Please, just don’t judge us. This post contains fetish, kink and other sexual thing that might be to grotesque for an “outsider” to read. If it’s not your cup of tea, stop reading.
Yesterday I had a post about it on an other subreddit, you might have read it.
We (me and my girlfriend) are part of a fetish subculture, called feederism. I have been together with my girlfriend for 4 years, and we love each other so much. I didn’t gain too much over the past years, I just become a little bit chubby, but I’m still healthy. Sometimes I gain more and than I lose it. Our fetish is present in our everyday life, and we are quite active in some private fetish communities. My girlfriend with some of her “friends” organized a bet/competition. Who gains the most in 6 months wins. I don’t wanna go into the details, but trust me when I say it was 100% consensual, and every participant committed to something that makes them unwilling to either quit or lose the bet, and everyone will do whatever it takes to win it.
At first, it was the most sexually exciting thing that we could imagine. Than it become too much. 4 months passed and I gained almost 43 kg / 95 lbs. You read that right. The worst part is that out of the 3 guys, I’m almost the last. I’m the heaviest, so for me it’s the hardest.
Me and my girlfriend are really freaked out right know, it’s not a fetish post. She never wanted me to get this big, and there is 2 months left in which I should increase the rate of gaining.
We agree that we will do anything to not lose in it, so we won’t quit.
TL;DR: me and my gf are member of a feeder feitsh community, and we are in an weight gain bet which we don’t wanna lose, but I’m getting too big.
Comments
What does the winner get?
You didn’t fuck up. Youre just being dumb.
get help mate. mostly mentally.
The prize is a reduced life expectancy? Probably worth it, the way the world is going..
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What do you value more – these friends trusting your word, or your health and your relationship?
Do you find other non sexual actions sexualy exciting?
There’s no such thing as obese and healthy. Gaining nearly 100 pounds in 4 months is crazy, especially if you’re already overweight/obese.
It’s your life, but if both of you are “freaked out” by this weight gain, there’s absolutely no benefit to you continuing the bet. You’re already losing, you’re already upset about it, and now you’re doubling down?
Look up sunk cost fallacy
Destroying your health over a bet? Not smart
With absolutely no judgement on the fetish, I second that this feels less a fuck up and more dumb, mostly because you don’t say why you “can’t lose” the bet.
Just stop. Either do the thing you need to by losing the bet or…. OR… don’t do it. You’re adults. You can stop the competition and also not do the losing bet thing if you don’t want to.
You didn’t fuck up today. You’ve fucked up long before today.
Genuinely didn’t know it’s possible to gain more than 10kg a month, how many calories are you on a day, 15k?
lol go follow @fatteningfairy on IG and TikTok. She is fattening her boyfriend (https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTjgVRVNC/)