Being appreciated for the little things, doing things that can be taken care of yourself instead of waiting for me to become available to do them. Communicating instead of being shut out. Honesty. When something is bothering you just tell me what it is instead of me having to figure out what it is…and then getting even madder when it takes me too long to figure it out 😥
Dependant entirely on the man in question, for me it’s remembering and acting on what I’ve said.
If I comment on how I like something and they get it for me I would be very happy. If they remember I don’t like capsicum for example and take the effort to change recipes so that it isn’t included.
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Someone that’s ride or die.
Beer, food and naked fun.
Being unconditionally kind to me, accepting me as I am and making me higher priority than social pressure
Appreciation, desired.
Respect, appreciation, sex. Pure and simple. Oh and fed
Being appreciated and respected
respect.
To be understood
Stop telling us we’re doing everything wrong and that we’re inherently defective. That and pet my head.
Being appreciated for the little things, doing things that can be taken care of yourself instead of waiting for me to become available to do them. Communicating instead of being shut out. Honesty. When something is bothering you just tell me what it is instead of me having to figure out what it is…and then getting even madder when it takes me too long to figure it out 😥
A woman whose sex drive doesn’t shrivel up and die a few years into the relationship
I got no clue :’)
Man it’s like the same handful of questions, all day every day.
A coworker refiiled my water termos unprompted and for no other reason than she thought i would need it, while i was on a 2 hour call. I almost cried.
Basically basic human can and attention hit deeper than you could ever imagine.
Dependant entirely on the man in question, for me it’s remembering and acting on what I’ve said.
If I comment on how I like something and they get it for me I would be very happy. If they remember I don’t like capsicum for example and take the effort to change recipes so that it isn’t included.
Whatever shows him how deeply you know him and what he really wants. To be loved is also to be understood on a deep level.
So if you remember something really he tells very few people maybe make him a gift related to it or something!