Ive tried many ways to ask for sex from my bf its been months.
How do you ask for sex that actually works
(yes I’ve literally asked but he just didnt answer it)
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Ive tried many ways to ask for sex from my bf its been months.
How do you ask for sex that actually works
(yes I’ve literally asked but he just didnt answer it)
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Ive tried many ways to ask for sex from my bf its been months.
How do you ask for sex that actually works
(yes I’ve literally asked but he just didnt answer it)
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Is there a reason why “Hey, let’s go!” doesn’t work?
Your relationship may have deeper issues if directly asking for sex is not working.
>Ive tried many ways to ask for sex from my bf its been months
Such as?
Have you asked him what the issue is?
He doesn’t find you sexy. That sounds harsh and it is. That said, you didn’t give anything else to work with.
My wife will usually say, “do you want to have sex tonight?”
And I will usually say, “That’s a wonderful idea.”
Turn him on some how. Men might not be interested because they aren’t in the mood. You’re his gf you should know how to make him aroused and ready for intercourse.
The problem isn’t how you’re asking for sex. You need to ask why he doesn’t want to have sex. No one here can tell you why this issue is happening but him.
The reality is, it sounds like you’ve communicated clearly. The problem is not how you are asking, it is who you are asking.
Maybe try talking with him why he don’t want do have sex with you
That mfer is gay or with someone else. If hes sexually interested in you, there are no periods of weeks w/o sexual contact.. days, sure… shit happens.. but not weeks
Ask boyfriend. Not Reddit. If he refuses to answer, its time to go. Everyone, men & women, deserve to feel sexually desired by their SO & if they have to beg, its not worth sticking around.
Wanna do it?
Define months?
Not to be crude, but get on your knees and
😵 his 🍆
With good hygiene and at a healthy weight.
To be blunt and not trying to be rude. Maybe it’s your smell. Could be he doesn’t find you sexually attractive, it could be medical or any prescription drug (legal or illegal) or he beats his meat like it owes him money and can’t perform again after.
Maybe he’s depressed and doesn’t want to talk about it or something else mental health. It can literally be anything as to why he doesn’t answer and the first clue is by the silent treatment that it’s something. The silence can also be he might feel embarrassed to talk about it or isn’t sure how you’ll take it but you need to tell him to just come out with it.
Are you asking at really weird times? Did he just get home from working a 14-hour shift, and he’s already crawling into bed to sleep? Is he hovering over the toilet, throwing up? While he’s on a business trip in some other country? Are you sure he’s straight? (if you’re a woman, OR Are you sure he’s gay if you’re a man?) I’d hope it wouldn’t be going on for months, but is he upset with you for some reason?
Also, what has been his responses after you’ve asked? Just no, or did he say more?
Sounds like you need to shift your focus. Start spending more time on hobbies, friends and taking care of you.
Your guy shouldn’t be the center of your world. He will feel smothered and want escape, not intimacy.
Start disappearing more. He’ll notice and get curious.
“how much?”
It shouldn’t be an issue of asking but maybe his issue or a relationship issue. Outside of you asking, how often do you have sex? Is he the one that initiates? Have you had sex at all?
A woman asking would be a mood killer for me. She should just take her clothes off, and I would get the hint.
For most men all a woman needs to do is show up naked.
If that does not work and he can’t/won’t tell you why, time to leave. Can guarantee it’s not you.
Tell him to take his pants off
I can tell you right now that it doesn’t take much. If he’s in to you then he’d be into you. I’d say it’s safe to say that it may be time for you to move on or at least just be blunt with him about it.
Despite our reputation, some of us need more than sex. If he’s not taking your bait and he’s not making any attempt to fuck you then there’s a big problem that you need to discuss.
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Usually on my knees.
maybe he wants to wait until after marriage
My partner just straddles me when I’m sitting or laying down or they walk around in lingerie or something. There is no asking, they make a move or prompt me to make a move.
You should really communicate with your boyfriend and find out what is going on. If you’ve tried asking or just initiating and that didn’t work and he never initiates on his own that’s not a great sign. It might be something he should go to the doctor to get checked out or maybe the relationship isn’t doing it for him.
Could he be addicted to porn and that’s the only real way he can get off?
Did you gain a lot of weight? A lot of times that’s the culprit but the bf won’t ever tell their woman
A man not interested in sex, wow. I am sure you could find 1000 men who would say yes. If your needs are not being met find someone who will as well as love you.
You should probably ask why he won’t have sex with you
edit: typing is hard
Have you ever done anything in the past to make him doubt his trust in you? That did it for me, just suspicion, and completely killed my desire.
Only time I’ve dealt with that it turned out that he preferred men but another possibility is a side chick!¡!
Sounds like you have a deadbedroom.
Just ask me next time
When I wss the bf in that situation, it was one of 2 things for me, first is being with a pillow princess doesn’t make you look forward to the sex because we do everything while you just enjoy. Second is that love is gone and/or there is no more physical attractiveness
Hello, I would like 1 sex, please. Thank you.
“Are you having sex with someone else, if not please join me in bed”
Masturbate in front of him
Please sir, can I have some cock?
“I’m going to have sex, do you want to be my partner or would you prefer I find someone else”