How would you feel if a grown woman told you she didn’t have a lot of sexual experience?
How would you feel if a grown woman told you she didn’t have a lot of sexual experience?
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How would you feel if a grown woman told you she didn’t have a lot of sexual experience?
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Thank you OP for asking this question, I grew up in a very traditional household and now that I am in my 20s and independent, the thought of guys my age judging me for my lack of experience frightens me
Television and movies paint an inaccurate picture of the average person’s sex life.
Most m’en would’t care.
Remember, man or woman, the most important thing is to communicate. Tellement what frightens you, what annoys you, what pleases you…
Everything will be amazing with that
In all honesty, to me, sex is a very, very important part of a healthy, human, adult relationship. It’s how men bond with their partners, it’s how we release stress, it’s how we’re shown affection.
An older woman, with a lack of sexual experience, is a warning to me. It kind of suggests that she doesn’t like sex very much and that’s why she never pursued it and that’s why she has a lack of experience.
Some men have low sex drives and it may well suit them. For me though it’s be a stonking red flag.
As long as she’s willing then it’s prefferable for me.
I wouldn’t reject her for her lack of experience. Some good people are failures at finding romance. There’s no need to rush things sexually, I would just be trying to build the relationship.
I wouldn’t think much of it. Experience is something that can be gained over the course of the relationship and some of the stuff you might try requires a deeper level of trust.
I would not mind. How a man responds can tell you a lot about them. If he runs he was just wanting sex, if he immediately initiates sex thats all he wants, if he says he understands and makes you feel comfortable and lets you feel it and doesn’t push for it then he is actually interested in you as a person.
I’m yet to figure out how this matters, everyone is an individual and you usually need to find what works for each person from scratch at the start of the relationship.
Id say me too so let’s explore and see what works for us
Not an issue, its just the result of something else. And that’s what men will care about. If you are a victim of child abuse and have panic attacks when you shake hands with someone, thats a whole different reason from you just coming from a traditional household where relationships and intimacy take more time and parental approval.