected.

    So yes, it’s possible for it to hurt or be risky if done carelessly, but with awareness and communication, it’s usually safe.

  33. Prestigious_Tax_8550 Avatar

    “SNAP” is not one of the sounds that would cause stimulating hotness from most women, just sayin, unless she’s a freak..the idea of my partner screaming “you broke my penis” is just too much and yes, you definitely can break your Dick if she has no idea what she’s doing, in your case, i would advise you to control the narrative, (narrative = your Dick), just as long as you know she isn’t going to be reckless, then you can let her control the narrative…good luck and don’t you break a leg..(the third one) 😉.

  34. emryldmyst Avatar

    A whole woman?

    As opposed to only part of a woman?

  35. brown_nomadic Avatar

    its safer to avoid women all together

  36. Many-Gold1086 Avatar

    As a whole woman I can assure you I have not hurt any penises. 🤣🤣🤣

  37. Gapingasthetic71 Avatar

    Not as bad when it’s half a woman

  38. meowymcmeowmeow Avatar

    Not supposed to, and don’t let this freak you out too much but it is possible for her come down on it at the wrong angle and cause a painful injury. Rare but possible.

  39. kinks96 Avatar

    Try half a woman first then upgrade to a whole one.

  40. jbplc66 Avatar

    I wish some cultures had their own subreddits to go to ask these weird questions. Is everyone in that entire continent mentality off?

  41. DJ_RIME Avatar

    -googling “Amazon position”-

  42. PmButtPics4ADrawing Avatar

    if you have a strong stomach google ‘penile fracture’

  43. Pistonenvy2 Avatar

    ive never broken my dick but ive definitely had women bend the shit out of it trying to ride me in awkward ways, its definitely more of a problem when drunk but if shes drunk im drunk too so my dick isnt as hard and it kind of balances out lol

  44. icanfly2026 Avatar

    The muscles around it can get sore from the weight but will go away after a bit and you won’t notice it

  45. Mod-Quad Avatar

    Just take four 200mg Advil prior to sex