Anything that seems even remotely unpleasant for the other person involved. I hate the porn thing where women are gagging on dick during blowjobs, for example.
When a man thinks intensity is power, and not restraint.
The way some men “grab” like the desire should justify itself.
But the ones who wait…
that silence before touch—
that’s what undoes me.
Everything else feels like noise.
Nibbling my ear, holy fuck. My ex husband thought he was so sexy doing that but the sound, the sensation EVERYTHING about it made me cringe. And I told him I hated it repeatedly yet he’d still do it. Thank fuck that’s over with.
Men over 6ft tall and really buff dudes. I don’t want someone who can easily overpower me, that’d I’d have no chance in getting away from in an altercation.
People who flirt by pointing out size differences. So many men will try to flirt by acknowledging how much bigger they are compared to me (height and hand size usually being the most common things) and it just feels threatening in my opinion. I also hate the flipside where I see women flirting with men by pointing out how small or petite they are compared to the man they’re flirting with. It just feels so icky and cringe.
Tall guys. I’m pretty tall for a woman (5’9″) but never really been particularly attracted to tall men. Not necessarily a “turn off” but I’ve always preferred pretty average height and before I married I dated plenty of “shorter” men.
Dirty talk or even what people call praise kink. Like ” You’re doing so good.” What…am I a fucking dog? Or it feels like he’s doing something to me when they say shit like that. As if I’m not participating too.
Any kind of porn moves turn me right off. And degradation. I’m not into that shit.
So…that eliminates a lot of sexual partners these days.
Posing like the coolest guy ever. Approaching like the absolute winner that is so generous so as to graciously paying you some attention, but not very much… disgusting. Either socially awkward or natural.
muscular men, like body builders or extreme puffy muscles, i would even say puffy muscles in general. it’s very weird when you watch tv shows/ movies that reiterates how attractive it is, like jason momoa, it’s so annoying to constantly look at him shirtless. that’s just me tho.
Probably BDSM or BONDAGE listen im not going to start hating on you just because you like certain things and whatnot but unfortunately that makes me uncomfortable
Any sentence said by a dude where he addresses women as “females”.
Instant sex talk, jokes, innuendo, hints, turning anything I say into something sexual. Some guys peg you as a prude which isn’t the case. Go flash your lame jokes and community D elsewhere to somebody who’s desperate.
When he bites my neck like it’s supposed to be primal…
but he’s doing it with zero rhythm, zero pause,
like he saw it in a movie once and thought pain equals passion.
It’s not the teeth—it’s the absence of presence.
Honestly, the dominance shit makes me uncomfortable not only the dominant guys. The overly submissive ones are worse. My ex was one of those and he would make me cringe so bad. So much that I stopped enjoying sex.
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FORCED bedroom voice makes me cringe so hard to the point that i want to throw myself off a cliff
I don’t want anybody singing to me. Ever. Do. Not.
Thirst traps.Trying to be sexy. The secondhand embarrassment makes me want to disappear.
Calling themselves daddy
Can’t be doing with lingerie with all the garters etc I think women are way hotter in yoga pants and a crop top
Cum shots or spitting
I don’t know anyone who thinks it’s sexy and idk why it even happens but any “baby talk” = disgust
😉 in texts. just gives me the ick
Dirty talk. Pet names
Anything that seems even remotely unpleasant for the other person involved. I hate the porn thing where women are gagging on dick during blowjobs, for example.
If we don’t know each other and you call me a pet name. No! That shit is earned
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Dirty talk and role play. I just want to have a shag, not to be part of an amateur dramatic performance.
Men that post selfies. Call me a hypocrite. I don’t care. Lol
Any guy that uses the term “alpha”
Controversial opinion , but abs. Or overly toned /built up muscles. A lanky guy with some soft squishy spots is what really gets me going
When a man thinks intensity is power, and not restraint.
The way some men “grab” like the desire should justify itself.
But the ones who wait…
that silence before touch—
that’s what undoes me.
Everything else feels like noise.
Writing a poem or love letter for your partner.
Nibbling my ear, holy fuck. My ex husband thought he was so sexy doing that but the sound, the sensation EVERYTHING about it made me cringe. And I told him I hated it repeatedly yet he’d still do it. Thank fuck that’s over with.
the two finger tongue flicking thing.
Calling themselves dominant when they have no idea what it means. This usually ends up as toxic behavior.
Men over 6ft tall and really buff dudes. I don’t want someone who can easily overpower me, that’d I’d have no chance in getting away from in an altercation.
Anyone but LL Kool J doing that lip thing
Boys wanting “as it was seen in porn” body
acting nonchalant, calling themselves “daddy”, calling me “pet” or “kitten”
disgusting.
Duck lips
Do most people think Prince Alberts are sexy? I’ve discovered I do not think they’re sexy anymore after having experienced one.
Guys who wear skinny jeans 🤢
Uniforms, especially military uniforms.
Rubbing my clit like they’re trying to scrub food off a plate…good lord
Biting my lip during kissing. STOP! IT’S AWKWARD!!!!!
Men with muscles and bulging veins. Visual lumps of veins is so gross.
Spit…spitting in my mouth…spitting on a dick…spitting on my pussy…I get so grossed out even watching porn when someone does that. 🤢🤢
The V shaped lower abdomen area some men have.
Men asserting themselves and trying to dominate me.
God, it dries me up.
People who flirt by pointing out size differences. So many men will try to flirt by acknowledging how much bigger they are compared to me (height and hand size usually being the most common things) and it just feels threatening in my opinion. I also hate the flipside where I see women flirting with men by pointing out how small or petite they are compared to the man they’re flirting with. It just feels so icky and cringe.
Nibbling on my ear. I fucking CANT stand it. Ugh. I don’t want a soggy fucking earlobe. Just leave it alone.
Tall guys. I’m pretty tall for a woman (5’9″) but never really been particularly attracted to tall men. Not necessarily a “turn off” but I’ve always preferred pretty average height and before I married I dated plenty of “shorter” men.
Excessively long fingernails. I think women that have them think men like it but I have found it to be the opposite.
Completely bald down there, don’t understand the fascination and just seems wrong.
A nicely manicured one everyday please.
Muscles that look like they’re about to explode
Men trying to be dominant or assuming all women want to be submissive during sex
Comparing himself to other men I had. Like « I give more pleasure than your ex » dude can we not talk about other people rn
Opening doors for me.
If you want to show me you care for me and make my life easier, just pick up after yourself or wipe down a countertop or something.
Dirty talk or even what people call praise kink. Like ” You’re doing so good.” What…am I a fucking dog? Or it feels like he’s doing something to me when they say shit like that. As if I’m not participating too.
Any kind of porn moves turn me right off. And degradation. I’m not into that shit.
So…that eliminates a lot of sexual partners these days.
Baby talk
Acting tough
‘mommy’
‘baby’
Flexing muscles
Posing like the coolest guy ever. Approaching like the absolute winner that is so generous so as to graciously paying you some attention, but not very much… disgusting. Either socially awkward or natural.
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Playing with my ears at all.
Growling. Had a guy literally snarl at me like a lion and I’ve never been so dry so quick
I’m a guy , but I know that woman in my experience don’t like it when guys name their penis.
Fully removing body hair. No pubic hair.
Anything degrading. Sorry but if your idea of sexy is degrading your partner I’m running far far away.
muscular men, like body builders or extreme puffy muscles, i would even say puffy muscles in general. it’s very weird when you watch tv shows/ movies that reiterates how attractive it is, like jason momoa, it’s so annoying to constantly look at him shirtless. that’s just me tho.
Probably BDSM or BONDAGE listen im not going to start hating on you just because you like certain things and whatnot but unfortunately that makes me uncomfortable
Any sentence said by a dude where he addresses women as “females”.
Instant sex talk, jokes, innuendo, hints, turning anything I say into something sexual. Some guys peg you as a prude which isn’t the case. Go flash your lame jokes and community D elsewhere to somebody who’s desperate.
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I hate HATE anything to do with spit. literally gives me chills and makes me feel like I’m going to vomit.
DONT call me baby unless we’re in a long term relationship
When he bites my neck like it’s supposed to be primal…
but he’s doing it with zero rhythm, zero pause,
like he saw it in a movie once and thought pain equals passion.
It’s not the teeth—it’s the absence of presence.
Honestly, the dominance shit makes me uncomfortable not only the dominant guys. The overly submissive ones are worse. My ex was one of those and he would make me cringe so bad. So much that I stopped enjoying sex.
Beauty marks
i don’t. want to swallow a dude’s cum. i don’t want to taste that thing. it’s gross.
Dirty panties,
Beards and overly masculine appearance