Hello, english isn’t my best language, I’m sorry for any spelling mistakes or bad grammar.
SO, let’s start from the beginning before I called her a pick me girl. I was friends with three other girls. we will call them L, D, E. L and I were good friends; we would always hang out and test each other, and we would talk about a lot of personal things. One day, she started talking about E and how annoying she was and how she is acting like a pick me girl because E would always say I hate men but then be the first one to be alone with them and some other things. L also thought E was lying about her IBF, When I first met E, I did not like her, but I was always nice because we were in a friend group, but E and I never hung out alone or really talked. I told L how I felt, and we would talk about her actions and how they made us feel. L then started talking about D and how she was being mean to her(L) and how she is pick me girl because she would change her voice and do other things. I would mostly say that D should not be treating her like that and that her actions were pick-me-up behavior.
Move forward a couple of months, I noticed they kicked me out of our Life 360 group and I asked L about it and she said idk what happened so I asked E to add me back into it and she did This happened 2 other times. Finally E told me that she found out I was talking about E and D. She would tell me who told her, but I knew it was L because she is the only one I talked to about this. I ended up putting them all in one group chat and told E and told her how i wasnt her biggest fan and what i truly thought that she was a pick me girl and i gave her an example. I then told D how i felt that She was a pick me girl becaseu how she always changes for men and that i thought she was mean for treating L the way she did. I then told them how L came to me first and I sent screenshot of me and L conversations to show how I wasnt the main problem.
E texted me on the side saying i was rude ( i dont think i was rude they wanted the truth and i gave it) she said her saying i hate men is a joke i said ok i guess it wasnt funny to me but it was truly a joke then dont change her self based on what i think do what she wants.
Someone told me i was the ass whole for making the group chat and telling the truth but i dont think i am but i want some other opinions.
So am i the ass whole?
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Backup of the post’s body: Hello, english isn’t my best language, I’m sorry for any spelling mistakes or bad grammar.
SO, let’s start from the beginning before I called her a pick me girl. I was friends with three other girls. we will call them L, D, E. L and I were good friends; we would always hang out and test each other, and we would talk about a lot of personal things. One day, she started talking about E and how annoying she was and how she is acting like a pick me girl because E would always say I hate men but then be the first one to be alone with them and some other things. L also thought E was lying about her IBF, When I first met E, I did not like her, but I was always nice because we were in a friend group, but E and I never hung out alone or really talked. I told L how I felt, and we would talk about her actions and how they made us feel. L then started talking about D and how she was being mean to her(L) and how she is pick me girl because she would change her voice and do other things. I would mostly say that D should not be treating her like that and that her actions were pick-me-up behavior.
Move forward a couple of months, I noticed they kicked me out of our Life 360 group and I asked L about it and she said idk what happened so I asked E to add me back into it and she did This happened 2 other times. Finally E told me that she found out I was talking about E and D. She would tell me who told her, but I knew it was L because she is the only one I talked to about this. I ended up putting them all in one group chat and told E and told her how i wasnt her biggest fan and what i truly thought that she was a pick me girl and i gave her an example. I then told D how i felt that She was a pick me girl becaseu how she always changes for men and that i thought she was mean for treating L the way she did. I then told them how L came to me first and I sent screenshot of me and L conversations to show how I wasnt the main problem.
E texted me on the side saying i was rude ( i dont think i was rude they wanted the truth and i gave it) she said her saying i hate men is a joke i said ok i guess it wasnt funny to me but it was truly a joke then dont change her self based on what i think do what she wants.
Someone told me i was the ass whole for making the group chat and telling the truth but i dont think i am but i want some other opinions.
So am i the ass whole?
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