Because they won’t give up their privilege to use women for their free labour (sexual, domestic, care work, uterine efforts, psychotherapeutic, …). And they won’t get the ego boost if they don’t abuse us.
Edit because I posted before finishing my thought: Almost all women I know are selfsufficient to get through life on their own and have control over their daily life. I know very, very few men who actually are able to keep track of a job, their home and free time activities the way most women are.
This is back to the mid 2010’s, but I remember a “lot” of men going about something similar to what one would describe as “decentering” women from their life’s, at least on paper.
Nowadays the term for the online community of incels and grifters of misogyny is referred to the manosphere, but a few years back the term one would associate with this type of people was MGTOW (Men go their own way? I think?), which started with a handful of men online deciding that they didn’t want to involve themselves with women for whatever reason they had.
Of course, among those who claimed they wanted to focus on themselves and for their lives not to revolve around women on their Twitter rants, 99,9% of them went on to become obsessed with what women did, and started making it their second job to harrass women online.
With the passing of the years I can’t really say I have seen these comments of “going their on way” anymore, but they were not that rare 8 to 10 years ago. But to be fair, I’m also not on social media all that much so anymore.
they get precieved status by “obtaining a woman” and men get socialized to not have deep friendships where they an express their emotions, they use an romantic partner for these things
also a big reason is sex, which also has to do with status and them trying to validate their “masculinity” same with having a kid, sex drive is not the only reason why they are so desperate for sex, they are also shamed for being a virgin by other men and pushed to seek out sex to escape the shaming and “being a man”
the last thing would be free labour from their romantic partners
its a mix of social pressure and expectation, their desire to adhere to a “masculine ideal” and applified with a natural desire for partnership
men always needed women more than women needed men, thats why every society tried to hold women down they gravitate more torwards independence, they basically forced women to be with them
thats why when women hate men, they try to escape or avoid them while men hating women still try to chase them and have a relationship or sex with them
Truth is women are just the best sentient life this planet has to offer. So of course they naturally become the center and focus of all other sentient life.
This is actually an excellent question. When I first heard about the MGTOW movement (Men Going Their Own Way) I was actually very joyous. I thought, man, finally – they’ll start to work on themselves and find independent happiness and this world can change for the better.
But they didn’t. Because that’s not what it was about.
It wasn’t about men trying surfing or pilates for the first time or exchanging book recommendations on absurdism or astrobiology.
It was a movement that was a slightly less pathetic version of /incel. All it focused on was still… women.
IDK. I think the vast majority of Losers (a common type of man) did not successfully reproduce by being intelligent and co-operative beings, but more like aggressive mice or rodents of some sort.
I don’t think they’ve cognitively caught up with their suddenly extended life span and quality of life that women, non-men, and intelligent men have afforded them.
They’re stuck on primal cognitive reflexes and chimp out for a crumb of pussy. Any pussy, or even hole. Animals, corpses, corpses of animals, you name it!
Once internet porn came out, they were completely fucked. It’s like Loser crack. RIP.
Because they believe they’re owed sex, domestic labor, and a free therapist. Not getting those things when they’ve been told their whole lives they deserve it and are owed it, feels like they’re being ripped off.
It’s not that they can’t decenter women, it’s that women are objects.
Because the entire macho, “Alpha” mindset is based on how much women want them. For all the posturing about how they don’t need women and can live without them, their whole ranking system leans on how attractive they think they are to women.
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Life is hard. A lot of men think that having a woman will make it easier.
Because they won’t give up their privilege to use women for their free labour (sexual, domestic, care work, uterine efforts, psychotherapeutic, …). And they won’t get the ego boost if they don’t abuse us.
Edit because I posted before finishing my thought: Almost all women I know are selfsufficient to get through life on their own and have control over their daily life. I know very, very few men who actually are able to keep track of a job, their home and free time activities the way most women are.
What’s next? Expecting them to decenter their other property? /s
This is back to the mid 2010’s, but I remember a “lot” of men going about something similar to what one would describe as “decentering” women from their life’s, at least on paper.
Nowadays the term for the online community of incels and grifters of misogyny is referred to the manosphere, but a few years back the term one would associate with this type of people was MGTOW (Men go their own way? I think?), which started with a handful of men online deciding that they didn’t want to involve themselves with women for whatever reason they had.
Of course, among those who claimed they wanted to focus on themselves and for their lives not to revolve around women on their Twitter rants, 99,9% of them went on to become obsessed with what women did, and started making it their second job to harrass women online.
With the passing of the years I can’t really say I have seen these comments of “going their on way” anymore, but they were not that rare 8 to 10 years ago. But to be fair, I’m also not on social media all that much so anymore.
they get precieved status by “obtaining a woman” and men get socialized to not have deep friendships where they an express their emotions, they use an romantic partner for these things
also a big reason is sex, which also has to do with status and them trying to validate their “masculinity” same with having a kid, sex drive is not the only reason why they are so desperate for sex, they are also shamed for being a virgin by other men and pushed to seek out sex to escape the shaming and “being a man”
the last thing would be free labour from their romantic partners
its a mix of social pressure and expectation, their desire to adhere to a “masculine ideal” and applified with a natural desire for partnership
men always needed women more than women needed men, thats why every society tried to hold women down they gravitate more torwards independence, they basically forced women to be with them
thats why when women hate men, they try to escape or avoid them while men hating women still try to chase them and have a relationship or sex with them
Truth is women are just the best sentient life this planet has to offer. So of course they naturally become the center and focus of all other sentient life.
i am not quite understanding this, ” men decentering women from their lives”
is it like in terms of women usually being the center and powerhouse of the home and hearth ?
Because they leech off of us
This is actually an excellent question. When I first heard about the MGTOW movement (Men Going Their Own Way) I was actually very joyous. I thought, man, finally – they’ll start to work on themselves and find independent happiness and this world can change for the better.
But they didn’t. Because that’s not what it was about.
It wasn’t about men trying surfing or pilates for the first time or exchanging book recommendations on absurdism or astrobiology.
It was a movement that was a slightly less pathetic version of /incel. All it focused on was still… women.
IDK. I think the vast majority of Losers (a common type of man) did not successfully reproduce by being intelligent and co-operative beings, but more like aggressive mice or rodents of some sort.
I don’t think they’ve cognitively caught up with their suddenly extended life span and quality of life that women, non-men, and intelligent men have afforded them.
They’re stuck on primal cognitive reflexes and chimp out for a crumb of pussy. Any pussy, or even hole. Animals, corpses, corpses of animals, you name it!
Once internet porn came out, they were completely fucked. It’s like Loser crack. RIP.
Because they believe they’re owed sex, domestic labor, and a free therapist. Not getting those things when they’ve been told their whole lives they deserve it and are owed it, feels like they’re being ripped off.
It’s not that they can’t decenter women, it’s that women are objects.
Because women are a resource to them
Because the entire macho, “Alpha” mindset is based on how much women want them. For all the posturing about how they don’t need women and can live without them, their whole ranking system leans on how attractive they think they are to women.
Testosterone makes reproduction their no1. Priority ,even when they themselves dont know it.