I met a girl for drinks I was extremely attracted to and she surprised me by being very touchy instantly.She was constantly holding my arm and my leg as we chatted on couch. I also flirted a bit with her and noticed things about her. She said she couldn’t be out late and had to be somewhere in the morning. I didn’t think of hooking up. We ended the night with me driving her home and hugging. I sent her a follow up text that I had a great time the next day. She hasn’t replied in 3 days. I assume she just wanted to hook up. Can I recover and try her again in a week or was that it?
Men who hook up often, how do you know if a girl only wants to hookup with you? Could you also answer a date question?
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I met a girl for drinks I was extremely attracted to and she surprised me by being very touchy instantly.She was constantly holding my arm and my leg as we chatted on couch. I also flirted a bit with her and noticed things about her. She said she couldn’t be out late and had to be somewhere in the morning. I didn’t think of hooking up. We ended the night with me driving her home and hugging. I sent her a follow up text that I had a great time the next day. She hasn’t replied in 3 days. I assume she just wanted to hook up. Can I recover and try her again in a week or was that it?
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How old are you both?
I think you blew it. People like that don’t like having to expend the energy to hold your hand through the process.
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Lol man I’ve been there, just move on to the next one. Definitely don’t hit her up again if it’s already been 3 days and she didn’t respond.
Sometimes silence is the loudest thing someone can say.
Im not sure she wanted to hook up if she said she couldn’t be out late. She seems confusing and maybe just liked the attention. Seems like a gods amount of red flags to just avoid that whole meS
A girl looking to hook up usually is more open to you pushing boundaries of innuendo steering the conversation to a more sexual one. Her compliments will be more of a physical nature, will initiate more physical contact (sometimes by “accident”), might try to draw your eyes to her physical assets ‘oh, check out my necklace don’t mind the boob window right under it’, and most damningly invite you into her place for a ‘chat’ or ‘drink’.