Me (25F) and my boyfriend (30M) have been together for about 6 years. We live 1 hour away from each other. I love him and he’s a very quiet guy, sometimes he doesn’t have anything to say. When we are in person (2 days per week) everything is good. We get along well, have fun together, relax together. But when he leaves my house for the work week, he doesn’t text me at all. He calls me one time at night and talk for 1.5 hours or more. I’m not a big texter either but I feel insecure there’s no communication from morning to evening. Is this a deal breaker situation or no?
TL;DR: my bf doesn’t text all day only calls once at night. Is this a red flag?
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Once a night is plenty!! People have been communicating much less than once a night for a centuries and the human race somehow thrived. If you texted throughout the day what in the world would there be to talk about when he calls? I think the insecurity is your issue to deal with. I would appreciate that you and he are both autonomous grown up people who choose to end their day by sharing with each other. Sounds beautiful to me!