In my own personal experience it doesn’t exist. Some men say they feel a cramp but I would say many men use it as an excuse to pressure women into doing things they don’t want to.
I get it when i was expecting sex and all oozing through dinner and then get rejected, it feels like slightly kick in balls, like i dont want to walk since it gets sensitive, I feel it will go away if i jerk off but that itself gets painful in balls, i just want to lay and not move much because movement in balls feels painful. Goes away after 4hrs or so. Happened many times
Has happened exactly once in my life, so I get why some people think it’s not real. It’s rare, in my experience. Just feels like pressure. Like if you’ve ever had a really bad sinus infection, but in your balls.
I’m not a man, but I TOTALLY get an achy feeling in my pussy. Like it’s throbbing. blood is rushing to certain areas, and they become sensitive and aroused. and when that blood flow is quickly cut off it will create an ache.
So yes it is real and it is also manipulation. But… women seldomly get turned down for sex. I definitely have been. And I know that feeling, in the heat of the moment. and I have complained about my pussy hurting and throbbing, and being wet. Which post arousal, can feel uncomfortable. This is sometimes how we feel after sex, if we don’t cum. or at least, how I feel.
I’ve had it exactly twice, previously I had thought it was totally a myth. Both times I was getting really horny and repeatedly “edging” in a context where we really couldn’t go further. I felt a weird soreness and pressure. When I checked, the scrotum was kinda swollen and tender and actually bluish purple! Jacking off fixed it nearly instantly, within like 30 seconds the pain was gone.
I had been so surprised, I had thought the “blue” thing was metaphorical, not literal.
It literally feels like someone gently, increasingly squeezing your balls. It will often also radiate into your lower back so it’s like you’re sandwiched with pain.
Jerking off will ultimately help, but the come down time, from the pain, will vary. Also, the pain will often make it hard to focus on finishing yourself off.
It’s only very mildly physically painful. If you’ve ever kicked an addiction or been really hungry or thirsty, you have some idea of what it feels like psychologically. It’s pretty psychologically painful and the worst part is that it just goes on forever. It keeps being painful until you can ejaculate. Even mild continuous pain can become unbearable, given enough time. It starts to make you feel like you’re going to go insane, if you can’t make it stop.
yeah so blue balls is like this annoying dull ache in your balls, not sharp pain or anything, just this weird pressure that kinda builds up if you’re really turned on and then nothing happens. sometimes it even feels like it creeps up into your lower stomach. it’s not the end of the world or anything, just super uncomfortable for a bit. goes away eventually, either with time or, you know… taking care of it.
Pain that extends into the stomach, with a feeling of discomfort. Dizziness, unable to concentrate.
Walking is torture. Every movement feels like a punch to the testicles.
No more desire to have sex because nothing is going right anymore.
Ejaculating is the solution, but it takes 2-3 hours to go away.
And you really shouldn’t move for at least 15-20 minutes otherwise the pain will almost make you pass out.
Seems like it’s not a forgone experience for all men. I swear on whatever you want me to, that it is real. It is painful. Like, debilitatingly painful.
Hasn’t happened to me since I was mid teens, really. Kinda feels like being kicked in the nuts.
Not the actual impact of a kick part, but the resulting aching pain that has you hunched over for several minutes to like an hour. Can’t really walk, don’t want to move at all.
Abdomen is cramped up and aching. It’s likely the closest a man can feel to women going through period cramps. Atleast, it’s the only pain I’ve experienced that comes close to what’s been described, so I’m sympathetic.
I once thought that “taking care of myself” in the washroom would help after an interuption of an intense dry humping, but it just made it worse.
I have no idea how that works, but maybe it’s because there was already a swelling of blood in my testes that adding more, even if I drained them of sperm, just made my balls feel like they were literally (I mean literally, not figuratively) going to explode. Total rupture. Very scary stuff.
It happened frequently when I was with this girl and all we could do is dry hump and inch closer and closer to sex, without having done it, or later when when we did, being interrupted midway through sex because of parents or something of the kind.
Totally real though. I know it’s got a bad wrap as being a manipulation tactic for guys to guilt girls into going further than comfortable, but all I can say is; you’ll know he’s not lying if he can’t walk after his boner is already deflated.
I think I’ve heard of women who can experience something similar if they get really aroused, but are abruptly interrupted.
It’s absolutely real and feels like a dull ache. Ejaculation is the touted cure… and that makes sense. But it is no guarantee of (at least instant) relief.
For me it feels like a cramp in the groin but if I have to be very transparent it’s not a huge pain and it doesn’t last forever.
I’ve never had it from just not having an orgasm over days or week, but being turned on and edging close without ever releasing does make it happen for me.
Like a slow throbbing cramp that creeps up on you. It’s painful and you sort of feel really weak at the same time. It only ever happened to me twice after I was close to orgasm but never had the release. First time I was wondering wtf was going on, by the second time I knew enough about it to crank one out before it got worse.
It’s a real thing in my opinion but the way the term gets thrown about so often as hyperbole I’m convinced 95% of blokes who say they actually have blue balls are full of shit or have never experienced what it actually feels like.
After 3 days of sexting without masturbating I can tell you its better to not know. I walk like a gorilla. It’s like being poked in the eyes constantly. Tonight will be a relieve
It’s kinda like being kicked in the nuts, but instead of a sudden incredible shooting pain that goes away in ~20 minutes, it’s slower and it fucking lingers until you do something about it.
It’s just a term, it’s not about the balls but the wien. Thankfully age has liberated me of those painful boners but when I was younger and super horny it would indeed turn painful. I think it is simply about blood pressure, it just gets so high that it feels like your dick is about to burst, think horrible migraine but in your groin. You do the belt tuck and it hurts when you move, if you go soft the pain goes away completely but in the midst of it you just think of release.
And the presence of women can be super agonizing in this state because without release it makes it hurt more. 🤣
Probably similar to a period, pain in the balls, lower abdomen and prostata. You get a stinging sensation which pulls trough. Even mastubating at this point hurts but as far as I know it’s the only cure.
First off. It’s 100% a real thing. I’ve had it a handful of times. Maybe 10ish. It varies in duration and intensity. It never lasted more than a day for me. At my worst it was like a 8/10 achey tender pain in the nuts. I recall one awkward sad wank because I had to go to work and didn’t want to be in my feet all day walking awkwardly. Ejaculation helps but isn’t an instant cure. It has happened from not finishing masterbating but it has also happened sporadically. As someone who enjoys edging and tease and denial, it rarely causes me actual blue balls. If a guy is using that as a serious way to pressure someone into having sex the proper response is to something like “Not my problem. No means no. Feel free to go jerk off in the other room if you are worried about it.” Then dump that jerk.
Pain in the balls, Lower stomach and surprisingly in the ass. It stings. It’s like you got kicked in the balls with lower pain but it stays … until god knows when. I once had Blue balls while hiking, it was hard to walk.
To solve it, gotta nut … but it hurts while doing so, so it just sucks hahahahaha
Only had “blue balls” twice and they were both when I was a teenager and both times involved very heavy petting for the first time in my life without actually getting off. Would assume it’s something to do with blood flow and how long you’ve been erect for?
Epididymal hypertension is unpleasant. Orgasming or ending arousal typically causes the unpleasant symptoms to subside. Like females, however, we enjoy orgasming.
Pain in the lower stomach and pubic area in addition to the balls. (Felt like it was a bad stomach ache until i make research on what i could be)
Had to litteraly crab walk cause anything that touched the balls would be painful.
The worst part is that you need to “release” to end to pain. But to “release” your balls have to move, hence, pain. So you have only half an erection, and it takes longer to orgasm. A fucking vicious circle of pain and i hated it.
For me it’s a sensation of extreme sensitivity, nobody is allowed to make them move. It’s a heavier pain the only thing I can compare to is if you over eat dinner and you have a pain in your stomach, it would be down in my testicles. Your body is screaming that it needs to make that release but in the meantime the sensation of sensitivity and heavy weight down below drives you not to want to bother it but you know you need to do it in order to release it. And once it has been released, the sensation seems to clear up rather rapidly.
They are real, but it’s in no way horrible or sufferable. It can be resolved just by ejaculating.
To give it a sensation you’re able to recognize, imagine doing physical labor for a day where you’re constantly using your muscles. The next day you’re in pain. The following day (2nd day since labor) where your muscles are still a bit sore, but you’re able to move around more is what it feels like. It is like a dull ache. I would say stomach aches are more painful.
Erections happen because of blood heading to the penis and blue balls occur because blood vessels open, allowing more blood to flow through, and close, limiting blood flow therefore making the penis softer.
IMO anyone saying they don’t exist never felt it, but usually it needs to happen over the course of hours (3+ hours).
In my experience it only happens when you’re with another person. Generally it’s getting extremely turned on by someone over an extended length of time but not having any release. Usually a guy can sort of calm himself down but once in a while it sort of gets away from him. As for what it feels like it’s hard to explain. It’s half physical discomfort and half psychological/ emotional discomfort.
A good example would be a guy making out with his wife in bed and spending some serious time on foreplay when they hear the unmistakable sound a three year old’s feet running through the house towards their bedroom because they had a bad dream. Usually blue balls will ensue.
I got my first blowjob at 29 and I was just nervous and found the entire thing just kinda awkward and I just couldn’t cum. I had pre cum come out like 3 times during it but it just wasn’t enough for me to cum. I spent the next 2 days with pain in my scrotum and trying to cum wasn’t rally an option since it hurt quite a bit
The odd times me and my Fiancée have sex and I can’t cum (I take SSRIs) I can feel tightness down there because the body was getting into a position to cum but it didn’t happen which can be sore sometimes.
I used to get it really bad when I was between 15 and 21. When I was really really sexually aroused for long periods of time without releasing the pain would come.
Imagine that you’re about to sneeze but someone reaches out and pinches your nostrils stopping you from doing it, giving you a headache for the rest of the day. Now imagine that happening in your balls.
I only had blue balls once and it is quite painful. Your balls hurt. This happened when I was 18 and after a concert when I was dancing with a pretty lady for hours. The car ride back I was kinda freaking out debating on going to the doctor. This was like 16 years ago so I don’t totally remember the pain but I feel like it hurt at the tubes that connect to the body.
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In my own personal experience it doesn’t exist. Some men say they feel a cramp but I would say many men use it as an excuse to pressure women into doing things they don’t want to.
Its just a headache but in your balls. A ball ache.
I get it when i was expecting sex and all oozing through dinner and then get rejected, it feels like slightly kick in balls, like i dont want to walk since it gets sensitive, I feel it will go away if i jerk off but that itself gets painful in balls, i just want to lay and not move much because movement in balls feels painful. Goes away after 4hrs or so. Happened many times
Well, I had chronic testicular pain for 10 years due to getting mumps at age 20 for the second time in my life.
Imagine something in your trousers that feels like someone is squeezing them really hard. That’s what blue balls are like.
I had that, plus intense pain to the point that I was begging the doctor to remove them.
No matter what your high school boyfriend told you, he was not in any medical danger just because you said no.
Forced consent is not consent.
Has happened exactly once in my life, so I get why some people think it’s not real. It’s rare, in my experience. Just feels like pressure. Like if you’ve ever had a really bad sinus infection, but in your balls.
I had it a few times, it feels like a light kick in the balls. It hurts, but nothing unbearable.
Guys using it as an excuse to force you into having sex are just idiots though
I’m not a man, but I TOTALLY get an achy feeling in my pussy. Like it’s throbbing. blood is rushing to certain areas, and they become sensitive and aroused. and when that blood flow is quickly cut off it will create an ache.
So yes it is real and it is also manipulation. But… women seldomly get turned down for sex. I definitely have been. And I know that feeling, in the heat of the moment. and I have complained about my pussy hurting and throbbing, and being wet. Which post arousal, can feel uncomfortable. This is sometimes how we feel after sex, if we don’t cum. or at least, how I feel.
I’ve had it exactly twice, previously I had thought it was totally a myth. Both times I was getting really horny and repeatedly “edging” in a context where we really couldn’t go further. I felt a weird soreness and pressure. When I checked, the scrotum was kinda swollen and tender and actually bluish purple! Jacking off fixed it nearly instantly, within like 30 seconds the pain was gone.
I had been so surprised, I had thought the “blue” thing was metaphorical, not literal.
No idea never experienced it
It literally feels like someone gently, increasingly squeezing your balls. It will often also radiate into your lower back so it’s like you’re sandwiched with pain.
Jerking off will ultimately help, but the come down time, from the pain, will vary. Also, the pain will often make it hard to focus on finishing yourself off.
Bro I thought I was going to just die. I think I was like 13
Achey.
It’s a migraine for the nuts.
This is crazy! I thought it was just metaphorical… I didn’t realise it actually hurt you guys
Blue balls isn’t real. It doesn’t hurt and it isn’t dangerous.
To the girls reading this, never forget: Blue balls is a made up excuse used by horny guys to get a blowjob when you say you don’t want to have sex.
Wouldn’t know. I finish what I start.
Not good lol i haven’t had since I was a teen getting frisky with girls but not finishing the deed because timing and location
It’s only very mildly physically painful. If you’ve ever kicked an addiction or been really hungry or thirsty, you have some idea of what it feels like psychologically. It’s pretty psychologically painful and the worst part is that it just goes on forever. It keeps being painful until you can ejaculate. Even mild continuous pain can become unbearable, given enough time. It starts to make you feel like you’re going to go insane, if you can’t make it stop.
It hurts just enough to ruin your day.
yeah so blue balls is like this annoying dull ache in your balls, not sharp pain or anything, just this weird pressure that kinda builds up if you’re really turned on and then nothing happens. sometimes it even feels like it creeps up into your lower stomach. it’s not the end of the world or anything, just super uncomfortable for a bit. goes away eventually, either with time or, you know… taking care of it.
Pain that extends into the stomach, with a feeling of discomfort. Dizziness, unable to concentrate.
Walking is torture. Every movement feels like a punch to the testicles.
No more desire to have sex because nothing is going right anymore.
Ejaculating is the solution, but it takes 2-3 hours to go away.
And you really shouldn’t move for at least 15-20 minutes otherwise the pain will almost make you pass out.
Not pleasant at all. I don’t recommend.
like this feeling before diarrhea but its in ur balls/lower stomach and not that intense + its pulling inside
I’m a 38 year old man and I still can’t tell by reading all these comments if it’s a real thing.
I thought it was some douchey thing horny teenagers say to pressure their girlfriends, or not even girlfriends into sex.
Now with all this variety in answers I’m still not convinced.
Seems like it’s not a forgone experience for all men. I swear on whatever you want me to, that it is real. It is painful. Like, debilitatingly painful.
Hasn’t happened to me since I was mid teens, really. Kinda feels like being kicked in the nuts.
Not the actual impact of a kick part, but the resulting aching pain that has you hunched over for several minutes to like an hour. Can’t really walk, don’t want to move at all.
Abdomen is cramped up and aching. It’s likely the closest a man can feel to women going through period cramps. Atleast, it’s the only pain I’ve experienced that comes close to what’s been described, so I’m sympathetic.
I once thought that “taking care of myself” in the washroom would help after an interuption of an intense dry humping, but it just made it worse.
I have no idea how that works, but maybe it’s because there was already a swelling of blood in my testes that adding more, even if I drained them of sperm, just made my balls feel like they were literally (I mean literally, not figuratively) going to explode. Total rupture. Very scary stuff.
It happened frequently when I was with this girl and all we could do is dry hump and inch closer and closer to sex, without having done it, or later when when we did, being interrupted midway through sex because of parents or something of the kind.
Totally real though. I know it’s got a bad wrap as being a manipulation tactic for guys to guilt girls into going further than comfortable, but all I can say is; you’ll know he’s not lying if he can’t walk after his boner is already deflated.
I think I’ve heard of women who can experience something similar if they get really aroused, but are abruptly interrupted.
It’s absolutely real and feels like a dull ache. Ejaculation is the touted cure… and that makes sense. But it is no guarantee of (at least instant) relief.
Beats me. I’ve never had them. Nobody I knew ever talked about having them.
I always thought they were a myth…
For me it feels like a cramp in the groin but if I have to be very transparent it’s not a huge pain and it doesn’t last forever.
I’ve never had it from just not having an orgasm over days or week, but being turned on and edging close without ever releasing does make it happen for me.
Like a slow throbbing cramp that creeps up on you. It’s painful and you sort of feel really weak at the same time. It only ever happened to me twice after I was close to orgasm but never had the release. First time I was wondering wtf was going on, by the second time I knew enough about it to crank one out before it got worse.
It’s a real thing in my opinion but the way the term gets thrown about so often as hyperbole I’m convinced 95% of blokes who say they actually have blue balls are full of shit or have never experienced what it actually feels like.
It’s precisely like a migraine headache. It’s a diffuse ache, like pressure buildup or if you were compressed by something
It’s feels like someone was kicking your balls in your sleep. Very painful and delicate
kinda like a charlie horse
Poetically, it’s like the pressure of stepping on the tubing of a water hose, with no garden to hose.
What actually causes blue balls ?
Splitting headache in your balls.
Like having an itch inside your balls that you can’t scratch.
Very painful. Can’t touch scrotum, painful to move, even painful to roll over. Throbbing pain.
That shit fucking hurts.
It hurts like a motherf#$#er.
After 3 days of sexting without masturbating I can tell you its better to not know. I walk like a gorilla. It’s like being poked in the eyes constantly. Tonight will be a relieve
It’s kinda like being kicked in the nuts, but instead of a sudden incredible shooting pain that goes away in ~20 minutes, it’s slower and it fucking lingers until you do something about it.
It’s just a term, it’s not about the balls but the wien. Thankfully age has liberated me of those painful boners but when I was younger and super horny it would indeed turn painful. I think it is simply about blood pressure, it just gets so high that it feels like your dick is about to burst, think horrible migraine but in your groin. You do the belt tuck and it hurts when you move, if you go soft the pain goes away completely but in the midst of it you just think of release.
And the presence of women can be super agonizing in this state because without release it makes it hurt more. 🤣
I think of it as a big disappointment. Like you really think you have a winning lottery ticket only to find out you read the date wrong.
Probably similar to a period, pain in the balls, lower abdomen and prostata. You get a stinging sensation which pulls trough. Even mastubating at this point hurts but as far as I know it’s the only cure.
It’s not something that happens to most men. I’ve never had it, and I don’t know anyone who has.
Men use it to manipulate women into sexual favors. 99.9% of the time it’s not real.
I’ve never had it
First off. It’s 100% a real thing. I’ve had it a handful of times. Maybe 10ish. It varies in duration and intensity. It never lasted more than a day for me. At my worst it was like a 8/10 achey tender pain in the nuts. I recall one awkward sad wank because I had to go to work and didn’t want to be in my feet all day walking awkwardly. Ejaculation helps but isn’t an instant cure. It has happened from not finishing masterbating but it has also happened sporadically. As someone who enjoys edging and tease and denial, it rarely causes me actual blue balls. If a guy is using that as a serious way to pressure someone into having sex the proper response is to something like “Not my problem. No means no. Feel free to go jerk off in the other room if you are worried about it.” Then dump that jerk.
Pain in the balls, Lower stomach and surprisingly in the ass. It stings. It’s like you got kicked in the balls with lower pain but it stays … until god knows when. I once had Blue balls while hiking, it was hard to walk.
To solve it, gotta nut … but it hurts while doing so, so it just sucks hahahahaha
Only had “blue balls” twice and they were both when I was a teenager and both times involved very heavy petting for the first time in my life without actually getting off. Would assume it’s something to do with blood flow and how long you’ve been erect for?
Pressure.
It’s like a strong ache
Epididymal hypertension is unpleasant. Orgasming or ending arousal typically causes the unpleasant symptoms to subside. Like females, however, we enjoy orgasming.
Imagine a weight inside your balls thats light enough to not rip them off, but heavy enough to hurt you if there is even the slightest movement.
Pain in the lower stomach and pubic area in addition to the balls. (Felt like it was a bad stomach ache until i make research on what i could be)
Had to litteraly crab walk cause anything that touched the balls would be painful.
The worst part is that you need to “release” to end to pain. But to “release” your balls have to move, hence, pain. So you have only half an erection, and it takes longer to orgasm. A fucking vicious circle of pain and i hated it.
I only had it once and by my own fault, because the girl actually wanted to have sex. It’s like a slightly sharper kick to the nuts.
Up until that day I thought it was a myth
I’ve never had it. This thead is full of TIL
Never had them, always assumed guys always just used it as a lame excuse to get a hesitant girl to get them off.
For me it’s a sensation of extreme sensitivity, nobody is allowed to make them move. It’s a heavier pain the only thing I can compare to is if you over eat dinner and you have a pain in your stomach, it would be down in my testicles. Your body is screaming that it needs to make that release but in the meantime the sensation of sensitivity and heavy weight down below drives you not to want to bother it but you know you need to do it in order to release it. And once it has been released, the sensation seems to clear up rather rapidly.
As a guy, I always wondered wtf they were talking about.
Never had it.
balls are tender and a dull ache in the lower stomach
Just a dull ache, if anything, at all.
It isn’t real. Manipulative men (who are also pathetic) use it as a way to guilt you into sex.
Like a stomach ache in the balls
I think the pain it can cause is different for every men. For me, very painful feeling in this area.
Never in my balls, but prostate congestion is real. Dull ache.
Imagine you bruised your nuts really bad
doesnt exist
They are real, but it’s in no way horrible or sufferable. It can be resolved just by ejaculating.
To give it a sensation you’re able to recognize, imagine doing physical labor for a day where you’re constantly using your muscles. The next day you’re in pain. The following day (2nd day since labor) where your muscles are still a bit sore, but you’re able to move around more is what it feels like. It is like a dull ache. I would say stomach aches are more painful.
Erections happen because of blood heading to the penis and blue balls occur because blood vessels open, allowing more blood to flow through, and close, limiting blood flow therefore making the penis softer.
IMO anyone saying they don’t exist never felt it, but usually it needs to happen over the course of hours (3+ hours).
In my experience it only happens when you’re with another person. Generally it’s getting extremely turned on by someone over an extended length of time but not having any release. Usually a guy can sort of calm himself down but once in a while it sort of gets away from him. As for what it feels like it’s hard to explain. It’s half physical discomfort and half psychological/ emotional discomfort.
A good example would be a guy making out with his wife in bed and spending some serious time on foreplay when they hear the unmistakable sound a three year old’s feet running through the house towards their bedroom because they had a bad dream. Usually blue balls will ensue.
Physically , there is a dull ache that feels like the second half of getting kicked in the balls(without the initially excruciating pain).
Punch yourself in the balls. Now wait for the dull ache. Voila.
I got my first blowjob at 29 and I was just nervous and found the entire thing just kinda awkward and I just couldn’t cum. I had pre cum come out like 3 times during it but it just wasn’t enough for me to cum. I spent the next 2 days with pain in my scrotum and trying to cum wasn’t rally an option since it hurt quite a bit
Kind of like a gut rot feeling
39 years old and never experienced it. I’m convinced blue balls is as mythical as those Australian drop bears.
The odd times me and my Fiancée have sex and I can’t cum (I take SSRIs) I can feel tightness down there because the body was getting into a position to cum but it didn’t happen which can be sore sometimes.
It’s resolved after I finish myself off later.
I used to get it really bad when I was between 15 and 21. When I was really really sexually aroused for long periods of time without releasing the pain would come.
Imagine that you’re about to sneeze but someone reaches out and pinches your nostrils stopping you from doing it, giving you a headache for the rest of the day. Now imagine that happening in your balls.
Nothing 🤷
Discomfort, but it’s not painful or unbearable
I only had blue balls once and it is quite painful. Your balls hurt. This happened when I was 18 and after a concert when I was dancing with a pretty lady for hours. The car ride back I was kinda freaking out debating on going to the doctor. This was like 16 years ago so I don’t totally remember the pain but I feel like it hurt at the tubes that connect to the body.
Dull to moderate ache in the undercarriage area
Quite painful, like you have cramps in your balls and peeing kind of helps but like it’s almost as if you exhausted both muscles in your nutsack
A tight pain. Almost like a cramp but duller. Most the time it doesn’t reach the level of pain for me just extremely uncomfortable?
Kind of reminds me of brain freeze but from my balls to belly button