You can’t be a feminist if you refuse to listen to women with the goal of empathy

r/

I just need to vent. I’ve been talking to this guy for about two months. Last night we were talking and early on he was saying his mom bought land and camped in a tent while she build her house. And he was using this to basically say he was raised with equality and was a feminist. So then later we were talking and somehow the conversation changed and I don’t even know how we got to this. I honestly think someone accused him of rape. But like, that wasn’t me. And somehow it came to for some reason he believes that women are weaker and can’t really fight, but still he thinks they have some power to stop it. And he said something about if you don’t fight, just shut up and be a victim. Then he hits me with “women are the reason that women are raped. Police your own” I have no idea what police your own means. I guess he was upset that some women don’t speak up. There was some talk before this about “if you live streamed yourself getting raped, guys would find him and beat his ass” no they fucking wouldn’t. It would be spread across 4chan with hateful comments like “she deserved it” and most of them would jack off to it. Anyway, I left and as I was leaving he said something stupid and I was like “ok, yeah the worlds not fair, women get raped, so rape victims aren’t supposed to be upset” nope. And he was laughing as I was leaving. What really gets me is that when his ex was keeping his kid from him he was having meltdowns. He brings it up and I can tell he is still mad. What a bunch of two faced bull shit. Ugh. I’m glad this came out early but I don’t know if I’ll recover.