What do you think are the most valuable skills for a man to learn ?

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What do you think are the most valuable skills for a man to learn ?

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  2. anal88sepsis Avatar

    Just like women, cooking, finance, sense of direction, reading comprehension, some street smarts,

    But just for dudes, learn how to work with your hands, eventually you’ll need them and lifes easier if you can do.stuff, then again girls should learn this too.

  3. Yashu3737 Avatar

    Concentration.

  4. Kenfloslice Avatar

    respectful of other people’s feelings.

  5. ChatPDJ Avatar

    Critical thinking

    Self-discipline/control

  6. Future_Continuous Avatar

    how to breathe oxygen, eat food, & drink liquids.

  7. ped009 Avatar

    Probably communication, you can be very smart and or talented but unless you can communicate well with others you will struggle. Coming from someone that struggles a fair bit with communication

  8. Normalscottishperson Avatar

    Empathy and understanding

  9. SuburbanBushwacker Avatar

    complete disregard for what other people think. not everyone will get you but those who do will find you wildly charismatic

  10. ReliableDoorstop Avatar

    Regulating your feelings so they don’t control you. By that I mean release them in a way that isn’t an outburst or seen as a tantrum

  11. hzard2401 Avatar

    Knowing when and how much to talk

  12. RomanticRetrever Avatar

    How to take care of yourself, no matter if that’s hygiene or being in a stable mental state or even having a place to call home

  13. 5ft6manlet Avatar

    Self awareness and being able to see another’s POV.

    Those are very hard to attain imo.

  14. Addicted1_42 Avatar

    Clitoris awareness.

  15. Brilliant-Tackle5774 Avatar

    Communication, cooking, car repair, cunnilingus

  16. Shawn-the-gunner Avatar

    There’s a few. Basic mechanical knowledge is a big one.

  17. Neglected_Facts2907 Avatar

    Patience, being expressive, kind-hearted, supporting women in reaching heights

  18. Makeshift-human Avatar

    To calm yourself is very important. It may be stress at work, road rage, an argument at home or just something else that annoys you. Before you do anything you should be calm, so you´re able to think. It also might make you live longer.
    It is great when you can take a deep breath and let the anger/stress go but it requires practive and mindfulness. You have to recognize the situations that lead to negative emotions in advance, which makes it easier. When you start it might take longer to let it go and it won´t always work but keep at it and you´ll soon see improvement.

  19. Rosegirl0399 Avatar

    How to treat a woman with respect

  20. New-Sherbet-1192 Avatar

    Eye contact , I’ll say it every time

  21. Homely_Bonfire Avatar

    People Skills, of which the most important seem to me to assess people and to refuse without being a dick about it.

    There will be people at all times trying to go after something you have (or they think you will have in the future), by telling you about some duty you somehow have, a morale debt you owe or to cater to someones ideal and so on. Thats why identifying leeches and being able to not participate/resist manipulation seems like the foundation from which you would build everything else.

  22. FoppyDidNothingWrong Avatar

    To take care of yourself. Independence, cooking, making sure your house is not a dump. A proper man is already complete whether he partners up or not.

  23. confuseum Avatar

    How to learn. I need step by step instructions and to physically do something before it clicks.

  24. mycobacteryummy Avatar

    How to take a dick

  25. BadMeetsWeevil Avatar

    impulse control

  26. No_Match_5371 Avatar

    Being able to talk about shit that affects us… Luckily I have my wife I can do this with but damn man shits tough out here on your own.

  27. Longjumping_Egg5640 Avatar

    Actual listening and talking about our feelings.

  28. GoodWaste8222 Avatar

    Interpersonal skills