I married an ultra-rich guy from one of the wealthiest families out there, without being privy of his riches at first, AMA.

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I have been led to believe that my choice of a significant other, and the life that comes with it, none of which I consider myself “special” for or deserving of btw, makes for some interesting conversation, so I am here, simply to answer any questions anyone might have in relation to the same.

I am a slow typist, but I will get to all your questions eventually. I am mainly just here to have some pleasant conversations and sate my need for human interactions online, albeit without giving away any personal information or any specifics.

Have a nice day folks!

Comments

  1. Flat_Okra6078 Avatar

    How did he hide it from you at first

  2. Infinite-Emu-1279 Avatar

    Has he shared his wealth with you?
    Are you living better ?
    Fancy gifts ?
    Do you work?

  3. kamiegraphy Avatar

    Kind of reminds me of Crazy Rich Asian! What was the first present he gave you?

  4. Dontbecruelbro Avatar

    How long did you know him before you married?

  5. SevereFun2463 Avatar

    How wealthy are we talking here…..private jets, yachts, mansions, servants, can just buy a country wealth?

  6. Impressive_Ad_577 Avatar

    When did you first spend their money on yourself? What did you spend it on? Do you have an allowance? 

  7. omgimsocool82 Avatar

    Do you have a prenup?

  8. Originlinear Avatar

    What’s the wealth disparity between your family and his family? Were you born to a fairly wealthy family yourself?

  9. NegotiationExpert855 Avatar

    Hi!

    What’s your background? How did you guys meet and how long did it take to decide to get married?

  10. Squawk-7200 Avatar

    When you travel, do you have the same documentation requirements as average folks?

  11. princessfiretruck18 Avatar

    Did you not Google him/his family while you were dating?

  12. zeroAndEternity Avatar

    What’s a habit or behavior of his that would help anyone retain or grow their wealth?

    Or, rather, is there no effort at all?

  13. ActivityWorried3263 Avatar

    How do we know you’re not lying and full of sh*t?

  14. Socal-vegan Avatar

    Does he have a brother? Lol. Jk. Do you find your current relationship differ than your previous because of wealth?

  15. StrongEggplant8120 Avatar

    does he do anything good with it? burseries for a gifted student, facilities for the poor etc?

  16. KyOatey Avatar

    What was the most difficult aspect to get used to?

  17. National-Animator994 Avatar

    As a guy who will be probably coming into some money, I worry about how I figure out that a woman wants me for me and not the money. Any suggestions? When did your fiance tell you he was rich?

  18. theoneandonlyvesper Avatar

    Sis enjoy your life but what things would you immediately get with that money if it’s no worry for the both of you?

  19. chanmanjr Avatar

    Not sure if this was answered. But what are some teachings or even conversations that his family has regularly, that you would’ve never thought of having while growing up?

  20. TheChipmunkX Avatar

    what niche is his family’s business in? like tech, or finance, or cement, or whatever. no need to be specific just curious

  21. secretbeetroot Avatar

    Is he conventionally attractive? Or ugly? Is there an age gap? Are you both different ethnicities?

  22. Socal-vegan Avatar

    Curious, you met him online, which site? I have never known rich guys using online dating sites. Are you both of the same race?

  23. Barry_22 Avatar

    Is his family name publicly known? Only in in the US or globally?

  24. Illustrious_Smile445 Avatar

    What kind of hobbies does he enjoy?

  25. Serenityxxxxxx Avatar

    Honestly I wouldn’t want to know either, want to fall in love with the man and not have the worry of being accused of being a gold digger lol
    Is this how you feel about it after finding out after?

  26. r3JAM Avatar

    Is it hard to give him gifts (birthdays, anniversaries) provided that everything is under his disposal?

  27. shitposterkatakuri Avatar

    Ur previous post about missing ur husband on a business trip after 7 years is really cute. Having your woman miss you so much is always a blessing. As for this AMA, what’s the most interesting thing that the rich do that we don’t know about as normies?

  28. Brainwithnobreaks Avatar

    Which continent do you belong to? Very few rich ones don’t have prenups!

  29. Many_Strawberry_4190 Avatar

    Which country do you guys live in now?

  30. Bionic_Push Avatar

    Are you in love with him? and were you in love before you knew about his wealth?

  31. bringinthefembots Avatar

    If you go to a dollar store, what gift would you buy for him just because? (no special occasion, just as a “hey I was thinking about you, here!”)

  32. 4yent10 Avatar

    If the circumstances were to ever change, could you partner with someone of a lower class with less or no riches? Could you allow your life to completely change without first finding a partner of the same status?

    Many relationships still deal with some trust issues despite what either offers. What stops you from becoming enamored by someone else for their character ? Is it your lifestyle ?

  33. ImpossiblePenalty624 Avatar

    Do you work? Did you work?

  34. LostAtmosphere4096 Avatar

    Does his family like and treat you with respect, or do they always seem suspicious of you marrying your husband?

    and how do you prove to them that you genuinely love your wealthy husband and that you’re not a gold digger and that you’re not motivated by his wealth to marry him?

    Im not accusing you of anything the only reason I ask is because whenever you hear of someone working class with a career of their own marries someone wealthy, people automatically assume that the working class spouse “must be a gold digger .” Even if that’s not the case.

    I, for one, tend to refuse to judge a book by its cover.

    But as I’ve always believed that people should be judged on the content of their character, not by their gender ,race,creed sexual orientation, gender identity, political affiliation, or ethnic background and heritage.

    I hope im not being too personal op I just wonder how you navigate the situation of being under such blatant scrutiny when all you did was marry a man you love who just happens to be financially affluent.

    Again, I mean no offense by my line of questioning here, and again, im only asking out of sheer curiosity and I just want to understand how someone with a day job handles being married to someone with wealth and yet never knowing if you’re truly considered part of the family by his relatives and parents .

  35. Arazi92 Avatar

    Best part of the wealth? Worst part? How much did your weddingcost?

  36. BabaSarah Avatar

    Has he helped your family have a better life?

    Bought them a house etc…

  37. _WrongKarWai Avatar

    Is it just his parent’s money or he has his own? Are there a lot of gold diggers (men and women) circling. Is he ‘old money?’ and well established family?

    I’m betting he lives modestly. Is that how he is by nature or he knows he’ll be targeted by jealous people if people knew. How are his speech, mannerisms. Do they reflect genteel upbringing? Can you tell he’s from upper social class or does he not have any of those mannerisms or hides them?

    What sector is his family wealth in and is it volatile?

    Do they seem like they worry about money or do $100M swings in the market not bother them.

    Do they seem like they’re ‘above’ the masses or do they seem like regular people. Did they specifically send him to private schools since young?

    Are there intra-family squabbles re: money or inheritances. Are people angling for positioning?

  38. kerouac5 Avatar

    My wife’s question: what’s the downside?

  39. herstoryteller Avatar

    does he have a brother who is single and would you send him my way please

  40. Jungle_Julia01 Avatar

    How would u describe his appearance? Average, good looking or handsome? How about yours?

  41. IRGWOTGrunt0331 Avatar

    Shout out to this lady for posting a AMA and actually being involved in the questions and responses. One of the most frustrating post is when people post and only answer one or two questions and ghost everyone else lol

  42. Few_Firefighter251 Avatar

    Super wealthy people are always surrounded by staff, colleagues, etc. Does it ever get annoying for you or difficult to spend alone time?

  43. Amanita_Muscariaa Avatar

    Do you feel a sense of “other” around his family like you’ll never fit in? I dated a super rich guy while homeless (he never found out) and broke up with him later because I knew we were too different and I didn’t want to take advantage but I never fit in with them in a cultural way. 

  44. tigbird007 Avatar

    What is your favourite date night thing, to do together?

  45. Full_Firefighter7043 Avatar

    Would you say you’re conventionally beautiful/attractive? Usually on apps looks are the first reasons they swipe, especially if a man has a lot of money they attract a lot of a lot of attractive women.

  46. JHarbinger Avatar

    This sounds either fake or it’s one of those “ask me anything and I’ll give you a half answer or dodge the question” type of AMAs. 🥱

  47. shockedpikachu123 Avatar

    Did he “test” you a lot when it came to splitting bills in the beginning stages of dating? Like he would ask you to pay or was he a provider

  48. CTU Avatar

    How did he manage to hide it? Did he live frugally when you were dating?

    Do you do any rich people things now like flying on a private jets or spend time at ultra exclusive resorts?

    Is there a reason why you still work?

  49. SecureWave Avatar

    What are some of the things you can’t have?

  50. Live-Smoke-29 Avatar

    lol at people believing this crock of shit. This is clearly BS

  51. oneplus29 Avatar

    I frankly dont beleive you tbh. He’s that wealthy he had to find a women online who came from no to barely any money from what I’m gathering. What made him chose you out of literally any other women in the world? That’s my only question

  52. AndiBO15 Avatar

    Well, in another one of your posts you stated that your husband is 1 year older than you. Whereas in here you replied to some1 and told them he is 3 years older then you. So yeah probably fake

  53. HairyNumber8775 Avatar

    I don’t know why you’re doing this, but you’re pretty clearly not Australian. Your writing gives you away. You’re most likely Indian and you have very little exposure to, or understanding of, Australian culture.

    A couple of examples:

    https://www.reddit.com/r/AMA/s/3SD3utfxMe

    Lots of awkward non-native sentence construction. There are two dead giveaways that you’re not Australian. “Born in the village” – an Aussie would say “born in a small country town” or “born in the outback”, etc. There are no “villages” here. The other is “humble, modest family” – a culturally loaded phrase pretty consistent with you being Indian. I’d wager that it’s not a phrase that’s ever left Australian lips.

    https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/s/l52H92SlzC

    Again, tons of non-native sentence construction. The clearest giveaway is “even though it’s not happening so” which is very non-native construction. It would make sense in some North Indian languages. A transliteration into Hindi would be “हालाँकि ऐसा नहीं हो रहा है”, and that reads just fine.

    Maybe get ChatGPT to help you out with your next troll account.

  54. Far-Back-5936 Avatar

    Can I just ask how do we know these are reliable? Does the moderator get proof or could this literally be someone completely making everything up. One message he’s the head of the family and therefore the busiest man in the family, but he still has time to read for hours before bed and also to go to a shelter after work every night and roll round with animals? All seems well weird tbf

  55. clever_username66 Avatar

    He’s a multi billionaire..as is his family..and you had…no idea..right.

  56. Dwarf_King Avatar

    I don’t know if people aren’t really paying attention or if it’s part of the schtick but did anyone actually check ops post history? Pretty sure this is all a lie to farm karma.

  57. Any_Pace2161 Avatar

    This shit is fake, and the responses aren’t answering anything either 😭🤣

  58. reddituser1306 Avatar

    Gotta love these made up ANA’S with the chatgpt responses.

  59. Kaipi1988 Avatar

    You said your current bedroom is about 10 times the size of your old house. Having grown up in a smaller home, does the house feel far too large to you? Or do you feel that the size is actually fairly comfortable? Also how does it feel when in public such as restaurants or shopping to be part of such a wealthy family in the terms of how staff treat you? Do they treat you massively different now? And if so, does it make you feel uncomfortable or does it make you feel good and can you give an example of how you may be treated differently now at those places versus prior if there is a noticeable difference? Thank you

  60. BeginningPhilosophy2 Avatar

    After scrolling through your AMA for a bit… yeah… not buyin’ it. I call BS.

  61. Tactipool Avatar

    Lol this happened to a girl who was in my just out of college friend group.

    She got dumped by a steroid rager, met a genuinely nice guy at the gym who was just starting to lose weight. She is naturally helpful and healthy so she offered to help him with his diet.

    They start dating.

    Turns out he is the son of a billionaire lol. They’re married now and she still invites us to stuff. Awesome guy, very down to earth & frugal. I can see why she didn’t realize how well off she met the parents.

  62. turquoisearmies Avatar

    After reading 5 answers I have determined that this person is full of shit.

  63. ohiofish1221 Avatar

    There are actually people that believe this? This is the most ridiculous fantasy story and responses I’ve ever seen. Holy moly a lot of you are gullible.

  64. Exclave4Ever Avatar

    Yeah I totally believe this is true 👍

    I mean every question asked is responded with: this person is the greatest in the world and does nothing wrong.

    OP you can’t remember specific details when asked, gives very vague generalized answers which to be fair WAS their claim in the first place, they have to do it that way 🤙🤷‍♂️

    If any of this is true hey good job 👍

    Still unclear as to why you would equate Reddit interaction with human interaction 🤔

    Everything that’s been said, asked, and responded to, are all surface level answers literally anybody could come in here and respond the way that OP is