I (24F) had 3 abortions AMA

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What the title says, I started being sexually active around 18/19 and ended up in an awful abusive relationship where, through lots of therapy and work on myself, realized those “accidents” where actually him purposefully trying to baby trap me and that it was actually abuse. Ask me anything

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  1. notAcoustic420 Avatar

    I don’t have any questions but I do hope you are okay.

  2. El_Mid Avatar

    How are you doing now?

  3. Fast_Ad_5871 Avatar
    1. Did you remarry again who supports you or is still in an abusive relationship till now.

    2. How did you manage the traumas of losing babies like as far as I know it’s the greatest blessing for parents.

    3. Did you had an active stream of income to support you in hard times and was your husband supportive at that time.

    4. Did you care about what people said about you?

    I hope, you are ok now.

  4. cerebrum3000 Avatar

    Don’t let any negative judgment people ruin your mood. It seems you did what you believed was best while in a bad situation.

    Only question I’d have is what advice would you want to give to anyone checking this out that also may be in a bad situation like you were?

  5. 37inFinals Avatar

    Glad you’re better. Are you suggesting your boyfriend was doing something like poking holes in condoms?

  6. Ificatchuatthelight Avatar

    3 is crazy, not judging u but just pointing it out in context for my actual question. How many is common practice today? Back when I was active woman with 2 or more was pretty much a known 304

  7. Elias98x Avatar

    I’m so sorry, might be a personal question forgive me for it but when did you usually get the abortions?

  8. ethnomath Avatar

    I’m sorry you had to go through that. Was he aware when you had them or did you have to hide that you got them?

  9. Acceptable-Store135 Avatar

    how did he get you pregnant when you can take the pill?

    You sound like someone whose careless and not clue about your own body and just blaming someone else. 3 abortions is just diabolical.