Hey guys
Not trying to be harsh just wanna be real from what I’ve seen
Last year or so I met quite a few girls on apps like Tinder Bumble and all that
And honestly most of them seemed like they had some kinda emotional drama going on
Like it’s not just normal stuff
It feels like they’re not really ready for a real friendship or relationship
Here’s some stuff I noticed
One girl talked to me fine at first then just disappeared for a while and came back like nothing happened
Another one was always doubting everything I said asking too many questions about my past like she didn’t trust me
One told me she didn’t want a relationship but kept messaging me all the time and got jealous when I talked to other people
Some shared their mental health problems and wanted me to listen but weren’t ready to hear any advice or help themselves
I get that everyone’s got their issues and I’m not perfect either
But damn it feels like most people carry way too much baggage
Makes me wonder
Where are the people who just wanna connect chill and have fun without all the drama
What about you
What kind of people have you met on these apps
Anyone else feel like it’s mostly complicated people
Would be cool to hear what you think or what you’ve seen
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Hey guys
Not trying to be harsh just wanna be real from what I’ve seen
Last year or so I met quite a few girls on apps like Tinder Bumble and all that
And honestly most of them seemed like they had some kinda emotional drama going on
Like it’s not just normal stuff
It feels like they’re not really ready for a real friendship or relationship
Here’s some stuff I noticed
One girl talked to me fine at first then just disappeared for a while and came back like nothing happened
Another one was always doubting everything I said asking too many questions about my past like she didn’t trust me
One told me she didn’t want a relationship but kept messaging me all the time and got jealous when I talked to other people
Some shared their mental health problems and wanted me to listen but weren’t ready to hear any advice or help themselves
I get that everyone’s got their issues and I’m not perfect either
But damn it feels like most people carry way too much baggage
Makes me wonder
Where are the people who just wanna connect chill and have fun without all the drama
What about you
What kind of people have you met on these apps
Anyone else feel like it’s mostly complicated people
Would be cool to hear what you think or what you’ve seen
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They’re probably the target users for dating apps.
you don’t have to talk all the time though, not it if actually means something
that girl who suddenly dissapeared and came back might just be one of those cool people, that knows exactly what she wants, and is sure… but just isn’t compatible with you socially