Looks and body aside, what is the next thing on a woman that makes her attractive?

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  2. Quinbear Avatar

    Engaged in conversation and laughs at my jokes

  3. GandalfTheJaded Avatar

    Empathy and passion for something

  4. HumbleDiscussion318 Avatar

    Personality hands down…

  5. Relative_Hyena7760 Avatar

    Kindness and empathy.

  6. C1sko Avatar
  7. DayDreamer_124 Avatar

    Her femininity and kindness/softness.

  8. sendme_your_cats Avatar

    Being able to have deep conversations.

    Philosophical, scientific, super niche dorky things, etc

  9. DayDreamer_124 Avatar

    Not being a Rosie the Riveter type broad.

  10. NoSheeshSherlock Avatar

    The way she talks, is she having a little attitude(in a good way), is she roasting me? And if i roast her back she doesn’t mind. Atleast these for the beginning

  11. Darth_Queso_ Avatar

    I really like humor in a woman, a girl thats genuinely funny is pretty attractive

  12. dadoffour_87 Avatar

    Loves to give a bj… 👌

  13. Pattison320 Avatar

    Financial stability. Not just supporting herself and being gainfully employed. But good spending/saving habits.

    Edit: unless it’s not a serious thing, then anal. Anal is on the list either way, just not the top thing if it’s serious.

  14. yaboytim Avatar

    Kindness, Sense of humor, Not uptight or easily offended (within reason), intelligence, Good at conversations, reliability

  15. Simba307 Avatar

    just her appearance, smell and how energetic she could be already make her somewhat attractive to me

  16. ipposan Avatar

    Kindness, positive, easy to talk to, empathy for others.

  17. M0_kh4n Avatar

    To me it’s the calmness, the peace she carries with her aura. This is not so common though.

  18. Rei_Rodentia Avatar

    a silly/quirky/nerdy personality 

    compassion for others 

    loving animals and children 

    not caring what other people think about her

    spontaneity 

    …and laughing at my stupid jokes is always a plus 😅

  19. r1muwu Avatar

    The ability to have a real conversation and to have accountability. Bonus points if she has her own money.

  20. dgmilo8085 Avatar

    How she commands a room. Is she meek and does she hide? Or does the room wait on her every breath?

  21. Flat_Economics2086 Avatar

    Not giving a general vibe of high maintenance and brattiness is extremely attractive on a woman. Shows she’s done the work to emotionally mature.

  22. Beneficial_Jacket962 Avatar

    Brains. Love brainsand brainy chat

  23. GamingFarang Avatar

    Her attitude towards me and others.

  24. Top_Wop Avatar

    Intelligence, by a mile.

  25. dukeofthefoothills1 Avatar

    Kind, caring, low drama, peaceful, good communication skills, intelligent, classy, not materialistic.

  26. Wooden_Item_9769 Avatar

    The right amount of self confidence and empathy. Knowing who you are and being okay with whoever you may and having the strength to stand up on your own two feet is amazing.

  27. ProfJD58 Avatar

    Intelligence; Before looks.

  28. WrongdoerAdvanced503 Avatar

    Her energy and how she communicates/expresses herself

  29. myhobbythrowaway Avatar

    Cool with my bullshit while I’m the same with hers.

  30. MauiGuy8082 Avatar

    Admittedly, I’m overwhelmingly attracted to intelligent, nerdy and well-educated women who love animals. If I’m on online dating, I look for things like pictures of her with her pets, what does she say in her bio (if there are any hints of an above average intelligence), what kinds of things does she like to do (non-sexually), etc. In person, I’m still looking for hints and cues to things like that but it’s a little more reliant on actually talking to each other lol

  31. Paxton_415 Avatar

    When she’s soft

  32. Pitiable-Crescendo Avatar

    Good, possible dark sense of humor

  33. the_ivan-bliminse Avatar

    Honesty and the ability to think for herself. When a girl has differing opinions and stands her ground amongst her friends— very attractive.