So we broke up end of March and after that he started getting around. This weekend my friend group (he is in it) is going to a concert and he’s bringing a girl to the tailgate. I know it’s just a hook up cause his buddy told me. How do I approach this? Do I ignore them? Be nice to her? Try to be her friend?? I’m confused on what I should do
I have to hang out with my ex and the girls he’s gonna hoop up with
r/Advice
Comments
hope hes got a solid layup
I would just be your normal self. I doubt you would want to be her friend, but there is no point in ignoring her or being a bitch either. Just be you.
I’d suggest you stay home. If the concert is so incredible you have to see it, go, but keep your distance and don’t say anything to either of them. Yes, you ignore them. Weigh the thrill of the concert against the pain of the interaction. You won’t die if you stay home.
I guess if you’ve ruled out not going at all I’d be cordial but distant. You don’t have to hang out with them and if it’s a concert you can 100% get away with just not being around them.
If it was a messy breakup or if the guy is a douche and doesn’t care about your feelings I’d also prepare yourself to see them kissing or acting affectionately towards each other and try to avoid that
Pretend like you never heard information about your ex second-hand.
Why are you trying to strategize whether you should be friends with someone you haven’t met? Maybe they are not friendship material regardless of being the guest of your ex.
Never a bad idea to be polite to people.
Give her some tips about his sex antics.